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originally posted by: continuousThunder
Alright guys, listen up, these are the actual facts, from someone who lives it.
gender is not a binary
we do not live in a world of black and white.
Sure, we live in a society that tells you it's nothing more than man and woman, but look around, nature just doesn't bear that out - there are shades and scales, simple boxes just don't work to categorise complex humans.
If you're one of the lucky people [of whom there are fewer than you would ever believe] who feel completely comfortable with the gender you were assigned with the day you were born, try to imagine how it would feel for everyone you meet to insist you were a different gender, to never be taken seriously - to be openly mocked and derided just for having an option to be referred to with a term that feels comfortable.
Where's your compassion?
How hard is it to take on board that some people aren't the same?
Are people really so lazy or hateful that asking people what terms they prefer and changing one single word when talking to them is just too much?
originally posted by: Shamrock6
UT has disseminated an alternative set of pronouns for students and faculty to use when addressing each other.
Let me be clear right off the bat - this is not a mandatory thing. Nobody is being forced to use the terms.
That being said, the university is "encouraging" students to recognize that "sometimes he and she just don't work." A university official says the new pronouns only sound funny because people weren't raised to be gender neutral.
Also included in the article is news that Target is eliminating boy/girl signage from their toy aisles. All in the name of neutrality and inclusivity.
Seems a bit silly to me. Then again, I readily admit that I was raised to differentiate between boys and girls. What do you think, zirs and hirs?
www.today.com...
BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED that the American Psychological Association and the National Association of School Psychologists affirm that diverse gender expressions, regardless of gender identity, and diverse gender identities, beyond a binary classification, are normal and positive variations of the human experience;
originally posted by: johnwick
a reply to: Shamrock6
This isn't aimed at you op.
To to all the lefties out there, I just pose this one simple question, since it is you lefties pushing all this idiocy.
Is there or is there not gender?
If there is, then WTF is wrong with you? Why are you trying to pretend like there isnt?
If there isn't, then why push transgender bs?
Because your mind set changes are giving us normal sane folks whiplash.
Figure it out one way or another and get back to me.
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originally posted by: WilsonWilson
Vocabulary changes generation to generation. People who say they don't want to change well that's fine. There are still older generations that use terms and names that are now seen as insulting. You are just dinosaurs, you'll die out and people in the future will laugh and pity you.
originally posted by: WilsonWilson
Vocabulary changes generation to generation. People who say they don't want to change well that's fine. There are still older generations that use terms and names that are now seen as insulting. You are just dinosaurs, you'll die out and people in the future will laugh and pity you.
originally posted by: Shamrock6
Let me be clear right off the bat - this is not a mandatory thing. Nobody is being forced to use the terms.
Multiple professors at Washington State University have explicitly told students their grades will suffer if they use terms such as “illegal alien,” "male," and “female,” or if they fail to “defer” to non-white students.
The punishment for repeatedly using the banned words, Breikss warns, includes “but [is] not limited to removal from the class without attendance or participation points, failure of the assignment, and— in extreme cases— failure for the semester.”
originally posted by: Phage
a reply to: ElectricUniverse
I don't know. Since when can you decide which are or are not?
Since when are all traditions bad?
Then please, clarify.
it has nothing to do with either "being insecure" nor "thinking you are the crown of creation"...
No, that would be a ridiculous comparison. I just pointed out that traditions come and go and provided slavery as an example of one which has gone. Would the Pledge of Alligence be a better example? A invented tradition that came out of nowhere.
well first of all, you tried to equate slavery with the traditional views on marriage and what it has been traditionally the marriage of man and woman.
Every time? Really? I have mentioned on occasion that people seem insecure in their beliefs but I don't recall saying anyone had a "God complex mentality." Every time? No.
It's ironic how every time someone doesn't agree with your views you want to proclaim that "they have insecurities" or a "God complex mentality".
How does someone getting married change your tradition? How does it affect you at all?
I can reverse the roles and say that the ones with insecurities are those who want to change people's tradition on marriage, and on how the state now claims people should be defined.
Right. But traditions do come and go. Slavery was one. Here's another one that's going away; asking a bride's father for his daughter's hand.
old traditions which have nothing to do with slavery...
Whom am I forcing my will upon?
The worst part is that in your mind you think this is going to get more people to accept you and your views by forcing your will on people.
The OP is about suggesting the use of gender neutral pronouns. How is that forcing anything on anyone? Don't worry, you can still say "her" and "him". It's allowed. But preventing same sex couples from being married? No, you can't because doing so is discriminatory and illegal.
MAKE YOUR OWN, instead of wanting to force the traditions of others be changed to how you want them to be.