Hi Pocket,
If that's you on your avatar pic... then believe me girl you look really good... nothing to worry about there.
I agree with most of the posts,... weight and size don't matter that much to me. What i care about is:
First of all, a shining personallity
second, a good looking face
third, a hygenic appearance
fourth, an overall figure that says that the woman in question is healthy (no skin and bones or real FAT).
That last one seems to be hard to define... but i see it like this. Women with a petite body and breasts that look like inflated balloons and thus
don't match the overall figure are less attractive than a woman who's well proportioned (even if she's "small").
I myself like a woman that looks good and has a slim figure ("Halley Berry" type). But the best time I've ever had with a woman was with a woman
that was well rounded (let's say someone that wouldn't win at a swimsuit contest).
Love and attraction are funny things... Most men think they want a woman like Cindy Crawford or Halley Berry, but when they meet the right person they
will fall head over heels in love with a woman that most of the time doesn't even remotely look anything like them.
Shure we all want to date a supermodel, both men and women... but when it really comes down to it... well you know.
But to answer your question... both fat (as in very fat) and thin (as in very thin) aren't really attractive. Overall I see my friends go for the
thinner type rather than the more rounded type of girl. As long as you're well balanced and healthy i think it doesn't matter much.
But to be really honest I'd rather talk to/ go out with the kind of woman you have as your avatar than an Anna Nicole Smith (of today) or Big
breasted playboy centerfold. And i mean it.
But now i'm intrigued... why would you as this question... You had some troubles with the guys? Or just interested in the "all be it limited
"
activities in men's brains...
I must say that i'd also like to know what women like too... cuz to me it seems that "most" women like a rough and tough muscular man that in the
end don't really know what a woman wants (the "Rambo/Brad Pitt" type). Instead of a sweet loving man that 'd never ever think of hurting a womans
feelings that knows exactly what a woman likes (the "friend" type).
Well enough of my ramblings...
I hope i didn't offend anyone. Surely isn't my intention.
Peace
MrFreeze