posted on Feb, 10 2020 @ 10:55 AM
a reply to:
strongfp
You're probably overthinking it, but I know where you're coming from because I have the same problem. I can never fully get out what I am thinking
clear enough, and it frustrates the hell out of me, but when I have ever said this to people, they are oblivious to it and say I'm coming across fine.
From my perspective, I like how you come across! it probably helps that I agree with you a lot so I'm aware of that bias, but stepping back I still
see no problem with how you express yourself.
I see a lot of people writing walls of text yet never really saying anything, that's the worse! Especially when they try to sound intellectual
purposely without it being natural, I just don't have time for that.
Where I grew up and in my life it was always pretty much, get straight to the point, be blunt, and don't skirt around. I like that style of
communication, I'm used to it, it leaves less room for interpretation, But when I have met people not used to that, it can be a bit rough, and then I
start questioning myself and doubts set in. I see you somewhere in there.
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