I can't talk to girls. Is it ME or Them

a reply to: KevinIsZebraman

the evil fat nature hating Marc Colengalo's class.

Typo


I googled the name..
" Marc Colengalo's "
It lead straight to your linkden.

Is that your real name?

I remember that it was the last day of class at that Bumber. There was that beautiful Russian girl. When she's horny, she blushes red in her face. I called her the Blushin Russian.

She said stuff like I'm cute and hot, he has anxiety but it's cute.

On the last day, she was wearing a dress. We were one of the final people in the class. I should have gone up to her and asked her on a date. But I was too afraid; I feared she could have had a husband. She said she was born in the Soviet Union.

Then I left knowing I wouldn't be seeing her every Thursday anymore. It really hurt to be away from her. It still does.

a reply to: Bigburgh

Kevin Galasinao is my real name.

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originally posted by: KevinIsZebraman
I remember that it was the last day of class at that Bumber. There was that beautiful Russian girl. When she's horny, she blushes red in her face. I called her the Blushin Russian.

She said stuff like I'm cute and hot, he has anxiety but it's cute.

On the last day, she was wearing a dress. We were one of the final people in the class. I should have gone up to her and asked her on a date. But I was too afraid; I feared she could have had a husband. She said she was born in the Soviet Union.

Then I left knowing I wouldn't be seeing her every Thursday anymore. It really hurt to be away from her. It still does.

Sorry for that loss. If i had a nickel for everytime my shyness got in the way. I'd be Rich!
But sometimes, you got to have a little faith. Put on a smile, and say nothing. Keep them guessing. It has worked for me.
I'm 42, and one of the ugliest guys anyone could meet. But somehow even I have met some amazing people, and the most amazing ladies over the years.




See.. im hideously gross!

a reply to: KevinIsZebraman

I'M A VIRGIN THOUGH!

Yeah we can tell by your picture..

Ha, just messin w ya.

There are people, especially at Bumber Humber college who know I know important stuff but mock me for not being social. I HAVE SOCIAL ANXIETY AND I'M A MISANTHROPE! I'm a misanthropic loner who hates the human race because of the evil humans.. I'm a loner. I don't humans. I keep to myself. But damn, some of sheeple girls and women are hot... WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

Your fear of humans are not unfounded. Some can be harmful, detrimental, but you can't put everybody into one boat. Maybe some of these girls can surprise you, and are not as Sheeple as you think. Though generally the really hot ones are more likely Sheeple.

a reply to: KevinIsZebraman
Lower your ego as far as seeing them as sheeple and evaluate your expectations. Good luck

a reply to: KevinIsZebraman

It'd be you!

It's everyone else with with no social skills.

And most conspiracy people are more sheeple than the average person. They feel they are more self aware/ self righteous (like your response) but are looking for answers and will latch on to alternative viewpoints.

Basically," conspiracy people are trying to be different like everyone else" (GEMMY et al 2016)

a reply to: GemmyMcGemJew

I disagree. And to Kevin... Yes let them do the talking. Figure out what they like. Keep them happy. Never let them get bored.

Practice small talk. Learn body language. Smile. Eye contact. And confidence. Even in things that seem mundane. Even if you are faking it. Confidence kills. But don't spend too much time or seem desperate.
Good luck

a reply to: KevinIsZebraman

I will also mention this since I would have liked to have heard something like this when I was younger..

Living with a significant other, family and all of that can potentially be a higher quality of life if its right.

Just from a purely practical viewpoint, living on your own (once your living on your own..) can be difficult. You have to do everything. The cleaning, shopping, cooking, etc.. and then on top of that you have to do all the earning. It can be overwhelming to do all on your own.

It is not easy to find someone you really like, that you do not mind living with, so the longer you have that in mind, the easier it might be to find someone like that.

On the other hand, being with the wrong person might be hellish and a lot worse, not to mention all the inherent problems in all affectionate relationships.

From a female perspective, you are a bit unconventional and that is totally ok. Woman are vary with their tastes and personalities. Some women won't have any interest in you, others will find you fascinating. As difficult as it is, you need to strike up conversations with a variety of women. The more of us you speak to, the easier it will get. The reason some guys seem to get all the girls is because they talk to a larger number of girls than shy guys.

Try to see the good in peopleIf you are too focused on watching out for evil, you will miss the beauty in people. Also, don't mock people. It makes you appear to be beneath the people you are mocking in women's eyes.

originally posted by: Bigburgh
a reply to: KevinIsZebraman

Ok ok... now.
Have you ever spoken in a manner that you don't refer to yourself in third person?
Aaand stop putting the word "rape" in all your post.
I love animals very much. But have you ever seen a Hormonal Dolphin?

At some point in life... you need to put that guard down. And try giving another human being some trust. I have been scorned so many times myself. Buy women and by co-workers. But that does not mean i have to pass judgement on someone i just met.

Take a breath and start fresh. You have a whole life ahead of you right? 😊

you could have not been offensive in your first post, and said this all along.

some of us dont deal with things the same as everyone else.

Doesnt make us worthy of ridicule.

a reply to: KevinIsZebraman

I used to think we conspiracy people were so smart that we didn't need to interact with the brainwashed sheeple people.

that statment alone demonstrates how smart you are. Consirpacy people just have more questions than answers and most answers are opinionated. there are so many decent people that dont look into conspiracies.

Maybe try and find similarites with people rather than differences. I have gay mates, religiouse mates and all sorts. You just dont discuss the topics yo udont agree on like Religion, but we have more to dicuss on what sports team they like and places to eat.

i feel you judge everyone from the outset and spend too much time being at home. Get away from the computer and do something, even if its a walk. Its a nice world outside but the tv screen will tell you otherwise.

be a man and aks them on a date! come on Mate man up abit!

Yeah, well....I'd say running around in a zebra costume and believing you're fighting crime may just have something to do with it.
But that's just me.

Therapy. Get some therapy.

I think I need to take a break from ATS for a little while. I saw ME in the title and thought you were asking if the Mandela Effect was to blame.


I don't really have any advice for you, as I'm a bit of a socially awkward loner myself. My first girlfriend asked me out, not the other way around... after we broke up, I like to forget about that portion of my life for the most part, but anyway, I was desperate to fill a void that had been left behind and rushed into another relationship and wanted to make that one last, I got carried away, had a kid, got married, separated and divorced... then I met a kinda shy girl on the internet who lived 600 miles away but was just crazy enough to drive down here to meet me while I was still technically married but I didn't have a reliable car. Well, technically we met a long time ago on the internet but had just started talking again.

Anyhow, she's awesome and now everything is great.

So, I don't know what to say other than the age-old "you'll find someone"/"there's someone out there for you". Sorry, but that's about the extent of my socially awkward loner advice.

Get pokemon go. Easy ice breaker and shared interest. Be shocked how many attractive women play it.

And just remember your quest for niche knowledge doesn't make you more intelligent/less brainwashed than those that show no interest in it.

If you believe knowledge is based on intelligence than you have far greater issues than trying to speak to women.

a reply to: KevinIsZebraman

I suggest changing your outlook towards women and people in general. Maybe stop referring to them as "sheeple" and stop thinking of women as objects looking for your attention.

I'd also suggest tempering your ego a tad.

a reply to: KevinIsZebraman


I was going to give you some real advice, then I saw your semi obsession with white women and changed my mind.