Family Member Denial

i want to deny two members of family as my relatives. is it possible and what is the most correct way to do it.


Thanks.

a reply to: Damla

Uh, just ignore them.
Everyone is happy then

originally posted by: Damla
i want to deny two members of family as my relatives. is it possible and what is the most correct way to do it.


Thanks.

Ignore them and never speak to them again.

Works for me.

I have an entire side of the family that i just ignore.
No phone calls, no replies, no give a crap!
Took about a month, until they got the hint.
Been idiot free for 5 years now!

a reply to: Damla


I had to do this, and its pretty easy. Just stop talking to them, and do not call them back, if they call. If you are on any Social Media, unfriend them, and block them. That is what I did with my sister. Also, this is not my fault, my sister is Cray, Cray!

Her own children dont speak to her, much. They also, all moved away from her. Sad, but it is what it is.

a reply to: Damla

Stop treating them as family.

a reply to: Damla
If you don't want them to inherit any of your property, you might make a will.

this is such a vicious circle. it isnt working.

More nonsense.

What do you mean by 'deny'?

Are you looking for an official procedure to remove blood relations from your family? By definition that is impossible.

Are you looking to officially remove these people from an official document? Then obviously find the document authority.

Preposterous.

a reply to: and14263

why do you come to me like this all the time? saying this is impossible that is nonsense?

if it wasnt possible how could i come up with the question?

a reply to: and14263

i mean the first case.

a reply to: Damla

kill them and deep six the corpses - problem vanished

a reply to: Damla

It's not all the time.

It's not personal.

I do not like to see nonsensical posts on ATS.

If you sit, quietly and think (pretend to think if you cannot) about your post, really think about what you are trying to find out and the implications of your post - you will understand why it is nonsensical.

Also sit and think about what responses you might expect to receive... can you understand now why your post is nonsensical.

Now, I understand this may be your style but you must also understand that your style will motivate responses like those from user 'and14263'.

a reply to: and14263

i wil not fight you. come hit me.

lets summon some faith into the discussion.

You just walk away and keep going.

a reply to: Damla

It all depends. Some people you think you are really mad at, but if you step away for a few days, maybe weeks, you find that you can get along with them in some sense.

Other people, you just can't. So avoid them if possible and if you are in a situation where you have to see them just be polite as possible and avoid any of their "topics".


That's what I do and I have a whole # tonne of crazy in my family. Makes me wonder at times if I am the crazy one and they are all sane. :-)

a reply to: Fools

if there is great conflict at some place probably there is something i dont see there. ok i agree that was a rather messed up thing to say.

now i want to go back to egypt.