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Narcissists PEAK on the Holidays

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posted on Dec, 22 2020 @ 07:48 PM
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ME! ME! ME! How does it affect ME!

Why do so many destroy.... in the pursuit of ME?!?

My sister is here right now. I drove 4 hours round trip to get her from the airport. Shopped for Xmas. Rigorous day.

I delivered my sister to my father so easily. All he had to do was show up at my house.

Yet he starts an argument with her (us) within 6 minutes after arriving. Continuing after an hour.

All for the sake of ME!

Begging for self awareness — where there is none.

Go on with your ME! See where that gets you....



posted on Dec, 22 2020 @ 07:51 PM
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a reply to: KKLOCO

How does this pertain to me exactly?






****jk, hope your holiday gets better****



posted on Dec, 22 2020 @ 08:04 PM
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Could it be because Holy Days are a cam created to make us greedy and cause people to spend what they don't have and the poor to feel slighted? Just a thought.



posted on Dec, 22 2020 @ 08:39 PM
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a reply to: KKLOCO

Have you ever heard the saying,
“You pick your nose, not your relatives”?

People put up with behavior from family that would get a stranger punched.
I rid my life of toxic people long ago.

Good luck with your situation.



posted on Dec, 23 2020 @ 11:09 AM
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originally posted by: SeaWorthy
Could it be because Holy Days are a cam created to make us greedy and cause people to spend what they don't have and the poor to feel slighted? Just a thought.


Nope. We didn’t do gifts this year. And I paid for her flight here ($500). So he’s got no leg to stand on. Dreading the next couple days with him. He don’t like nothin’ if it ain’t his idea....



posted on Dec, 23 2020 @ 11:42 AM
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I’m one of the last people you should take any advice from. I know that.

But Don’t focus on the negative and help bring it into being
Your father loves you and your sister dearly.

Sounds like you’re the adult in the room when he’s concerned. Be the change. Counter his sh#t with love and positivity (corny sorry)

It’s a devastating feeling when I get off side with my children, especially the adult ones. Takes months to turn things back around.

If he knew you were dreading spending time with him, he’d be heartbroken

(I don’t know you or him or any of your history, just two cents from me)
edit on 23 12 2020 by Breakthestreak because: (no reason given)




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