Is it possible that affairs that contain major sexual energy are for others?

a reply to: droid56

A direct response to the original topic in the OP:

More likely a character weakness that we would like to shift to somewhere else.

a reply to: droid56

I haven't been able to commit to one person for over a decade now, I've always struggled with it, never cheated, but avoid committment because I know I struggle with temptation.

Why can't people just be honest with themselves and tell the partner up front, sometimes I want to bring another person to our bed, no strings.

Wow. The self righteousness is strong in some of the responses to this thread, lol.

Replying to OP's theme, I've definitely given this thought, especially with all of Dion Fortune and Robert Bruce's writings on the matter of demons and spirits that can possibly influence one's character, why not sexually?

Maybe also as a perspective shift, some people would question their partner's infidelity, especially if it seems so far out of character. I know that may seem weak to some in the sense of giving the other person an out, but it still is an interesting question to ponder intellectually.

I've cheated in the past and have been cheated on as well. I couldn't say for sure whether I was being influenced or not, but being as I was more of a drinker/substance user in the past and being clean and sober now, it could be possible?

I'm happily married now, but I still have my occasional daydream. Be that as it may, I have not only NOT acted on them, but have had many opportunities I've foregone in lieu of, you know, being a decent husband. I can certainly attest to being a lot more of sound mind in these recent years, and more in tune with myself with meditation, prayer, and yoga. So maybe there is something to this whole thing after all. It doesn't have to be a crutch, but if we find evidence of it, it could go a long way in being more active in the prevention of any nefarious influences that could be detrimental to one's lifestyle, and in this thread's case, to someone's relationship.

Ahh the age old " is it possible? "

"Could it be?"

The magical three words that help sharpen occams razor .

Yes I guess it might be possible that extra dimensional entities feed off of sexual energy.

But it is more probable that the idea stems from the the fact that the subject is looking for excuses to condone its infidelity.

"Honey its not my fault I brought home V.D. ,honest, you just don't understand..there are forces at work here...dark forces... "

The extent of mental gymnastics some people will undertake in order to absolve themselves of guilt will never cease to amaze me..


Respectfully,
~meathead

originally posted by: apydomis

originally posted by: Illumimasontruth
Maybe some of us have raging #ucking hormones. And this is a natural thing that allows our beautiful species to survive. My girlfriend fell asleep early so I think I'm off to pornhub now.

She might have fallen asleep to avoid the touch of a pervert. I would watch out for the big break up.

Hey I was being sarcastic with that last sentence, but I'll admit to being just a bit of a perv anyway.
My girlfriend of 8 years is quite comfortable raising our 2 amazing toddlers with me. Project much?

a reply to: droid56

Could be.
When the 'affair' creates an illusion that the other thinks they are in love, therein lies the problem.

It feeds the ego, I think. People need that feeling. It becomes an addiction.

People DO feed off of one another.

originally posted by: TruthsSword
a reply to: droid56

Or perhaps some people are unfaithful dogs, with no conscience. Who simply give-in to carnal desires with no thought of others.

Perhaps they are unfaithful dogs, with no conscience, but males are put together in a certain way both sexually and in other way.

Some men will seek sex from most woman most of the time. However, perhaps you might like to consider the possibility that unfaithful dogs are unfaithful because they have a strong self image, a lot of confidence and the skills to chat women up.

Perhaps you might also like to consider the possibility that sometimes men who are faithful are faithful because they have no confidence in themselves, they do not know how to chat a woman up and nor do they have the confidence to even try and so simply don't bother.

Which man would you rather have for a partner and why? please educate me, thank you

originally posted by: Azureblue

Theres another way to look at it ......

Some men will seek sex from most woman most of the time. However, perhaps you might like to consider the possibility that unfaithful dogs are unfaithful because they have a strong self image, a lot of confidence and the skills to chat women up.

Smooth talking, shallow, insincere .... tell them what they want to hear

while checking himself out in the mirror, or looking over the shoulder of

the one he's with incase there's a better prospect in view!


A woman needs that like she needs a hole in the head ......

Perhaps you might also like to consider the possibility that sometimes men who are faithful are faithful because they have no confidence in themselves, they do not know how to chat a woman up and nor do they have the confidence to even try and so simply don't bother.

Could they be quietly confident (look beneath the veneer, *still waters run

deep*?) May be they are looking for someone *special* and want something

longer term and not simply throwaway? time wasters?

Which man would you rather have for a partner and why? please educate me, thank you

I like to take my time ..... and savor 'the journey' toward the destination.

You never know whats behind the image, it can be fun finding out.