Pornography: the not so new drug for the masses.

a reply to: Itisnowagain

I haven't but i don't need to. I've lived through the topic here and watched many a friend live their versions, but i will and get back to you.
My posts are only my life experiences related to express my point of view and everyone will choose their own paths based on their life experiences. But end of day porn is a drug and like any drug its how you use it and how often you use it.
if kids are axcessing porn then clearly parents are failing in their duty of care as guiding forces in raising valued functional members of society by not putting blocks on their devices which is another topic altogether, but in saying that no matter the conditioning that little voice still screams out and as stated only a ignorant lifeforce would continue on.
You can't honestly believe that if a girl sees ie a 3on1 shes going to feel post said 3on1 that that was normal and felt like doing it again. That little voice would be telling her a thing or two.
Only continued repetitive ignorance of ones self worth would allow said neurological pathway changes to somewhat normalise the behaviour. No matter what the influence.

originally posted by: oldcarpy

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
a reply to: InTheLight


"Did you also read Hustler for the articles?"

Yes. Of course.

Yes, of course. How else can you learn anything about sex, or how to do it right You guys may want to start reading Cosmopolitan so as to keep abreast.

a reply to: InTheLight

That's my story, and I'm sticking to it.

originally posted by: InTheLight
Cosmopolitan so as to keep abreast.

I often keep a breast......mmmmmmm.

originally posted by: oldcarpy
a reply to: InTheLight

That's my story, and I'm sticking to it.

Well, I did read Hustler, Playboy, Playgirl (except those terrible porn magazines with depictions of women being abused, but of course there were no articles in them anyway) etc. and there were some very informative articles in there, just saying. Too bad some of you missed learning what men and women really need.

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus

originally posted by: InTheLight
Cosmopolitan so as to keep abreast.

I'd like to keep a breast......mmmmmmm.

Well, I doubt you'd be keeping one long without the wherewithall to satisfy a woman in other ways besides the physical.

a reply to: InTheLight


Everyone knows that the female brain doesn't need mental stimulation, it will only overload and short circuit the thing.

a reply to: gladtobehere

You need to go read the original article. There was no control group making this studies conclusion highly suspicious.

a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

Quite right. They shouldn't worry their fluffy little heads about such things and should be making us a cup of tea about now. With biscuits.

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus


a reply to: InTheLight


Everyone knows that the female brain doesn't need mental stimulation, it will only overload and short circuit the thing.

Who is everyone? You? My mind and spirit are boundless when it comes to stimulation.

originally posted by: oldcarpy
a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

Quite right. They shouldn't worry their fluffy little heads about such things and should be making us a cup of tea about now. With biscuits.

Quite wrong and I will start calling you biscuit brains instead of you know what _____ head.

originally posted by: InTheLight
Who is everyone? You? My mind and spirit are boundless when it comes to stimulation.

Everyone with a male brain. Women have things they refer to as 'emotions' and 'hormones' that cause them to do illogical things like 'look for a deeper meaning'.

a reply to: InTheLight

I have been called far worse! Apologies, I was winding you up. Not being serious.

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus

originally posted by: InTheLight
Who is everyone? You? My mind and spirit are boundless when it comes to stimulation.

Everyone with a male brain. Women have things they refer to as 'emotions' and 'hormones' that cause them to do illogical things like 'look for a deeper meaning'.

So I guess all the men on the metaphysical and philosophical deeper meaning to life threads aren't real men, is that was you mean?

originally posted by: InTheLight
So I guess all the men on the metaphysical and philosophical deeper meaning to life threads aren't real men, is that was you mean?

Pretty much, yeah. They probably have top knots and are wearing mandals.

originally posted by: oldcarpy
a reply to: InTheLight

I have been called far worse! Apologies, I was winding you up. Not being serious.

I am sorry too and please join me in some Earl Grey tea and homemade almond biscuits.

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus

originally posted by: InTheLight
So I guess all the men on the metaphysical and philosophical deeper meaning to life threads aren't real men, is that was you mean?

Pretty much, yeah. They probably have top knots and are wearing mandals.

No biscuits for you!

Pornography: the not so new drug for the masses.

Politics is way worse.

Seriously.

a reply to: pointessa

Its what seperates the winners from the loosers.
I'm still an addict i ignore my little voice albeit only with cigerettes so im hypocritical to some degree and still a looser as per my own description.
But only people who have come full circle through each particular issue truly understands whats going on ehh. The understanding is just simply not there unless you've walked in the shoes of the addicted. I guess thats why x addicts are often found running alchoholics, gamblers, drugs, porn anominous etc.
As you said it takes a long time but still i haven't completely got there yet. So no doubt eventually I'll get cancer as punishment as i cannot to date reroute my neurological pathways back to pre smoking routes. Weak i am in that respect.
But in hindsight learned a lot, a hell of a lot about alot of different things but the challenge is to prevent future generations to have to learn the hard way. Something thats not for me unfortunately for my judgment day.
But i feel you, you soldier on and now you know the signs to watch out for so you don't find yourself in that situation again, and if you are initially fooled it wont be for long, you'll be onto them in no time and can get out.
Take care.

a reply to: InTheLight

Certainly, i'd love to even though I will be thrown out of the Bloke's Club.