posted on Jan, 31 2005 @ 11:18 PM
Here is a little commentary on what "true love" is, not the butterfly feelings. This is supposedly the kind of love that will last.
Love is:
patient Not a lot of people are that patient. The most patient women I know are my mother and grandmother.
kind A lot of women are less than kind and down right mean. If she is anything but kind, she is probably not very loving.
truthful If someone lies to make you feel better or hide something, then it really isn't honest and open.
unselfish This is a good one, most people are only selfless every now and then. I don't think people practice this as a matter of life all
the time.
trusting This is a tough one, because to put blind faith in someone could set you up to be abused, making it harder love one. What were they
thinking?
believing Hmmm this must be the same as trusting or maybe it means that they have to reciprocate trust.
hopeful I guess they have to be optimistic in all things. I am not sure about this one either. Sounds like you have to not be realistic
about life.
enduring. Well this one is a clentcher because bad relationships end when all the above fails.
It is not:
jealous Never met a woman who wasn't jealous about something.
boastful Just watch those elimidate shows and watch how boastful those women are.....this comes from pride and thinking you are better than
everyone else.
arrogant This is also pride without the verbage really. Having a sense of self importance.
rude Pretty much a blanket definition of unacceptable behavior, but it varies in the eye of the beholder.
selfish Any time they put thereselves before you.
angry I don't know any women who have not gotten angry.
In short, good luck finding someone with these traits.