I agree about the whole control issue. Parents should be in charge.
I do think these were more in the line of suggestions than dictates and I highly doubt the kids will have to report back about it. Imagine the
embarrassment of a child who can't have a family dinner because daddy's in jail.
I have been a teaching for 5 years now and have always believed that kids should not be burdened with homework. Instead, I have used fun learning
techniques that can replace boring homework essays and assignments.