Best Breakup Music

a reply to: Profusion

oh gawd I could send you a link on ATS..
It was public.
we didn't break up once either. (once you see that one then imagine 5 more months and lots of breakups..)
But it's quite spectacular and harsh if you want to see.

and even though the tech nine song is for her...

So is this one..

a reply to: Reverbs

Yes, I want to read the story.

You have inspired me. I am posting songs dedicated to my last two exes (whom I broke up with for vastly different reasons):

Here is a song for my last ex (the breakup was her fault):


m.youtube.com...

Here is a song for the ex before the last one (the breakup was due to situational factors):



She played this song for me once, it was so romantic...


m.youtube.com...

a reply to: Profusion

Listening now.

Thread is getting deeper...



and I'll play her song.

the song that made me cry last night after all this time...
it was what I played for her.



I'll never be over her.
something beautiful and dark and awesome to that.
My angel.


If I ever told the story even in fictional form it would involve sooo many ATS members..
They would know what I was talking about.

a reply to: Profusion

originally posted by: Reverbs
a reply to: Profusion
Thread is getting deeper.

I do not know what could be deeper than the following quote of yours that I just read:

"There are non crazy girls out there, but then they are boring.
what to do. what to do ? ?"

That is the eternal question, isn't it?

That thought deserves its own thread, but the thought police would shoot it down in 5 minutes.

There would only be like three guys willing to admit the truth, and the politically correct crowd would take over...

After researching your past problem...

I don't think ATS is viable as a dating site.

a reply to: Profusion


You've ruined me in finding another,
because there is no other,
like you.

I wrote to her.


is what I said to the craziest girl I dated.

She also had a russian/australian accent..


She screwed it all up, but then..
A normal girl now?
HOW!?


so it turns back into...
if we were in contact again..

I WANT you.

originally posted by: Profusion


I don't think ATS is viable as a dating site.

we were together for 9 months. I almost moved to her.




Then again she did almost get me killed.

a reply to: Reverbs

The thread with your story has so much sexual energy emanating from it, it's like the sun, I can't look at it too long.

I have a slight bit of personal interest because one of the posters involved has PMed me a few times, I never replied.

Small world.

As for ATS as a dating site...

You have too much paranoia here, that is the biggest problem I think. It often ruins everything. I have experienced it first hand.

a reply to: Profusion

originally posted by: Profusion
You have too much paranoia here, that is the biggest problem I think. It often ruins everything. I have experienced it first hand.

part of a fictional story may involve death threats tasers cops magic hackers psychic chic death and separate realities.






I once wrote..

"ATS is not all Love and Butterflies."




You won't find that video if you search for it.
Only the link I gave can get you there.


You never really know who you're talking to (why I go WAY too honest.)..

originally posted by: Reverbs
"ATS is not all Love and Butterflies."

Beyond paranoia, you also have massive egos. I have never seen such a collection of egotistical people.

Don't get me wrong, I think this is the best forum on the Internet.

Let's just be honest about it as a dating site.

As a dating site, I will give it a 1 on a scale of 0 to 10.

It gets a 1 from me because success is possible. You will pay a high price for any success, though.

One word comes to mind: Inefficiency

originally posted by: Reverbs
the song that made me cry last night after all this time...
it was what I played for her.

I have never experienced a boken heart. I am going to read about what it's like.

I would try therapy, but I have no idea what could help you.

a reply to: Profusion

Was quite efficient for me.
Noticed a girl, she already knew who I was.
"something about you girl"

that was it.



but if you set out with that goal than yea it's not the best.
Then again ATS is my favorite place to be a ridiculous flirt.

you have to know the right threads.
Egos are not in writing and game threads.

the threads were everyone encourages everyone else to speak.





but if you are trying to be efficient. Get off the computer for sure.

a reply to: Reverbs

You have a gentle, kind soul that is out of place in modern life.

My life has made me fairly callous. I was just thinking that my callousness has advantages and disadvantages.

I will never have a broken heart, but I can't let go and lose control either. I'm stuck in a relatively narrow range in some ways.

As for efficiency in dating, you have to be attractive in one way or another to make it work efficiently in real life.

What are you left with online? People who have trouble getting a date in real life, mostly.

There so many problems with finding dates online, it's ridiculous.

Is there therapy for a broken heart? Have you researched how to overcome it?

a reply to: Profusion

what I like online is that the most attractive thing to me is the insides of someone, and their eyes.. yum.

a ridiculous sense of humor does me the trick.
It also works on the state of the world and the uncertain future.

I laugh a lot.

My loving soul can't be broken, even when my heart is dead.

I see goodness in all people.
I love teasing it out.


Everything bad that happens to me is kind of like..

soundcloud.com...

And my strength is shared.

I truly love everyone.

even all of my exes. One is my best friend. One needs love but doesn't know how to accept it. She could if she decided she deserved it. That's all it takes.

We are all worth the time.

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Sometimes after a breakup.. (with a girl or with a belief or with a friendship or anything that leaves you feeling wronged.. politics.. )

this could be a great breakup song..
from what ever you are divorcing..

a reply to: Reverbs

I can't continue this conversation. It's becoming draining, and I have no answers.

I hope this thread will help:

Ways to Mend a Broken Heart

originally posted by: Profusion
Breaking up isn't easy. Are there any songs that you think describe the emotions involved exceptionally well?

This does it for me, has done many times in life, but I've just been a casual uncommitted slut for the last few years so avoiding the whole broken heart thing...

I think this is a great one....

This one helped me so so much when I had a really bad breakup.

We've all broken up.
This will help.
Turn it up loud.

Maynard has such a way with words, and emotion. If you feel you are in the "right" over a break up this is an empowering one, I guess it could be quite the opposite if you are in the wrong and know it.

Rza - Domestic Violence

Possible contender for the most ignorant and childish song ever but I can't help finding it friggin hilarious every time I hear it.

www.dailymotion.com...

Bob Segar' s "Famous Final Scene"

a reply to: Profusion

Hammerfall - Never Ever



Helloween - A Tale that wasn't right



Judas Priest - Before the dawn