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People who believe and feel they are werewolves need the help now.
originally posted by: yuppa
originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
originally posted by: yuppa
a reply to: WeAreAWAKE
Well since Medical science does not know how the mind actually works then all this crap should be shelved until its proven instead of punishing people who are different than the norm in the mean time.
But I have had my chemistry tested when i was younger and had more female chemistry than male. That was three decades ago now though.
Ok...then fine. But why would you now have to have expensive, brutal and mutilating surgery? An Alligator doesn't have surgery to become a frog? Why would someone like you need surgery to become something else??? Why aren't you just what nature intended. Why aren't you perfect the way you are.
Why is "trans" required? How about just call yourself...unique and leave it at that?
I'll tell you why...BECAUSE OTHERS ARE TELLING YOU THAT YOU MUST! THAT is the problem. THEY want you to join them instead of just being the wonderful, perfect, natural being you are.
So...who is your enemy?
Perfection is a lie. Nothing is perfect. if it was then we would not Die.
I said earlier I DO NOT need to have surgery. I cant afford it for one and I am unable to work to cover living expenses due to being dis owned if i told my family about it.
ALso No one told me Trans was required. Im not in the act of transistioning so thats wrong to begin with.
I accept myself this way already but if i could had started years ago i would had done it for myself,and not for anyone else. I f i do not know you in my life as a friend i can care less about you and your opinion.( I like everyone here on ATS btw so dont take that personal)
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
Again...they probably need some therapy to deal with that...but that would be my current suggestion.
Therapy alone has NEVER solved the problem of dysphoria. The dysphoria still exists and it is making them miserable to the point of suicide. Now what?
How simple do I have to make this...live your life as what you are and if you aren't happy with it, get some help. You really have only two choices:
1. Learn to love yourself for what nature and/or God made you.
2. Mutilate your body, become a freak and still hate what you are.
Sorry...life gives hard choices sometimes. I feel for anyone in such a situation. But butchering yourself is NEVER the solution. Your problem is in your mind...how you feel...what you think you are or should be. Maybe address that. And if as you imply there is no solution...continue looking.
Ignorant post. It is attitudes like yours that have caused many transgender people to end their lives because they are tired of looking. In reality, here are their choices: get therapy and transition to the point where your dysphoria ends, or... kill yourself because your dysphoria never ends.
your post alludes at a concession that there is in fact a mental illness component in this confusion problem
originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
I could be born without an arm but I'm still the perfect me...
Are you trying to imply that all transgender people are serial killers?
originally posted by: acackohfcc
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
Again...they probably need some therapy to deal with that...but that would be my current suggestion.
Therapy alone has NEVER solved the problem of dysphoria. The dysphoria still exists and it is making them miserable to the point of suicide. Now what?
How simple do I have to make this...live your life as what you are and if you aren't happy with it, get some help. You really have only two choices:
1. Learn to love yourself for what nature and/or God made you.
2. Mutilate your body, become a freak and still hate what you are.
Sorry...life gives hard choices sometimes. I feel for anyone in such a situation. But butchering yourself is NEVER the solution. Your problem is in your mind...how you feel...what you think you are or should be. Maybe address that. And if as you imply there is no solution...continue looking.
Ignorant post. It is attitudes like yours that have caused many transgender people to end their lives because they are tired of looking. In reality, here are their choices: get therapy and transition to the point where your dysphoria ends, or... kill yourself because your dysphoria never ends.
talk about the pot calling the kettle black
1. Learn to love yourself for what nature and/or God made you.
2. Mutilate your body, become a freak and still hate what you are.
3. get therapy and transition to the point where your dysphoria ends
4. or... kill yourself because your dysphoria never ends.
your post alludes at a concession that there is in fact a mental illness component in this confusion problem
29 And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
30 And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
originally posted by: Bone75
originally posted by: Konduit
Doesn't the B in LGBT prove that there are only two genders?
Haven't you heard? Sex and gender don't mean the same thing anymore.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
I could be born without an arm but I'm still the perfect me...
Are you saying that you would refuse to use a prosthetic arm to make your life a little better? So if you had a kid that was born without an arm, you would refuse to provide them with a prosthetic arm? Even if they begged you for one?
Wow, that's really sad.
originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
Lets come back to reality. We are not talking about what trans is...we are talking about how it should be addressed.
Kaylaluv stated IN THIS THREAD the only options are body mutilation or suicide. That is what she and her ilk offer you.
I suggest something else...somewhere from existing as you are with some help to accept what you are and getting mental therapy because (obviously) you are the biological creature nature created.
YOU take your pick...mutilation/death or help.
originally posted by: yuppa
originally posted by: WeAreAWAKE
Lets come back to reality. We are not talking about what trans is...we are talking about how it should be addressed.
Kaylaluv stated IN THIS THREAD the only options are body mutilation or suicide. That is what she and her ilk offer you.
I suggest something else...somewhere from existing as you are with some help to accept what you are and getting mental therapy because (obviously) you are the biological creature nature created.
YOU take your pick...mutilation/death or help.
It should be addressed however the person who is that way wants to address it. You or I do not have any right to tell them how to handle themselves. Life is not that black and white.