Every time I tell the truth I get a negative response.

I am sorry to hear about your history and hope you can learn to manage the trauma associated with your past.

Unfortunately, your assertion that everybody else probably knows a child molestation victim and perpetrator (in spite of the efforts of both to conceal these realities) is misleading. Why? Because people are just as likely to know somebody who is a liar, thief, extortionist, killer or thug. It's kind of like the "did you know all serial killers had this in common: they all drank water" revelation.

There are sick, twisted, evil, depraved human beings in all walks of life and regions. Thankfully, they only make up a small minority of the global population and no good comes from assuming they are everywhere when that is not the case.

If your point is that child pornography is more widespread than the general public are aware, then I agree with you and don't fault you for stating this truth.

... as for the negative reactions you get to your truth,

Is your OP a good example of how you usually express this truth to others?

You do realize you have opened with a hostile attack, right?
I have now been accused of doing terrible things which I have not done.

Do you really need to wonder why people would respond to that negatively????

I was listening to a wise person the other day who had an absolute answer to Truth.

Truth is not fact, but sometimes facts become Truth. Truth is that which we expect and facts are the reality we live with. Truth is, humans are mostly good. Fact is, most humans err on the side of selfishness/greed. Truth is, we should all get along, respecting and loving one another. The fact is, love is far from most of us to express with any modicum of understanding.

Your all-seeing-eye is a great analogue to Truth. I pray at some point that what we all expect, becomes the reality...but for now we have to live with the sad facts of our current existence. I hope you know that whatever pain or trauma you experienced will not last forever. You will find comfort when you need it most.

originally posted by: TerryMcGuire
a reply to: JoshuaCox

Child pornography...and child preditors......It's right there in the middle paragraph as plain as day.

I guess...

It's kinda a jumbled mess with child pornography/molestation"randomly in the middle, but sure....

So how are you attacked for telling the truth about both?

If your being attacked, is it because you are pro child molestation/pornagraphy?

You couldn't find enough pro child molestion people to fill up an Applebee's...so your post doesn't make since...

originally posted by: Dark Ghost
I am sorry to hear about your history and hope you can learn to manage the trauma associated with your past.

Unfortunately, your assertion that everybody else probably knows a child molestation victim and perpetrator (in spite of the efforts of both to conceal these realities) is misleading. Why? Because people are just as likely to know somebody who is a liar, thief, extortionist, killer or thug. It's kind of like the "did you know all serial killers had this in common: they all drank water" revelation.

There are sick, twisted, evil, depraved human beings in all walks of life and regions. Thankfully, they only make up a small minority of the global population and no good comes from assuming they are everywhere when that is not the case.

If your point is that child pornography is more widespread than the general public are aware, then I agree with you and don't fault you for stating this truth.

I can only think of one reason "everyone would attack you" because of child molestation..

Because you were the one accused....

Maybe his is innocent but accused?

Or I guess pro child pornagraphy, and constantly attacked for that veiw?

There is sadly a long tradition of the victims of child sexual abuse not being believed.

Often because the perpetrators are family members and people simply don't want to believe that person could be capable of that. Or they otherwise don't want to face the reality of the situation.

It's getting better, I think, the balance is shifting in society towards believing children much more than ever before. So there is at least hope that things are moving in a better direction.

a reply to: geezlouise

Hello again geezlouise, im responding here because i saw an interesting topic title.

To set a point of reference: "There is only 1 truth. Only the Truth is true, nothing else matters, nothing else exists."

So following this reference, you have to ask, what is this Truth ?

The answers you will find in the Bible if you understand it right. Why bible ? well it is another point of reference, well known in this world. and it describes God and his Love.

If you are not happy, and if you'r getting negative response to your Truth, why is it so ?

The Bible's begining says, what God creates is perfect, forever.
God rests in eternity, while you are in ? time ? right ?

So how is it possibile to write all your "Truth" if what God creates is perfect, forever ?

The time exists only for, untill you recognize that what God Creates IS perfect.
Your life is only a Question, and everything you see is an illusion, untill you give the Right answer to it.
And there is only 1 answer which is worthy of the Son and the Father : "There is no sin, The Son of God is innocent"

Jesus gave this answer to all his Trials, the best example is, if you reread the part where they brought a woman which they told she commited adultery. he said, "The one who is without sin, he shall throw the first stone" ( or something like that) and "go Sin no more".
This is same as saying "There is no sin, The Son of God is innocent"

So while in Time something happens, and it appears to be a sin.
Sin would be something that never can be corrected, eternal and unlike God.

But what would God be if there is something that he cannot correct ?
What would his creations mean if Sin were real ? ... If what he Creates can be made unperfect ?
Time will be there untill you recognize that this is impossibile. What God Creates is Perfect, eternaly !


if you are still reading this, your Question would be now: but how is it possibile to see something, that what God created is unperfect ?

Ill answer this question with another question : "Who or What is seeing differently from God"

To answer that Question, reffering to the bible again : "Adam, the Son of God felt into a deep sleep"
In his Dreams he is having nightmares. There,the opposites of God are possibile. Only in dreams can all this be true.

So what does have the bible and his Dreams to do with you ?

the answer is simple: YOU are part of this Dream which appears to be now

So untill you awake the question remains, and the answer is still "There is no Sin.The Son of God is innocent."

That is the Answer to everything you see in this Dreamy world.
Decide for something else, and you are deciding against you.
That is the Truth. and if you get negative response to your Truth, then only because God is talking to you, reminding you of the Eternal truth.

Because in your Dreams, you may dream of God of Revenege and war,abandoned to suffer, but in Truth, you are never Fatherless.

And God is Still Love, Creating as himself.


The bible says, love your neighbour as you love yourself.
and aswell : "But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;"

Sure you may say, that Suffering loudly is telling the Truth, but consider this as the Ego trap, as the Teaching of the World.
Be free for a moment: yelling the Pain as truth,which is temporarily freeing you from nothing, just to return later in heavier form.

God knows what is best to you. He is in the Eternity, and he corrects every pain in the same moment as it happens.
But for you, in time, this you can deny and thus choose the opposites of God.
Love the God with all your hearth and everything will be as perfect as it should be.
Love something else, and it will give you anything but happyness and peace. Because there is nothing else beside God.

I whis i could make a clear distinction of Eternity versus Time, but this is meaningless. What is time compared to the eternity ?
Time lasted only a thought, and was gone before it could do anything.

a reply to: geezlouise

I happened to see a thread of yours a few short months ago before it was deleted very quickly, I felt like PMing you back then but I'm not really sure I'm the right person for that sort of thing. Truth will always be an offense, especially to those who are alien to your experiences - they haven't lived your life. That's not their fault but I truly understand your frustration and personally know people in similar circumstances. In the end I can only mirror Peppycat's kind words regarding counseling:

You need someone you can be open and frank with, feel safe and comfortable doing so and someone that can help you to clearly help organize your thoughts and emotions so that you can deal with them and hopefully move on into being able to find real friends and people that listen to you speak your truth with open minds and open hearts.

Take care.

or to tell my above post with short words:

Everything you see imperfect is but your thoughts from the past, casted out in the future and returning to you as present experiences.

But God does not know of the future and of the past, He is now, and there you should be too.
Here is your safety, and reality is kind to thoose who use it for holiness. It is Cruel to thoose who use it for something else.

God has but one Son, and his Son is the Sum of all souls which he created. Holines is wholeness. Nothing can be judged without affecting yourself.
Only God's judgement is just. Amen.

a reply to: geezlouise

If the truth hurts you know you're doing it right not all of us are part of the majority to which you point your finger

originally posted by: Hombre
or to tell my above post with short words:

Everything you see imperfect is but your thoughts from the past, casted out in the future and returning to you as present experiences.

But God does not know of the future and of the past, He is now, and there you should be too.
Here is your safety, and reality is kind to thoose who use it for holiness. It is Cruel to thoose who use it for something else.

God has but one Son, and his Son is the Sum of all souls which he created. Holines is wholeness. Nothing can be judged without affecting yourself.
Only God's judgement is just. Amen.

To sum up: YOLO!
Living in the moment is good and all, but one day you'll find yourself with no pension and still renting.
Plan ahead, learn from the past, but don't dwell there to much.

a reply to: GreenGunther

YOLO helps if used for the positive, but im going with prayer and forgiveness, asking God and the Angels for help (including Jesus and myself(the one which is in eternity)).

a reply to: JoshuaCox
Dude, for some reason you must think that this was my thread. Nope, I was just letting you know how I knew what the thread was about.

a reply to: geezlouise

you must be married! Seriously,never tell a woman the truth,always lie to your boss,blame the guy under you.Honesty IS the best policy,if your in a position to never get fired.If your the low man on the totem pole,CYA!!

a reply to: Dark Ghost

There are sick, twisted, evil, depraved human beings in all walks of life and regions. Thankfully, they only make up a small minority of the global population and no good comes from assuming they are everywhere when that is not the case.

I don't know just how small the demographic you sighted is, but it's large enough to affect a pretty big chunk of society (the vast majority of people will know somebody who's been affected).

originally posted by: geezlouise
Someone you know is a victim of child pornography.
Someone you know is a child predator.

Until my son started walking to school on his own, almost two years ago, I never worried about "predators". I didn't have to, when not with me, he was with someone that I trusted absolutely. I don't like the mentality of their being a paedophile on every street, I know some parents who ascribe to that and view every interaction with suspicion, but if I am there, there is nothing to worry about and I don't waste my time worrying about what other people think if I don't need to, but I never take risks either. I have both ends covered. I also never shared photos of him in public forums, and he is wise enough about the hazards of selfies (and the such) that I don't concern myself too much about him being easily exploited. As he gets older there are other, more subtle, dangers to prepare him for, and it's not at all easy to get the balance, there are all sorts of predators out there, but also many wonderful and interesting people, you don't want to inhibit the potential for fabulous experiences, and for those to happen, sometimes you have to trust strangers.

I agree though, at varying degrees of seperation, we have all most likely come into contact with predatory humans. The world is full of broken and damaged people, many of those broken and damaged people look for those who are weaker than themselves in order to feel powerful and potent, that is why children, and women, are often the victims of violence and particularly sexual violence, because they are easy targets. More easily subdued.

My Grandmother's second husband liked "little girls". My Mum got a "damn good hiding" when she told my Grandmother about that. He paid them "half a bob" to come sit on his knee, he'd tickle them and they'd wriggle. He did the same to me, except he didn't have to pay me half a bob, I was family. I didn't really know about it at the time, what nine year old makes those connections? I can't particularly say that I was traumatised by it, I only realised many years later in retrospect when I was told about his proclivities, and all I could think was, why would my Mum send me to stay there? It seemed to never have crossed her mind. Weird huh?

People tell themselves all sorts of lies. Choose your battles.

a reply to: Anaana

He paid them "half a bob" to come sit on his knee, he'd tickle them and they'd wriggle.

Putting the paying part aside for a moment; If I saw an adult tickling a child on their lap it wouldn't have even crossed my mind that the person could be a pervert getting kicks. Shows how devious these people can get, to twist such an innocent thing into a disgustingly subtle perverted act. #ing gross old prick. Thanks for sharing.

Spooky dangerous culture on all sides indeed, right and wrong---I'm still convinced an Extinct Level Event is badly needed on earth-nothing survives.

originally posted by: AdmireTheDistance
a reply to: geezlouise

Like the above poster, I have absolutely no clue what you're talking about, but this seems better suited to the rant forum.

You suck at observing.