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originally posted by: Benevolent Heretic
originally posted by: thesmokingman
I do however not think that ALL of the people coming forward are true victims. Also, I wonder how many of them slept with him on their own accord?
And THAT'S the reason many rape victims don't bother reporting it. Because someone who knows absolutely NOTHING about it will call them liars.
originally posted by: thesmokingman
Also, if you do not report a crime like that because you are afraid people wont believe you and will call you a liar....then you simply do not deserve justice. True crime victims will speak up. If you remain silent, then that is your fault. You would think they would want their attacker to be brought to justice. I know I would.
originally posted by: AgentShillington
originally posted by: thesmokingman
Also, if you do not report a crime like that because you are afraid people wont believe you and will call you a liar....then you simply do not deserve justice. True crime victims will speak up. If you remain silent, then that is your fault. You would think they would want their attacker to be brought to justice. I know I would.
I'm very glad that you have never suffered a sexual assault.
I have never pressed charges against the person that sexually assaulted me, and for you to claim that it was somehow my fault that he made me do the things that he made me do to him is beyond disgusting.
I was 7 years old and he said he would kill my sister if I told anyone.
originally posted by: AgentShillington
a reply to: thesmokingman
You're the one trying to vilify people. I am simply telling you that I feel that your opinion is beyond disgusting.
My attacker was a police officer. He was my father, and in case you missed it, he said he would kill my sister.
And, yes, we are talking about children here. We are talking about SEXUAL ASSAULT victims. Some of them are children, some are adults, some are men, and some are women. You don't get to pick and choose who you are talking about when you make blanket statements like the one you did.
originally posted by: WilsonWilson
a reply to: thesmokingman
So people who are frightened don't deserve justice? What a crazy statement.
originally posted by: thesmokingman
Well I stand fully by my blanket statement. Sorry about YOUR experience. I in no way tried to vilify anyone. Im simply saying my opinion and what I would do in that situation. Sorry if you dont agree, not my problem though. Does not make me a bad person. Just makes me different from you.
True crime victims will speak up. If you remain silent, then that is your fault.
originally posted by: AgentShillington
originally posted by: thesmokingman
Well I stand fully by my blanket statement. Sorry about YOUR experience. I in no way tried to vilify anyone. Im simply saying my opinion and what I would do in that situation. Sorry if you dont agree, not my problem though. Does not make me a bad person. Just makes me different from you.
True crime victims will speak up. If you remain silent, then that is your fault.
Could you tell me again how it was my fault. That's probably my favorite part of how you AREN'T blaming the victims here.
originally posted by: thesmokingman
If I or a close family member were sexually assaulted, I guarantee you I am NOT settling for ANYTHING out of court, I would take it as far as possible in the criminal justice system. Settling out of court either means you were not being truthful in the allegations, OR that you can be bought.
originally posted by: thesmokingman
Ok you are heading WAY off topic here. This thread is about Bill Cosby and the alleged sexual assault victims of BILL COSBY. This thread has absolutely ZERO to do with you and your sexual assault experience. What can you not seem to understand about that?
Well I stand fully by my blanket statement.
True crime victims will speak up. If you remain silent, then that is your fault.
originally posted by: AgentShillington
originally posted by: thesmokingman
Ok you are heading WAY off topic here. This thread is about Bill Cosby and the alleged sexual assault victims of BILL COSBY. This thread has absolutely ZERO to do with you and your sexual assault experience. What can you not seem to understand about that?
Because you aren't talking about Bill Cosby. You are admittedly making blanket statements about sexual abuse victims.
Well I stand fully by my blanket statement.
And I take offense.
You made this about me.
So, tell me again how it was all my fault that my father did those things to me when I was seven years old because I didn't tell anyone. Tell me again that because I knew my father was a monster, and that he threatened to kill my sister, that I am to be blamed for not telling someone that it was happening.
Go ahead, you said you stand behind your blanket statement, and if you do, just say it. Just say it with pride, and I will walk away from the thread.
originally posted by: signalfire
Somewhere there's a bunch of sycophants and handlers that provided Cosby with the quaaludes, orchestrated these hotel room visits and drove the taxis that he called to whisk them away when he was done with them.
originally posted by: AgentShillington
a reply to: thesmokingman
Oh, believe me friend, I have plenty of closure. As you can see, I had -zero- issue with calling you out on what I felt were horrible comments you made about sexual assault victims, and I am going to guess that by the way you are slinking away from your comments instead of PROUDLY DECLARING them again, that you are also disgusted by them, and don't want to own them.
If I am wrong, I welcome clarification, but, sadly, I don't believe I am.
originally posted by: Shamrock6
Is there going to be popcorn provided for this event or no?