I will love the f--- out of you

a reply to: themightymerlin

Idk, I ve been told that I'm having a period(even though that is impossible)an not using my indoor voice, and then I batching, hence.

a reply to: Proto88

I just forget what they said, it is nonsense and I should've just whooped their ass and avoided it all but this is what this thread is all about-to forget all that # and move on-a a distraction.

a reply to: themightymerlin
Me neither (don't drink), but every single man
Ive met since I've been divorced does. I guess that's why in wrap my self in politics and ATS. Drinking for men must be a southern thing....... I dunno.

a reply to: Mandroid7
I think past experiences have made me this way. I'd like to meet someone but would prefer they could unction in life without a chemical/ They are either stoners or drink everyday. Then there is the long line of freaky deaky's.
I'd also like to add that my ex-husband who was a mean jealous drunk, broke my back. I will live with the repercussions of that for the rest of my life. I don't look like I am hurt, but I am.
I have by no means given up, I just think everyone needs to step on and crush those rose colored glasses and try to se people for how they are when you initially meet them and guard your heart......always.

a reply to: RookQueen

I don't commit to anybody's # anymore. so I feel you. It is nice to have someone, but I don't want to open myself to an opportunity that is actually a great risk long term. I find it better to just wait, if something is for you, it will come. If it isn't somebody I can do unspeakable things to well then I still got a sense of humor and life goes on just needs a little chocolate.

a reply to: themightymerlin
I don't know about you but I didn't guard my heart. Didn't know I needed to. I was an open book when it came to the ex and he pissed all over my hopes and dreams to be blunt. Maybe some day I will find a person that deserves my open book. I do hope so, I miss having someone to discuss life matter with and I miss having fun just doing irrelevant stuff, but Ima be alright if dont....... I do not miss being b****ed at over everything the said person can conjure up!

a reply to: RookQueen

Do you online date? My mental health significantly improved once I wrote that off.

I hope y’all know I’m nuts and I do really loooovvveeee y’all .. I was being a complete goof last night .. but I swear underneath this loooooovvveee .. there’s an evil that lurks hahahaha!! .. dual duel ..

... I have been married for almost 17yrs and love is freeeeeeee … live laugh love in the dirty south lol

and maybe love is a fantasy ….I seeeeeee….. it’s just love is all I’ve known .. but love isn’t a fantasy to me .. it’s a really beautiful thing and I want everyone to feel that loooooovvvveeee 🖤


Ummmm ducky dang ducky .. that is the best compliment I’ve ever gotten .. like hey lil penguin ..

a reply to: valiant
No, I despise onlyfan or fanonly however it's written. I just recently found out what it is, it's a cancer on these platforms too because all they want is subscriptions for money. Same with picture sub-reddits about BDSM, especially bondage you will find hundreds of these, just throwing out the bait to lure men into paying them money for seeing their pictures.

Yes three digit, not want to brag I don't know how many messages other's get daily in the first weeks after registering. My profile made it to the frontpage, the reason is I think that the platform pushed me there. I have roots in the Berlin BDSM scene and was verified by a lot of real life people when they saw my profile. Like hours later I had a full account, picture ful l description, tons of experience, verified by ID and two hand full how real life verifications from old playmates after a bit back and forth and some phone calls.

I think that must have triggered something to check me out, how they treated me, I think they might have seen me as a golden goose and put me on the frontpage. Personally I think, if not for the above, that I would have ever got so much messages and attention at once. I am now part of the staff myself, just a helping angel but I get how things work

I know Females get it far worse, you only have to look at this place or any other when someone posts a pic. Men get that but not even close to what you guys get.

You learn to ignore it

originally posted by: themightymerlin
a reply to: RookQueen

Do you online date? My mental health significantly improved once I wrote that off.

After all that? Yikes dude.......

Seem like to me youre just looking for someone to fill the void you have, no one can.......except you

a reply to: CrazyBlueCat
Bright blessings kitty

I see you're already appreciating the upcoming Moonday.

*hug*

a reply to: themightymerlin

Yea, amazing how they can just pour their emotions out like that, and when we do it, just get told to man up. Sigh...
I'm coming to a crossroads with my relationship, and really debating about it.

She needs me more then I need her, ill say that much.

a reply to: ManBehindTheMask

That is one way to look at it I guess but I don't have any void to fill, if there was there is plenty in there to keep me busy.

a reply to: ThatDamnDuckAgain

Yes, am with you there, some sub reddits are literal advertisements boards for exactly what you describe, when that wasn't even the intention of the sub to begin with. I mean I get it, it is not for me though but seems to pull many folk in.

I don't think it's a brag at all! I just am blown away at that number, especially if it's localized, like how many people have secret lives? I mean this is me presuming they are not open about it, but maybe that is because my life is so Vanilla so I am just not that exposed.
You're somewhat of a Celebrity on there then or a standard at least. That's honestly pretty cool, shows you have earned some stripes and respect in that scene!

It's funny because, now you mention you are a Dom, I thought, that actually makes total sense, because around here you always come off as commanding in your posts and that just gave me a laugh when I thought of the two.

a reply to: themightymerlin

hope you brought some beers bro

a reply to: valiant

like how many people have secret lives?

Plenty lol. When I turn on location search on all platforms, I get hundreds of results for a 20 mile circumference and I live rural. Sure there are abandoned or double accounts too.

It's funny because, now you mention you are a Dom, I thought, that actually makes total sense, because around here you always come off as commanding in your posts and that just gave me a laugh when I thought of the two.

Haha that's funny because my submissive side is much stronger than the dominant one. Well I may be more dominant here than elsewhere, but it could be my directness too, and language maybe? But I get what you mean and it's like a balancing thing. The clichee is old but still true, many men in powerful positions that have to make important decisions everyday, seek balance in being submissive and just doing what they are told.

These men that have the guts to submit to someone for a period of time, are mentally stronger than anyone thinking they are pussies for being submissive by choice. The fact that I am in charge is not what drives me and being sadistic is not what I like, there are other methods than just inflicting pain and I am not someone to be hired to stomp on things or something like that. I take no money, I do it for the passion. I never scream or raise my voice. Basically nothing normal people have seen about BDSM in mainstream movies is reality.

Without going into to much detail, if I have a sub that I know is uncomfortable in public and shy, I send them to get me something, at a place I know someone. Like I send them to a adult toy store and tell the personal (they all know me to give them a hard time (or not) and check the arrival time and other things. For their thrill and to ween them off that counter-productive behavior. It all depends on the person though and what we bespoke are the do's and don'ts and maybes.

They don't know that this information feedback loop exists. Many of the subs I had could literally shed some shackles and gained more freedom and happiness, stronger and with lot's mental confidence.

It's important to let the sub know after the session that they are on the same level, eye-to-eye as a human. That they are respected and valued. After care, so to speak. I am not a monster

I mean this is me presuming they are not open about it, but maybe that is because my life is so Vanilla so I am just not that exposed.

Little info: "vanilla", that term is mostly used by BDSMers that think they are something better than those who are not into it, nowaday. I say live and let live so I never use that term

originally posted by: ThatDamnDuckAgain
a reply to: valiant

like how many people have secret lives?

Plenty lol. When I turn on location search on all platforms, I get hundreds of results for a 20 mile circumference and I live rural. Sure there are abandoned or double accounts too.

It's funny because, now you mention you are a Dom, I thought, that actually makes total sense, because around here you always come off as commanding in your posts and that just gave me a laugh when I thought of the two.

Haha that's funny because my submissive side is much stronger than the dominant one. Well I may be more dominant here than elsewhere, but it could be my directness too, and language maybe? But I get what you mean and it's like a balancing thing. The clichee is old but still true, many men in powerful positions that have to make important decisions everyday, seek balance in being submissive and just doing what they are told.

These men that have the guts to submit to someone for a period of time, are mentally stronger than anyone thinking they are pussies for being submissive by choice. The fact that I am in charge is not what drives me and being sadistic is not what I like, there are other methods than just inflicting pain and I am not someone to be hired to stomp on things or something like that. I take no money, I do it for the passion. I never scream or raise my voice. Basically nothing normal people have seen about BDSM in mainstream movies is reality.

Without going into to much detail, if I have a sub that I know is uncomfortable in public and shy, I send them to get me something, at a place I know someone. Like I send them to a adult toy store and tell the personal (they all know me

to give them a hard time (or not) and check the arrival time and other things. For their thrill and to ween them off that counter-productive behavior. It all depends on the person though and what we bespoke are the do's and don'ts and maybes.

They don't know that this information feedback loop exists. Many of the subs I had could literally shed some shackles and gained more freedom and happiness, stronger and with lot's mental confidence.

It's important to let the sub know after the session that they are on the same level, eye-to-eye as a human. That they are respected and valued. After care, so to speak. I am not a monster

I mean this is me presuming they are not open about it, but maybe that is because my life is so Vanilla so I am just not that exposed.

Little info: "vanilla", that term is mostly used by BDSMers that think they are something better than those who are not into it, nowaday. I say live and let live so I never use that term

Where it gets weird is necassity over desire in my opinion.

a reply to: Brotherman
And expectations and reality along with it.

Many newbies or starters are overloaded with p9rn and have completely false expectations. To the point where health is in danger or even life. They have that fantasy in their head, probably accumulated over years until they find someone to play.

Then it's all different.

a reply to: ThatDamnDuckAgain

I want to say something but I am inhibited from saying it direct.

my lover has cancer, her treatment has changed things if I want to say the desire to have sex with someone dire sick for her happiness does it become a chore when I feel the fraility or is it necassary?

no matter what goes down I am on this ride even if the rails are coming off from the basic nuts and bolts.

I got some beer chits for you too friend

a reply to: Brotherman

I have a hard time understanding that second paragraph 100% but I get the direction. I refrain from composing an answer now, here, because there are too many possibilities and directions it could go.

If you want you can PM me the question and I will answer with my thoughts about it, the best I can, without telling you what to do. Just my thoughts on it without judgement.

Thanks for the beer,
prost!