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originally posted by: Forensick
originally posted by: jude11
It just makes me even more aware that this little guy is going to see all this one day and could very well be hurt to the core..
He has got Downs Syndrome pal, I doubt very well he will ever be mentally mature enough to comprehend this.
Individuals with Down syndrome are becoming increasingly integrated into society and community organizations, such as school, health care systems, work forces, and social and recreational activities. Individuals with Down syndrome possess varying degrees of cognitive delays, from very mild to severe. Most people with Down syndrome have cognitive delays that are mild to moderate.
Due to advances in medical technology, individuals with Down syndrome are living longer than ever before. In 1910, children with Down syndrome were expected to survive to age nine. With the discovery of antibiotics, the average survival age increased to 19 or 20. Now, with recent advancements in clinical treatment, most particularly corrective heart surgeries, as many as 80% of adults with Down syndrome reach age 60, and many live even longer.
More and more Americans are interacting with individuals with Down syndrome, increasing the need for widespread public education and acceptance. - See more at: www.ndss.org...
originally posted by: Tangerine
a reply to: jude11
How convenient for you to claim you would have done exactly that which he did and not that which she did when you are not in their situation. After all, it's highly likely that she, not he, would be saddled with caring for the Down Syndrome child for the rest of her (the mother's) life. Of course, the media will not follow up on this story in ten years so we won't know what the father has done.
Have you ever known anyone who has had a Down Syndrome baby? I know someone. The father of the child only stuck it out for a short time before bailing and leaving her to care for the child. She is now 80 and her child is 50. She has had to devote close to every waking moment of her life to caring for him. Of course, i haven't asked her if she regretted the decision to take him home from the hospital but I wouldn't bet that she hasn't. Don't judge others when you're not the one in their situation.
originally posted by: jude11
"Forrest has set up a GoFundMe page and is relying on the generosity of strangers. In nine days, 3,821 people from around the world have donated more than $117,000."
originally posted by: caladonea
a reply to: jude11
The Father made the right decision...now and in the years to come...that child will be such a wonderful blessing to him.
Also...in the years to come...the mother will suffer from horrible guilt...if she has a conscience. She seems very selfish and superficial to me.
originally posted by: Annee
originally posted by: Realtruth
a reply to: jude11
It sounds like the baby is being used as a pawn here, and people are being played.
Sad situation all around.
I hope not.
But, that was my first impression too.
How quickly did this father set up the "Go Fund Me"?
originally posted by: AutumnWitch657
a reply to: ketsuko
Children get put up for adoption every single day. Now just because this child happens to be challenged it's a horror or a crime.
If the child was perfectly normal and the mother said she wanted to put the baby up for adoption it would have been a non story.
People can be so judgemental. She knows herself. Raising a challenged child especially one with downs syndrome will mean many physical challenges not just mental. These children often have heart defects , suffer blindness and many other problems. It will take a lot of money and dedication to raise him.
Mom was also probably blaming herself for this which is possible as this occurs with defective eggs. That is why the incidence and likelyhood of having a,downs syndrome child increase with a mother's age.
I bet she reconsiders over time. She's probably feeling distraught and guilty right now.
You men, will never understand the anxiety a woman privately suffers every time she has a child growing within her. The fear that something like this will happen or worse and she will almost always blame herself for it. That kind of guilt can lead to suicide.
Please try a little empathy.
From a woman who faced the same risk.
originally posted by: ~Lucidity
originally posted by: jude11
originally posted by: ~Lucidity
No one really knows what they would do in a situation until they're in it.
Maybe for some but not me.
I absolutely know what I would do.
Peace
I'd like to think I know what I would do but just can't be that sure.
Think there's an woff chance that she may even change her mind? It sounds like this was a shock to the couple, and people in shock...well they do some crazy things.
a reply to: On the level
Hence my "seems" like a good guy. There are always a lot of ways to spin a story, aren't there? The proof will be when time goes by...for both parents. We never really know anything about people but what they want us to know.
originally posted by: MiddleClassWhiteBoy
Do any of you people even read???
The mother wanted to move to New Zealand and the father didn't want to. She said disabled babies have no chance in her own country. A special needs child requires ALOT of finances and resources to take care of. I'm not saying the mother doesn't deserve her criticism but it's not like she told the husband to dump the baby in the street or she's divorcing him. Maybe they have very little money and she's scared and really does want a better life for the kid. Women give up their kids in the US all the time under much less challenging circumstances and everyone admires them for it because they can be adopted into good homes. Don't rush to judge based on stupid media propaganda!
GUEST: If you people would get real...and If you google Samuel Forrest, he has a website and is a highly paid Business consultant who would like become a NonProfit Board member and of course he would be willing to do this probono. He and his wife have already made up and are discussing their options, now that people have made them wealthy!