Need some psychic juices please..

I need a little bit of psychic juice from y'all who have some to spare. I had a very close family member pass away two weeks ago today. It waa unexpected, to say the least. Family members keep telling me not to be sad, that this person is not gone, but is just in another room. Problem is, I have yet to be able to see into that other room.

A little background on me - I have always been what could be considered "sensitive" to things outside this realm. Its something that other, elder members of my family have as well. For many years, I have had what I consider to be my guardians following me no matter where I have moved to. I have one who is my favorite, as he is a very tall, manly cowboy in a black duster and black hat with long dark hair. He has always made me feel so safe, especially during times in my life where my world was a bit crazy. For quite a few years now there has been another ghost, for lack of a better word, following me. This one is a teenager, tall, blonde, maybe about 16. Never had problems with interacting with them.

Here is where I need help. I have yet to interact with this family member outside of a couple dreams in the last few days. I was hoping maybe someone here could see if they had any luck with contacting this person and let me know they are still here and ok. I am just waiting for them to contact me in a more physical way.

I truly appreciate your help!!

a reply to: Menrva

I'm sorry you lost a loved a dear family member.

a reply to: Menrva

Hmm. This is difficult to articulate. I don't have any skills with contacting others. I once had skill in contacting my own, and perhaps I can help you with that. I'll try.

My cousin Kurt died as a result of a motorcycle accident when I was a teenager. We were very close. I tried to connect with him. I later felt that my trying was so intense that it actually blocked him from finding me.

Two summers later, almost two years to the date, I was up in the barn where I slept as a child. Oh, I had a room in the house, but didn't like it there. I liked the barn and it was 200 yards from the house. I dreamed of my cousin and I awoke hearing his laugh. For a brief moment I saw him. He was bent down as he did with his hands relaxed between his knees, and he said, "don't worry about me. I'm okay. Everything is okay. Tell Mom I'm okay." He faded away, and I might have convinced myself that it was a dream if not for the fact that I was full awake when it all began.

I don't have any knowledge or skills regarding your goals. I'm just going to wing it and say that you might try for a relaxed state of mind, and think about your loved one, and visualize them laughing, and you two talking and then drift off to sleep. I believe that dreams occur in a place where spiritual things can interact. You can't try to force it. That you've dreamed about them seems a very positive thing. Just don't push too hard. Let them come to you. In time. When it is right.

Again, this isn't my forte. I usually wander threads and see if I want to post something, but when I saw your thread I felt a need to tell you what little I know. I hope it helps.

originally posted by: IAMTAT
a reply to: Menrva

I'm sorry you lost a loved a dear family member.

Thank you so much..

a reply to: Menrva

Gotta wait in line I'm he one with the light

a reply to: Menrva

shouldnt you instead say your peace and give the person your respects and let them move on?

and why the backstory? its uninteresting to me and has nothing to do with contacting your dead relative.....

I just started Reiki sessions recently. I started mainly because I just felt like I was blocked spiritually. For me personally, it is amazing.

Maybe you could try that to help out.

a reply to: agentus

That does help actually. I've been trying to wait my turn, so to speak, and guess it will happen when it happens. It just has me questioning "the other side" for the first time in my life.

My brother in law passed away nine years ago, he was more like a brother, and he still lets me know he's around. He was a cook and every time I scrape food off the cutting board using the cutting edge of the knife, I hear him, plain as day, telling me to stop doing that. Even when my grandparents passed away many years ago, I knew they were ok because they let me know. To this day my grandmother comes to me in dreams at least three times a week. She's the one who actually brought the other person to me in my dream. Im just impatient to get a sign when I'm awake.. 😕

a reply to: Menrva

You have already had contact!

You spoke of having dreams about this love one after he/she passed on and that was the contact.

For the most part.... "concentrated" dreams and visions are the ONLY allowed way of contact. Many do not know that "inspired" writers can be guided through life....... only with their dreams and visions ......as all the prophets spoke of.

I hope you remembered those dreams......

a reply to: malevolent

One, no one forced you to read my post or reply. Two, in my experience, people pass on, but are free to visit as they please. Three, take your negativity somewhere else as it's in no way contributing to this thread.

And backstory is kinda necessary and pertains to the "why" of my post.

Have a wonderful day/evening/night. 😊

a reply to: Watcher777

That actually sounds interesting. I may have to give that a try! 😊

a reply to: DeathSlayer

I actually do remember the dreams. Its always at my grandmother's house. And she's there with other family members that I don't know because they passed when I was a baby or before I was born. I will try to see if I can try to do the lucid dream thing and actually have a conversation with them. Never tried to do that before, but why not. ☺

originally posted by: Menrva
a reply to: malevolent

One, no one forced you to read my post or reply. Two, in my experience, people pass on, but are free to visit as they please. Three, take your negativity somewhere else as it's in no way contributing to this thread.

And backstory is kinda necessary and pertains to the "why" of my post.

Have a wonderful day/evening/night. 😊

no i will post as i please, because 1 this subject was interesting to me and 2 why do you assume im being negative when i only stated an opinion

i felt there was nothing of importance. so you have dealings with spirit entities? do you feel all special over it? if thats even the truth?

originally posted by: Menrva
a reply to: DeathSlayer

I actually do remember the dreams. Its always at my grandmother's house. And she's there with other family members that I don't know because they passed when I was a baby or before I was born. I will try to see if I can try to do the lucid dream thing and actually have a conversation with them. Never tried to do that before, but why not. ☺

Your grandmother has introduced you to some of the family......how sweet.....

BUT there are also some warnings you should consider..... the dead like to play games and trick you.... It can happen that a spirit takes form of someone you know.... you will be able to tell the difference once you had a few lucid dreams.

Depending what "attitude" you are currently "IN" will be the type of lucid dream you will probably have......spirit picks up on your spirit.....if you are "bitchy" and short with paitence then you could be put into that exact enviornment when in "lucid" state of mind. So be "chilled" and relaxed if possible.

A dark mind will take you to dark places......

A lucid dream is the "ultimate" dream.....WARNING: Be prepared for anything..... You will truly believe you are there (which you are..... in SPIRIT). Lucid dreaming makes life changing decisions the minute you wake up.

P.S. There are some people who are committed to mental health institutions from a single lucid dream...

I'm so sorry for your loss.....and you are very lucky to have seen your other family members that have passed.... I wish I could see mine....I've seen other ghost or spirits , but no one I know....honestly, I can't tell,you how,to contact them other then speaking out loud to them until they are able to come to you. If your grandmother already brought them to you, then maybe they can't do it on their own yet, and it was her way of showing you they're around and ok . ....I hope you get to see them soon!

a reply to: DeathSlayer

I will make sure to take every precaution and read up on the subject before diving in. Thank you for all the information!

a reply to: Meldionne1

Thank you for your reply. 😊 Once I kind of figure out how to contact them, instead of random people coming to me, as happens to you, I will make sure to share my experience as well. I think it's important to share and try to help others. I'm not a fan of spreading negativity around because it helps no one. But sharing experiences can help others on their journey through life and what comes after.

A reply to: malevolent

You're welcome to your opinion. Have at it.

I read some of your other responses on this site and saw that you don't like others at all and pretty much respond in a negative way right off the bat no matter the subject. I try to be a very positive and outgoing person, and don't really understand those who are negative all the time. Don't get me wrong, I don't have a bottle of sunshine up my azz, just try to enjoy life.

As for my otherworldly interactions, I am what I am. It's how I have been my whole life. So it's nothing spectacular to me, its actually no big deal. I dont feel the need to make up anything, as I have a busy life outside this forum and no time to make up an online persona. What would be the point?

Thanks for your input, and have a nice evening/night/day.

a reply to: Menrva

its true at times i am openly negative, i have also lost people that meant quite a bit to me and i ended up like this i guess. so you didnt keister a bottle of sunshine to be like you are, how is that relevant and why would think i would give a #?

unexpectedly thats sounds somewhat similar to my own circumstances. i would be interested in hearing more

As someone else noted, you *have* had contact - any dream vivid enough to remember more than a few seconds after awakening, especially if it included the newly passed, is contact.

I've had this happen several times in my life, and each time I took it as a friendly hug and a wave goodbye.

It's funny how all the religions discuss some sort of afterlife (even hell would be an afterlife) but there's always a caveat about believing in something or another to gain access or spiritual immortality, and behavioral requirements to get 'one of the good seats'... none of that religious stuff is necessary.

I believe... actually correct that, I know from certain experiences I've had in my long life, that our consciousness survives physical death and we're immortal. I don't expect anyone to believe me, and as Ingo Swann put it, 'I've joined that group of people who have experienced something they can't prove' but... it is what it is. Our mind is not our brain.