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originally posted by: rickymouse
Some people want to please everyone, to be popular. That is not a good way of thinking, because everyone is different and no matter how you try you will never get along with everyone completely. I tend to talk to people about what they are interested in or what we have in common and become more of aquaintences than friends with a lot of people. I do have some good friends, maybe about five total, but most are just people you know that you chat with occasionally about things. I do have relatives, but those are not really considered friends, my brother is my brother, this is way deeper than being a friend. My wife is my wife, not necessary my friend, her role is way more important than a friends role.
We need something to do, it does not have to be expensive, it does not have to be extravagant. Sitting around a campfire talking to some friends is better than going to an expensive restaurant and acting like someone you really are not. A cake does not have to be highly decorated to taste good, in fact the highly decorated ones usually taste worse than a homemade scratch cake with a good recipe. We are creating this problem in our society, we are focusing on our wants and ignoring our needs. There is nothing better than sitting around the table with friends having a good conversation over coffee and cookies or for some, a beer and spareribs.
originally posted by: dantanna
depression is like acne. you need to prevent it. if you have it, you gotta ride it out.
but its simple.
1. workout EVERYDAY.
there were no depressed caveman. there were no depressed farmers in 1750. why? because you had to get up and go outside to workout to get your food.
2. eat real food.
same thing. caveman and people used to eat actual food, not fakery alumnium added to frozen microwave pizza. or my friends order from the 'dollar menu'
3. socialize. thats why gym everyday is awesome. it forces you to go somewhere, everyday, and you will make friends.
4. sex. gotta have it. if you are a girl, its simple. if you are a guy, and you cannot hook up, you better make enough money to afford to pay for it.
working out and eating all natural will fix all depression.
dont believe me? if you are depressed, go outside and run for 30 minutes per day for a month. then tell me you are depressed lol.
i see too many people who outright cry on social media, 'woe is me, im depressed' i tell them go to the gym. but they are like kapernick. they revel and enjoy being the crybaby.
even if i am injured, i go to the gym. if you injure upper body, you do legs and cardio. if you injure lower body, you swim and do upper body. there are so many options.
do i have abs? hell no lol.
i go to the gym to get strong, and to prevent depression.
and it works brilliantly.
its up to you, if you want to cry, stay depressed!
if you want to change your life, just workout 30 minutes per day for 1 month STRAIGHT.
EVERY DAY gym.
it has to be EVERYDAY.
caveman had to get up, LEAVE the cave in the freezing cold to just take a dump.
none of these 'depressed' individuals would have survived it lmfao.
trust me, it works, and the gym is spectacular. join a giant gym with lots of girls.
originally posted by: LoneBird
Being around nature does help, I will admit that. But a fella might get too content there. Why run from the chaos of the world, better to sit right smack dab in the middle of the chaos, and rebel against the forced agenda of collectivism that is being pushed.