Ask her out for cripes sake TrueBrit...

a reply to: TrueBrit

I'm sorry, that's terrible that someone betrayed your confidence.
Well, now you know where you stand, so to speak, and although it may be awkward for a bit you can maybe both maintain what must be an important friendship in the long run.

There will be no romance, today, with this young lady, that is true. I imagine it hurts, not only the romantic rejection but, the betrayal of the other friend who I am sure only wanted/tried to help (?).

I've made that mistake myself and I will try very hard to not make that mistake again. Sometimes, we are clouded with wanting the best for folks and wanting to see others happy. Perhaps trying to change the reflection of our own lives but, often with good intentions nevertheless.

I digress. I believe that you can salvage the friendship between you and your lady friend (if you desire) and that it can be difficult to stuff down the 'romantic' (can't find another word to fit) feelings in order to keep that person, who you liked in the beginning for the regular reasons that we like other people, in your life as a friend.

Sucks.

a reply to: TrueBrit

This calls for a big warm Elfie hug! You'll always have your ATS friends. I know it's not the same, but you are not alone, we care...a lot!!!!

a reply to: TNMockingbird

Oh bless!

My friendship with the woman only needs rescuing from others, so it seems. It needs rescuing from meddlers, and it needs rescuing from over protective but well meaning associates, but not from factors pertaining to my feelings, or hers for that matter. My gut knew how things were anyway.

a reply to: Night Star

I know.

And I love you guys too!

a reply to: TrueBrit

I get it.

Still sucks.

Sorry.

I know you will be okay.

originally posted by: Night Star
This calls for a big warm Elfie hug!

I want one of those too, you have Legolas' number?

a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

No, I am the keeper of that number and no,
you can't have it!

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus

originally posted by: Night Star
This calls for a big warm Elfie hug!

I want one of those too, you have Legolas' number?

LOL! I gave his number to Bird. They are the cutest couple ever!

originally posted by: TrueBrit
a reply to: Night Star

I know.

And I love you guys too!

originally posted by: Night Star
LOL! I gave his number to Bird. They are the cutest couple ever!

Guess I am going Hobbit.

And once you go Bilbo you'll never need a........hmmmm.......I'm stuck, someone help me out here, what word rhymes with Bilbo?

a reply to: AugustusMasonicus
I know a word that starts with "D" and ends with "O" that sounds like it. I might get in trouble if I said it though.

a reply to: Skid Mark

'Dingo'?



No thanks, they bite.

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus

originally posted by: Night Star
LOL! I gave his number to Bird. They are the cutest couple ever!

Guess I am going Hobbit.

And once you go Bilbo you'll never need a........hmmmm.......I'm stuck, someone help me out here, what word rhymes with Bilbo?

droopy longbow?

I don't know *shrugs* it rhymes.

a reply to: AugustusMasonicus
Nope. There is no "G" or "N" in the word but there is an "L" and another "D".

a reply to: Skid Mark

Whats a didlo .

a reply to: hutch622
It's a town in Newfoundland. Next question, please.

I know this one is terribly crap TrueBrit but I keep my promise :



Now ask her out...

Warmest respects

Lags

a reply to: Lagomorphe

Bit late for all that, Lag.

I found the truth by another route, and all is as I expected. She does not see me that way. Now is a time to apply myself to work, friends, and other elements of the two part epoxy of the soul.