Prayed for happiness all I have is destruction

a reply to: Fools

Dude sometimes its better to just not post....

a reply to: Fools

Ok you must have missed two questions then...

Let me help your short time memory a little...

Your emotional involvement in that specific part of the OP story seems very odd to me, considering you have no involvement.

Or have you?

From the little we know about it, what exactly triggered your emotionally negative reply?

Sincerely NoClue

originally posted by: OtherSideOfTheCoin
a reply to: Fools

Dude sometimes its better to just not post....

Dude, don't care. Sometimes it is better to have an honest conversation.

a reply to: chelsealad

Chelsealad - the timing after the prayer could be a simple coincidence.

A few questions:
- did you take anything out of the church, any relics, stones?
- did you pray to the saint or to God?
- did you visit any occultic sites while on holiday, any "haunted" sites?
- do you believe Jesus died for your sins and have you accepted Jesus as your savior?
- have you had nightmares since that day or any strange sounds/flashes of things from corner of your eye?

Your answers will help me be able to determine best how to help you.
We can do this privately if you wish. It's all going to be okay.
I am running out the door but will check for your reply when I return and we'll go from there.

In the meantime: I speak peace, calm and comfort over Chelsealad and his wife right now. I rebuke all spirits of torment and destruction attacking him in the name of Jesus. I speak holy warrior angels to surround this man and his wife and his home and all that belong to him. All in the name of Jesus. Amen.

originally posted by: Fools
a reply to: NoClue

You tell me --- oh wizard of the internets

Ummm...I’m not the wizard...

Perhaps your response to the OP...was spoken through the voice of the experiencer...in other words...you’ve been there...done that...

Not the raping part...that’s not what I meant...the being in the OP’s shoes...but with the outcome you mentioned...


Or not...





YouSir

originally posted by: YouSir

originally posted by: Fools
a reply to: NoClue

You tell me --- oh wizard of the internets

Ummm...I’m not the wizard...

Perhaps your response to the OP...was spoken through the voice of the experiencer...in other words...you’ve been there...done that...

Not the raping part...that’s not what I meant...the being in the OP’s shoes...but with the outcome you mentioned...


Or not...

YouSir

Exactly. Thank you.

I prayed for money. Guess what? a reply to: chelsealad

a reply to: Fools


Ummm...your welcome good sir...

The human condition is ever my teacher...and I a good steward of it’s persistent life lessons...









YouSir

a reply to: hiddeninsite

How would you help, am just curious not trying to be crapping on your beliefs

originally posted by: YouSir
a reply to: Fools


Ummm...your welcome good sir...

The human condition is ever my teacher...and I a good steward of it’s persistent life lessons...

YouSir

Well there is always this weird trust of women I have come to understand as retarded.

a reply to: YouSir

Yup thank you as well.

How could I say this in a non offensive manner?

I know the pain your experiencing because something similar happend to me.

My wife cheated on me and instead of being honest she claimed to have been raped, later it turned out she was seduced.

I felt so stupid because I hoped she got raped so I could still trust her.

Is it more horrible for her to be raped or it's more horrible for me to be cheated on?

We both didn't want the other to be hurt.

Just talk about your experiences and the emotions you had, instead of projecting them onto others.

Sincerely NoClue

Satan hates competition.

Right after I hit post I will say a prayer for you.

Things will get better.

Life long deceptions are now becoming clear.

Welcome to the unknowing existentialism we all must endure.

a reply to: chelsealad

Not sure how your definition of being spiritual differs from being religious, but from first hand experience, I can tell you that God/Jesus made me put him FIRST in my life before everything turned my way. I kind of made a bet with God that I would spend more time with Him and work on our relationship after I was finished living my life the way I wanted to. That didn't work out very well, so I put Him first and now life is better than I ever could have imagined. My marriage, kids, life in general, have exceeded my original expectations.

a reply to: chelsealad

My two cents worth.... From a personal experience. When we pray for a blessing such as happiness, are we looking at it from our view point or Gods? It may be that God has something much greater in happiness or a blessing that we can not appreciate it unless some of the external is stripped away to reveal the blessing.

From personal experience. In 1986 I had been in the drug culture for close to 20 years. Started out smoking and some trippin. By the end I was freebasin and shooting that white stuff from way down south. Well to make a short story long I got completely delivered from my addictions no with drawls.

Everyone came by one time was glad that I had found Jesus but they were not interested since I had noting to sell. I could of looked at this as God you took all my friends away how dare you. Looking back that was an act of pure grace that I did not get sucked back into that life style.
My two cents worth.

I don’t think you understand prayer
Sadly God is not Santa or Buddha, you don’t rub His tummy and money comes out of His mouth
Christians, real God loving fearing Christians have it as bad or sometimes worse

Jesus didn’t come to make the world better, He came to change your attitude re receiving and giving

Sorry for your troubles, heartbreaking, but
Your idea of expectations are not what Christianity teaches.
If it was, every Christian would be wealthy and happy and have everything they want, everybody would be Christian

You played at faith and the world happened, it’s not how faith works

a reply to: chelsealad

Bad luck comes in 3's. By my estimation you are done; being 6 in.

1-phone
2-plane anxiety attack
3-stealing accusation
4- job loss
5-wife raped(your wife may need to seek help for this trauma)
6-found out Dad is not your Dad

You need to change your karma. You do this by helping people; it doesn't have to be grand or extravagant acts. Just small acts of kindness as you interact with people in your everyday life.

Wow what a terrible series of events you have had to go through. You seem like a well rounded person so you will be aware of the usual stuff like look at the bright side, you have your health and tangible things like money will come and go.

Truth is there is only one god and its not the christain one, in fact many so called places of worship are used for rituals to communicate and liase with jinn/demons. This topic is broad but basically one of these entities may have attached to you or your wife, it may like you or your wife and wants to break you up or it wants to create mischief. They can whisper thoughts in your mind and do physical harm to you and manipulate people and things.

I bet your thinking this guy is crazy and thats fine, I just felt I had to say something as I can sympathise with your situation and I am talking from experience and knowledge in this area. Anyhow there are steps you can take to guard yourself, I can inform you if need just message/reply.

a reply to: OtherSideOfTheCoin

A good question - help would be in the form of determining if any doorways were opened and advising how to shut them. How to use the name of Jesus to protect himself. Suggestions on how to pray. In a nutshell: spiritual warfare.

a reply to: chelsealad

I am truly sorry to hear this but if I may:

As an investigator who has knowledge about rape cases may I ask:

If your wife was raped why didn't she scream for help? You would have awaken right? Someone drunk can be woken up. After the rape why didn't she immediately wake you up?

Any marks on her body showing a struggle?

Was any of her clothing ripped or torn?

Was she immediately taken to the hospital for examination?

Does she have an issue with sexual arousal after the rape?

Do you two have regular sex after the rape?

I also noticed you said, you went to bed? And left two male friends downstairs with your wife?

These are tough questions and the police will be asking these questions and they will find the turn of events suspicious.

It will be two males against your wife's statement .... 2 against 1.

So if there are no scratch marks or signs of force I am afraid you will not get very far with this rape case.

I am only talking here (free advice) and take it however you want.

It is my professional opinion if you answered NO to any of the questions above, your wife voluntarily had sex with these two men while under the influence of alcohol.....meaning she wanted to have sex with these men. So proving rape charges will be very difficult.

Change issue:

The only true way God can judge man is through his character and actions. I do not believe you were hexed or have any demons chasing after you. You had a series of events (signs) that you need to closely examine. Whenever I get hit with many negatives in a row I know there is a message behind all of these signs. What is the message you got?

My 37 year old daughter was engaged and living with her partner for seven years. They were planning their wedding. She prayed to God asking if her boyfriend is the right one for her. A couple of days later one morning she gets up early and finds her boyfriend laying on the couch masterbaiting while on the internet talking to other women while wearing headphones, even promising to marry one of them. She finds over 400 women contacts on his phone that he has been in contact with concerning this sexual perversion. She found out he has been doing this since they met 7 years ago. She kicked him out the house that very day.

Everyday we are tested by God and most of the tests are not fun and nice.

Life is a test.

May God bless you and your family