Tuition fees and sugardaddies: The rise of student prostitution

I had a friend in the states who was 22 years old (very pretty and a great dancer..no not stripping ) and got hooked up with a 53 year old very well off guy. He was married... she was an engineering student. She traveled to China on summer break and enjoyed some benefits she might otherwise never see or experience .. It lasted for a year but as soon as he started talking about leaving the wife and kids for her she dropped him ... She is in her last year of school now and other than this year she is debt free. Call it what you want.. but she is no dummy.. Darn sure is good at math if she is debt free !

The whole world is made up of the haves and the have-nots..

Go to any country where it is legal and the rich have 4 wives( if they can afford them) and maybe one or two girlfriends on the side... or in what some would call 3rd world countries they have the complete family and a couple of minor wives on the side. Still goes on in Japan and that ain't 3rd world.... It is a pay as you go, help them out, until the guy gets bored or the girl decides there is not much of a future in the relationship (or becomes to expensive)... or she gets a job and can support herself..

Work 6 days a week 10 to 12 hours a day and make 60$ a week or answer the phone, get dressed in the clothes he bought you....Go out with your sugar daddy a couple of times a week when he can get free from the wife and kids.... not a hard choice for some...

Many young girls overseas divorced with a kid and no future opt for a sugar daddy if they have the looks and are desperate to have any kind of life for themselves and Kid...

I am in Asia and have been asked usually on a weekly if not monthly basis to help some young girl find someone to be their boy friend.. I personally feel sorry for them but not to the point of messing up my marriage and or supporting another mouth to feed.. But I am older and the big brain does 99.99 percent of the thinking now..

Welcome to the world.. it is there... just some fail to see the reality of it all..

a reply to: AugustusMasonicus
Yes but they are not free when they have to live under the oppression of immoral adults as children.

Should an adult's freedom be at the expense of a child's moral foundation?

originally posted by: nonjudgementalist
Yes but they are not free when they have to live under the oppression of immoral adults as children.

Should an adult's freedom be at the expense of a child's moral foundation?

Who defines immorality? You?

I think you need to mind your own business, you remind me of the government or a religion.

a reply to: 727Sky

It's fine if they were in love. But if she's just doing it to lay off her debts... Thats just wrong imo. It's dishonest.

a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

I'm sure we all have our own definition. I gave you mine. If you don't want future generations to follow your example, its immoral.

This reminds me of a boondocks episode where there was a market for aging women to hire an 'escort' who would pretend to love and value them as a person. Going bankrupt off the high of feeling wanted.

Pretty much the reverse of old married men looking for some young tail.

originally posted by: nonjudgementalist
I'm sure we all have our own definition. I gave you mine. If you don't want future generations to follow your example, its immoral.

I have no intention of telling adults what to do, regardless of who they are.

a reply to: corvuscorrax

Quite.

Exploiting lust for money, isn't good.

a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

After looking over his posts he never said that it someone should put a stop to it.

Seems you're the one stuck on 'not telling adults what to do'

He just voiced his opinion on the matter. Not like he's calling for legislation to abolish it.

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
a reply to: nonjudgementalist

You have no point, other than being overly concernded with what ADULTS do.

It's exploitative, and this happens all over the place. That this is considered a popular and valid way to get an education is ridiculous.

a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

So you would never stand up to a tyrant?

Are you coward?

originally posted by: Aazadan
It's exploitative, and this happens all over the place. That this is considered a popular and valid way to get an education is ridiculous.

If they are two consenting adults how is anyone being exploited?

originally posted by: nonjudgementalist
So you would never stand up to a tyrant?

Are you coward?

A tyrant does not rule by consent.

Very poor analogy.

originally posted by: Aazadan

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
a reply to: nonjudgementalist

You have no point, other than being overly concernded with what ADULTS do.

It's exploitative, and this happens all over the place. That this is considered a popular and valid way to get an education is ridiculous.

We live in world where in developed countries just about ANY method of making money is seen as a positive thing. That's how pervasive greed is these days and it's not going to get better.

originally posted by: corvuscorrax
Seems you're the one stuck on 'not telling adults what to do'

Yeah, I am not interested in who is effing who and why. There is too much intrusive nonsense in our society based soley on what other people think is 'wrong'.

a reply to: nonjudgementalist

This is discussing the pigs who use their money to sneak into the beds of our youth

the youth are for the youth

# off with the grabbing

i just don't believe in generational mixing

originally posted by: hknudzkknexnt
a reply to: nonjudgementalist

This is discussing the pigs who use their money to sneak into the beds of our youth

the youth are for the youth

# off with the grabbing

i just don't believe in generational mixing

Sadly young women feel that the only way they can live the lifestyle they want often involves bedding an older, wealthier man who is often married.

I suppose there could be some old gay men who like to tantalize young gay men into their beds with promises of cash. Hell I'm sure there's some desperate straight men that would take the dive.

But hey the economy is great and with a lot of hard work (or little to no dignity) you're set!

a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

Not really. You said you have no intention of telling any adult what they should and should not do.Tyrants are (usually) adults. Would you not stand up to a tyrant and tell them what to do? If your original statement is truthful, is it not therbey a declaration of cowardice? Or was it dishonest?

First you have to answer whether you would stand up to a tyrant. Then we can establish whether you're dishonest (if the answer is yes) or a coward (if the answer is no)

So what are you? A liar or a coward?

originally posted by: nonjudgementalist
Not really.

Yeah, really. Your equating me NOT wanting to tell two consenting adults what to do and then to confronting a tyranical leader are about as absurd of a comparison as you can possibly make.

If two adults want to have sex what does that have to do with a tyranical leader? Nothing.

originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus

originally posted by: Aazadan
It's exploitative, and this happens all over the place. That this is considered a popular and valid way to get an education is ridiculous.

If they are two consenting adults how is anyone being exploited?

An old man's / woman's lust / wealth is being exploited...

And a young man/ woman's naivety and greed is being exploited...

Who's not being exploited?