Something odd happend and would like community input.

We want a small hobby farm, to start. In search of these ends, we would have to sell our home in the city, which we are more than willing to do. However, not without finding what we want first. Have to justify the means!

Was perusing Zillow a few days ago and found a farm. From the looks of it, the owners are/were having trouble keeping up with it. It is a civil war era home with some fairly rich history out in the boonies not far from a sleepy old town. A few outbuildings including barns. Well I went into research mode on the place. Spend a good few hours delving into it. Photos, landscapes, surroundings and how far necessities were. I kept going back to the photos. So much history and I found myself absolutely enthralled.

Fast forward to around 5am. I'm out of work and trying to wind down. The wife comes down stairs which is very odd for this time of day. She's in tears and spooked. Anxiety racing. She begins to tell me of this dream she had.

We (her, our son and myself) all arrive at this castle that I supposedly owned. I go tend to some matter and her and the boy go off for a walk. She loses her bearings and can't find her way back. Through all these rooms, some under construction, some with people from seemingly a different era (50s/60's as I would surmise from her description). Some things broken, more things new. There are people in these rooms and she asks where I'm at or states that she is looking for me. The all tell her the same thing with a friendly smile, "he's around front."

When I asked her why she was so clearly upset she said because some of the people she ran into were dead. Some she was estranged from. Some she just hadn't seen in years.

I calm her down and take my nap and she goes on about her day. When I wake she fills in some gaps and is feeling much better. It is then I show her the home I was looking at. Her jaw hit the floor. There were key things that she really noticed. Different fencing, the build of the barns, the firepit. An aerial photograph. She was just awestruck. It was (I don't wanna use the term exactly) VERY close to what she had dreamed.

So, what do you guys think? Odd coincidence? Something else?

a reply to: JinMI

I dont know man But i would think about a different place lol.

a reply to: notsure1

That would be an fairly reasonable action. However, we like weird!

a reply to: JinMI

A farmhouse?

It sounds like a relaxing quiet time.

I'd suggest a modern one though. Make sure electric plumbing and insulation is up to date.

possible fear of (major) change
I've had similar dreams when I've changed jobs etc.

hope things flow well for you

a reply to: JinMI

I had a farmhouse up in PA about 10 years ago, rent was 800 a month but during the winter I spent 750$ a month on gas for heating.

Thankfully in the summer I'd spend less than 2$ on gas but still, 2000$ to 2500$ yearly on propane alone seems too much.

I also hated shoveling my 200 yard long driveway when there was 2 feet of snow. Would take hours.

a reply to: ElGoobero

Possible. Although I didn't show her the property until she woke from her dream and I was home from work. About a 4-5 hour difference.

a reply to: JinMI

Stress dream.

Houses are the self, people are the emotions and broken and new things are circumstances in her life that changed her or gave her hope.

She is worried about moving as anyone would be on some level.
I think it leaked into her dreams.

a reply to: Darkblade71

I certainly agree with your assessment on dreams, meanings and interpretation of.

What is different is the time gap between when I was searching, when she had the dream and when I told and showed her the property.

a reply to: JinMI

Since all the people were smiling friendly in the dream when they pointed out where you were, I wouldn't think much of it. If she has recurring dreams of the same place with a feeling of dread, then I would be more concerned.

It isn't unusual to have dreams of seeing a person or place in dreams before actually seeing them in reality. Some people are more sensitive to these things. I have had many myself in the past. I do pay attention to recurring dreams and what I am feeling, sensing in those dreams. Those are usually warning dreams.

The place sounds wonderful by the way.

a reply to: JinMI

Sometimes the soul knows before the mind.

Premonition of emotions.

a reply to: Darkblade71

Yes, that makes sense to me too.

@Mrs Leaper and Darkblade

I get the emotional part. Her way more than me. When she tells her side, it's filled with "i know" "i understand." "i see." etc.

What really gets me is how she dreamed of the place pretty much as I was looking/searching and when shown the photos it was what she was seeing. Never seen or looked at it before last night.

a reply to: muzzleflash

I'd trade in every possession for the opportunity Muzzle. Just to put it into perspective.

The city is not for us.

a reply to: JinMI

Maybe it is more about the connection between you and her, than this place ….

a reply to: JinMI

Freaky huh...lol

I had a paranormal detector on my computer that used to spit out things that were relevant to what I was doing at the time in other places. Seems to be something along those lines. She was watching on some level as you researched because it is a major event for you two.

Or at least that is what it sounds like.

I used to dream about places before we moved there. I always saw the living room windows from the inside and had a sense of going or roaming...anxiety caused by moves. But it would play out in my sleep long before I knew we were moving.

a reply to: JinMI

Sounds like the introduction to a ghost / horror movie.

I think God is trying to tell your family something.

a reply to: Fowlerstoad

That is a fair point. One we immediately discussed do to the very likely link to a stress dream as Darkblade pointed out as well as us being apart and her 'looking' for me.

She assured me, that we are good and I to her the same. Nothing is off that we know of.

a reply to: Darkblade71

That is what we were casually inching toward in our conversation. However, as much as we may have tried in the past, have not had any success in attempts of mental projection or the like.

I just don't think we're capable ourselves although it is something we believe to be true.

a reply to: infolurker

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