Following the same path?

As a medium of 20 years I have previously stated I mostly pass messages from the other side. A lot of people would ask about the future which I could not answer. I can only pass on the information given to me.

However, my best friend who was sceptical of my ability did ask for a reading. Initially, I said no as I knew too much about him and thought it would be difficult to separate what I knew from what I could hear.

We have known each other from the age of 3. We went to the same nursery but parted ways when we went to different schools. After moving around for work, my parents moved back and I ended up in the same school as my friend. We then went to High School but before the end of the first year, we moved again. A year later, I joined a computer club and we bumped into each other again. We had the same home computer and enjoyed the same games. We stayed in touch until we left school.

We both started working but every weekend we would meet to follow our favourite football team.

Then, he met a girl, got engaged and moved in together. Our paths went separate ways.

A few years later, he called me. We started meeting up again, going to pubs/clubs. We talked about sharing a house but then, he met another girl and moved in with her. Again, our paths separated. He devoted all his free time to the girls he was with.

One day, I was on my lunch break, walking through the city centre when we bumped into each other. They were still together but it wasn't going well. A few weeks later, he called me again.

This time, our circle of friends had grown. We all went to the same club at the weekend, went on holiday together and times were good.

Again, he met a girl and moved in with her. Our paths separated again, but only briefly. He made an effort to keep in touch and meet up when he could but it caused many problems with his girlfriend. So, eventually, our paths separated again, until they split up.

All of this was over approximately 7/8 years and we were now in our late 20's. This is when I agreed to the reading.

This reading was different and was mostly about his/my future. I think I was shown so much as our paths were intertwined.

There were 5 main predictions in this reading.

1 He would pay off all his debt. (I didn't know until then how bad things were, I could only see it was severe. He then told me the amount, which was well into 5 figures.

2 He would change jobs and would be travelling a lot. (At this point, he was working in the same job since he was 16 and was the same location every day.

3 He would meet a slim brunette, with long hair and settle down. (None of his previous girlfriends were slim and he did say he had a type so wasn't sure on this)

4 We would fall out over a girl and would not speak for around 5 years. (He said absolutely no way would this happen and no girl would come between us lol)

5 We would meet up again, in a different country. (Even I didn't believe this one)


About a year later, his dad was involved in an incident. He was a train driver. He suffered severe stress/trauma following the incident and retired early, receiving a significant compensation package. He used this to pay off my friends debt.

He then met a girl, slim, brunette with long hair, who had the same name as my girlfriend at the time. She would become my wife and her his wife.

My friend was to be my best man. We went out to discuss the details and had a few drinks. The night did not turn out as expected. Just as he met his future wife, he met up with an ex and slept with her. He had asked for my advice and I told him, rightly or not, to keep quiet. He had only been with her a few weeks when he cheated on her. He decided to tell her, but lied, saying he slept with her the night before they met.

For some reason, he brought this subject up in conversation and had convinced himself that it happened before they met. He became aggressive, questioning why I would accuse him of cheating and maybe he would tell my future wife about events that didn't happen. We parted ways.

I married a few months later with another friend as my best man. Coincidently, his 5 year wedding anniversary was the same day as my wedding date. Also, he nearly ended his marriage that night by hitting on a work colleague of ours who also shared the same day for her wedding anniversary. Her husband was calm about it and said to me he always thought it would be me who would hit on her!

About 2 years later, I was out drinking with a friend and we discussed my best friend. He hadn't heard from him either. On the way home, I decided to call him. He answered asking who was this? He had deleted my number. I asked how he was doing and he said he was good, he was out on his stag night and was getting married the next week. I said good luck and i'm sure we would meet again.

Another 2 years later I bumped into his sister. She told me they had just had a baby which was premature and was in the hospital.

I sent him a message. It said I hear you've just had a boy. How is he? My wife is pregnant also and due in eight weeks, giving him the due date.

His reply said Are you serious? That was our due date.

We met up, we met his boy and nothing was mentioned about the fact we missed each others weddings. My wife gave birth, we moved to another city and time passed so fast.

Around 5 and a half years from the time I gave my friend a reading, we bumped into each other again at the supermarket. Him with his wife and little boy, me with my wife and little boy. They had also moved to the same city and he had a new job which sent him travelling around the country, inspecting cattle feed. Not the glamorous job he imagined.

Also, his wife was pregnant, as was mine. Both went on to give birth to girls. Months apart though.

Its now 2 years later, we havn't spoken for a year. I have baby number 3 on the way. I'm not sure what he's up to now but I expect we'll meet again.

Why I seen us meeting up in a different country rather than a city i'm not sure, maybe that's still to come.

Do your visions ever turn out to be false?

Does all of your information come from spirits? Are these spirits able to pass beyond the veil and back or have they yet taken the trip to the other side?

What was that last requirement you had for your future wife. The one that you would rather not share : )

Don't answer the last question because I don't want to be wrong in my version of the story.

I'm curious for the answer to ClovenSky's questions as well (except for that wife one, what the hell is that about).

Do you have a particular faith?

a reply to: Nostranova

Why would spirits be able to timetravel

originally posted by: Spacespider
a reply to: Nostranova

Why would spirits be able to timetravel

The answer you will get is something like, "In the spirit world there is no time." Personally, I have never understood that. It seems meaningless to me, but people who have demonstrated no particular expertise in anything will blithely repeat it as if they know what they are talking about.

a reply to: Nostranova

I'm not trying to be funny, but do you have romantic feelings for your friend.

As a stranger reading your story from the outside you seem to have a connection that is more than just buddies.

a reply to: ClovenSky

Not false no, sometimes 'not accurate' but almost.

A couple of examples.

I had a vision of my boy, months before my wife was pregnant. I described him to my wife. This turned out to be accurate.

My second born, again I had a vision before my wife was pregnant. I seen my boy sitting next to the baby who was dressed in white and was the double of my boy. I assumed it was a boy from what I could see. Nope, was a girl. She is the double of my boy and even now, he is 4 and she is 2, people say they could be twins.


I've been employed by the same company for 20 odd years. About 6 years ago I told my wife I would be leaving the company in 2 and a half years. I didn't know how or why. The closer we got to the timeline, nothing seemed to be changing. Then, the company made an announcement. My division was being sold as a separate entity with a new company name. We all got new contracts but the employee history, benefits, pension etc was preserved.

No idea where the information comes from. I don't always 'see' visions, sometimes it's just a thought that pops into my head but it's quite a strong thought, like i'm telling myself a story.

I don't know much about the spirits or where they are, i'm only guessing but it seems like they can cross back and forth.

The last requirement is something I cannot share. All I can say is its the one thing that convinced me there is something else we don't understand.

a reply to: KansasGirl

If you read my previous posts, particularly my intro post you'll understand.

No, never been religious. I don't believe in heaven/hell, God/Satan or the bible. I only believe there is something more that we don't understand yet.

a reply to: schuyler

That is generally the answer anyone gives and is the only thing I can think of as an explanation. I don't know though and doubt anyone does. Maybe we're living in a matrix and everyone's connected. Maybe its future echoes. Maybe time is in a constant loop. Maybe im just mental.

I don't expect anyone to believe me and I can offer no evidence. My wife is still sceptical of psychics/mediums but she does finds my experiences funny and sometimes comforting.

a reply to: JAGStorm

Ha ha, no. Strictly platonic.

That is the point of this post, it seems we are connected and no matter what we do, we follow the same path.

Maybe others have similar experiences.

originally posted by: Nostranova
As a medium of 20 years I have previously stated I mostly pass messages from the other side. A lot of people would ask about the future which I could not answer. I can only pass on the information given to me.

However, my best friend who was sceptical of my ability did ask for a reading. Initially, I said no as I knew too much about him and thought it would be difficult to separate what I knew from what I could hear.

I'll take one, please

a reply to: Nostranova

Likewise a "sensitive" recving imprints the last 55 yrs...you too know what we both feel, see, touch, observe, hear and watch past, present, future and the possibility of things, messages, visions and answers.

I'm keanly aware of what I see...may be nearly 99% accurate and come to pass as true....but not necessarily in the same time frame or places.

Question? What does purple/violet, red and gold hold in significance for you, if at all?

Thanks...best, MS

originally posted by: mysterioustranger
a reply to: Nostranova

Likewise a "sensitive" recving imprints the last 55 yrs...you too know what we both feel, see, touch, observe, hear and watch past, present, future and the possibility of things, messages, visions and answers.

I'm keanly aware of what I see...may be nearly 99% accurate and come to pass as true....but not necessarily in the same time frame or places.

Question? What does purple/violet, red and gold hold in significance for you, if at all?

Thanks...best, MS

Are you able to tell me anything about myself?

a reply to: Nostranova

The intertwined connection you have with your friend is a bit uncanny. It appears no matter what happens you appear to come back together like two magnets attracting & the synchronicities you share are also quite amazing.

Maybe you've psychically attached yourself to him for some reason ? Like an invisible tether ?
Or maybe your souls are connected somehow ?

I've always wondered this about multiples and siblings, are there connections not within this realm that bring multiples and siblings together for the Earth bound experience. I guess though we could imagine and wonder this about any connection we have to another human...

I really enjoyed reading your history with your friend, thanks for sharing.

leolady

originally posted by: Nostranova
a reply to: JAGStorm

Ha ha, no. Strictly platonic.

That is the point of this post, it seems we are connected and no matter what we do, we follow the same path.

Maybe others have similar experiences.

It's a curious thing or at least it looks curious sometimes. I'm not sure it happens to everyone, but in some cases lives do seem to be bound together. It's why I occasionally interpret human life as a story generator and we are characters in each other's life narratives. We can be exemplars as well as warnings to each other. Shakespeare beat us all to that possibility by several centuries. Alack, we alight on original thoughts only to find they're bright and yet dusted with age.

There have been several people whose lives I could believe are intertwined with my own. Not saying they are, but if someone proved that lives operated like that I would accept it.

a reply to: Kandinsky

Now that is a really interesting theory. We are all sitting in heaven, bored out of our minds. To relieve that boredom, we created this reality. At the beginning, we tried to all experience spiritual amnesia, 'born' into this reality to interact with each other on the physical plane.

Somewhere along the way we discovered that it was better if we took turns, with only a small percentage of us losing our memories while in this mortal coil. Don't you ever get the feeling of people smiling in pleasure with you for unexplained reasons?

But I guess paranoia probably lives down that path.

a reply to: ClovenSky

It's certainly enjoyable to speculate and to try to fit anomalous experiences into the consensus reality that obviously exists. We could be in a simulated reality being experienced outside of 'our' universe. There's a heat death for the universe and we might be existing towards the end and living these lives as escapes from jaded wisdom. You catch my drift? I'm only thinking out loud.

I'm happy to plant both feet down in this world and I accept all the Laws of Physics etc. Still, until we get explanations that satisfy us completely, little Fortean experiences and NDEs will leave a gap around the certainties. Your idea is as good as anyone's for as long as we have questions and imaginations.

a reply to: Kandinsky

Excellent, I love these discussions. It appears your mind doesn't travel in a straight line, down the accepted path.

Do you think that our combined memories (possibly aka wisdom) are painful for us when there are no amnesia blocks, like sitting in heaven afterwards? I would almost think like our past lives are some of the most treasured memories there are in existence, even on the spiritual plane. When our boredom creeps up, we simply daydream of times past. When those dreams of times past no longer satisfies the urge, we take another plunge into the physical realm.

Even though the only lasting effects of this reality are memories, do you think those memories could shape our soul beyond what would have evolved by simply sitting in heaven?

To make the game of being born into this reality mean something (real stakes), do you think maybe a path of rebirth consists of multiple reincarnations before we get to go back and relax in heaven? With each rebirth dependent upon karma from actions throughout previous lives, and most strongly influenced by the train of required rebirths before heaven?

a reply to: ClovenSky

Who knows? Perhaps experience is a great leveller? Not in the Buddhist sense of achieving Nirvana, but in the sense that it irons out the negative values of our existence. This world could be an opportunity for entities to experience the full spectrum of emotions and senses? I'm not confident in that idea because most of the world's population since forever has lived harsh lives. It's more an indication that life is what it is rather than a theme park for experience.

I would almost think like our past lives are some of the most treasured memories there are in existence, even on the spiritual plane. When our boredom creeps up, we simply daydream of times past. When those dreams of times past no longer satisfies the urge, we take another plunge into the physical realm.

It's an interesting idea isn't it? Some of our worst experiences in life are the ones which shape us the most. Becoming a better person rarely works without adversity. Speaking of dreams, there's still no overarching explanation for why we have them. Sure, every mammal has them which proves they're a function of biology and are necessary for us to exist in good health. The mystery element is why are so many like messages from elsewhere or glimpses of other worlds? Those interest me greatly as they (speculation warning!) as they suggest there might be an input/output channel on some level.

I have a book by CJ Cherryh called Sunfall. If I could find an e-version, I'd send you a copy. She uses fantasy stories to convey the same ideas we're both talking about. It's dirt cheap on Amazon .

To make the game of being born into this reality mean something (real stakes), do you think maybe a path of rebirth consists of multiple reincarnations before we get to go back and relax in heaven? With each rebirth dependent upon karma from actions throughout previous lives, and most strongly influenced by the train of required rebirths before heaven?

Funnily enough only myself and one other member have thought about this and decided we probably don't want it to exist.

All I can imagine is a bureaucracy running the show. There'd be hierarchies of judgemental tick-boxes and bean counters. I believe I've lived a very good life if 'do no harm' has any value. The thing is I can't stand conformity and the afterlife sounds like an Orwellian nightmare lol. For reincarnation to have a purpose, we should ask to what end? Reaching the finish line seems rather pointless or do we then get to be a God of a new planet? Reaching Nirvana or similar could be construed as a waste of great resources! All the best souls keep leaving the party, right?

a reply to: trollz

I've communicated with people before with impressions and observations, and have been spot on...also wrong...and as well...wrong 1st...and at a much later time, they've become truth.

I try to not get into this subject for a variety of reasons. Some don't believe, others don't understand, and a few will base all their hopes on the answers and believe whole heartedly.

In my life...I'm a realitively known musician...Google searching provides 1st page -up to 3-4 pgs on myself....as well Im a 1st Responder/EMT, author, copyrighted songwriter, lifelong astral projectionist and "sensitive"...such is my life. All have served me well...

I have a "Zen" philosophy to things...I always walk in the light, but am fully aware of the dark. I see both.

All this is to stress a point. I don't believe in absolutes. Right can become wrong, negatives can end a in positive.

My Lord, my faith, my ability...is how I see. And telling someone something about themselves from a distance? I would hate to provide something to anyone, them believe in it...and get hurt in the end. Honestly? That has never happened negatively...

You can always p.m. me privately, and I may go forward...or backwards for you...or anyone else that may ask.

All things and gifts are of God...and I treat them as such. This long-winded answer is why I don't have deep discussions on the subject.

Those sensitives sharing these feelings with me understand...but we will always...always...be there to help anyone who asks...and we will know who and when...

It's how this works...

Peace, Love n Light...Always...M.S.