Ever had a psycho date

I' guess I've been lucky, because I only had 2 really crazy ones. Well, one psycho, one gold digger. This was back in the mid 80s and me in my early 20s.

The first I met at a friend's birthday party and after talking for about an hour, asked if she would like to go out for dinner. She says Yes, so I pick her up the next night. The conversationalist from the night before was gone. Took about 30 minutes to get to the restaurant and the whole way, all she talked about was herself. I know some are very nervous on a first date, so I chalked it up to that. Should have been the first red flag.

We get seated and order, but all through dinner, she is rude to the staff, constantly complains about the food, the service, I mean just on and on about every little thing. Finally when dinner is done, she says all this stress gave her a headache.
I see my way out of this.
I say sorry, I'll take you home so you can get something for it and go to bed early. When we get back to her house, I walk her to the door and tell her I don't think we fit together and shouldn't take this any farther. She just gives me this flat look and says "You'll get used to me" goes in the house and closes the door. She continues to call me for a couple weeks and asking "Where are you taking me for dinner this weekend ? " Every time I tell her we're not dating and never will, she goes ballistic. Yelling, cussing and one time must have thrown something because I heard it shatter. Once, she followed me to a bar where I was meeting some friends and sat at a table across the room, watching me the whole time.

Her final call was apologetic and she was trying really hard to change my mind, telling me her hormones were out of whack because it was "that time of the month" I told her "if you're that crazy a week out of every month, I sure as hell don't want anything to do with you. At which, the psycho comes out again. I finally just hung up and did it every time she called. I'd pick the phone up, hear her voice and put it right back down. Even saw her driving past my house a few times. That stopped so she must have got her claws into some poor guy. I feel sorry for him, but I'm glad it wasn't me.

Yes . I married her. 31 years later she's still crazy.

But damm what a ride.

I dated many mr.wrongs …. Eventually I met mr.right in my late 30’s… dated for a few years , moved in together , . Got married 9 years ago And now he has started drinking excessively. Despite my pleading for the last few years to put the bottle down . …looks like I may be single again soon ….so if you’re in a good relationship , count your blessings .

a reply to: DAVID64

My wife dated a psycho nutjob 32 years ago.

She's still married to me.

a reply to: DAVID64

I can't believe after all this time that this isn't required viewing in all schools.

The hot/crazy ratio is pretty much commandment #1 of the bro code. Henceforth, may it be so.

Yes.
Twin sisters .
(It was the 70s, man)

yep dated one for eight years. At first and most of the time she was cool and we would have a good time. Every once in a while she would snap and start breaking #. Would get super jealous if i talked to any other girls. Would get pissed if I hung out with other people without her, eventually every other week we would be in a blow up fight and i got depressed.

Now im just jaded and it seems like every girl i meet is really annoying. I see my friends in terrible relationships, and i've just been turned off of dating for a while now.

at least i know what i want out of a relationship now and wont jump into anything right away. It's actually been really nice. Sold my restaurant and now i do whatever the hell i feel like whenever i feel like it. Goin to Mexico next month to check out the pyramids with some friends. super stoked.

a reply to: DAVID64

Never stick your **** in crazy.

No. But my dates did.

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
No. But my dates did.

Amazing how they were all named 'Jane Doe'.

a reply to: DAVID64

I got you beat...I dated a chick for about 3 months and after a while I was staying with her as her parents moved but kept their trailer when they got a house and let her live there. She used to have some drug problems but in the time I was with her never saw any of that and we spent most of our time together. As the weeks went by more and more I noticed little thing that's I should have listened to buy figured nah she cant actually be crazy. It culminated in about a week of fights where she literally denied reality and made up events to suit her...and I mean like legit made up reality not just well you said or did this. I ended up breaking it off and left and didn't hear any more about it for a few years. Then one day a current girl I was dating sends me a news article from the town we used to live in...she also knew of this girl. Apparently she and some guy had slit a dudes throat in the basement of and old abandoned church and tried to burn it down to hide the crime.

Talk about dodging the bullet...er knife...literally!

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Yeah, her name was Judy.

Dangerously twisted, from one end of her crazy to the other.

Judy was a full-on redhead.

**Mic drop**

a reply to: DAVID64
Had a a schizoid, nympho, alcoholic nightmare.

Took 5 yrs to get rid of her....

Seen the movie "Fatal Attraction"?

a reply to: DAVID64

I had a band back in the late 90s/early 2000s and my brother's love life was a prime source of inspiration for our tunes. This song was about his hands down most insane GF. Probably the craziest broad I've ever met.

a reply to: DAVID64

Most men love psycho women, as long as they have the looks to go with it.

Most women love homely men, as long as they have the wallet to go with it.

All the girls I've dated have been crazy. I don't actively seek crazy girls, but I've come to the conclusion that the only women I attract are the crazy ones. I'd rather believe that than believe all women are crazy, because that would be misogynist of course.

What I wouldn't do to find a sane girl who doesn't suffer from some form of insecurity or trauma.

a reply to: AutomateThis1v2

me and you both.

I feel like I must have already written several of the things I've read in this thread....

originally posted by: AutomateThis1v2
All the girls I've dated have been crazy. I don't actively seek crazy girls, but I've come to the conclusion that the only women I attract are the crazy ones....

I'm the exact same way. I eventually reached the inevitable conclusion that I must be f'n nuts too.


I'm actually glad that I've been single for the past couple years. There's a couple ex's, that it's truly frightening to even imagine what it would have been like living with them in 2020..... paranoid schizophrenic bi-polar etc...

a reply to: DAVID64
Been there, done that. Meeting someone more psycho than I am gives me hope that I could one day be considered normal. But at the moment...