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No, English is not my first language.
originally posted by: Restricted
Hollywood has its negative points, but this time it apples.
want to make up my own mind about whether I think it is morally right or wrong for me to give them money.
originally posted by: badgerprints
Way back when I was a bit less jaded I was a nicer person.
I saw a guy on a corner with a sign that said, "Hungry, Need money for food."
I was going to lunch so I pulled into a BK and ordered two meals.
I got the food, crossed 4 lanes of traffic and pulled up next to the guy.
I held out the bag and cup.
He said, "I don't want that _ _ _ _ ! I want some _ _ _ _ _ _ _ money!"
I still help people out now and then but I really don't have as much sympathy as I used to have.
I'd rather donate money to an animal shelter.
You are simply being judgmental and presumptuous. You know nothing about me. I was unemployed for a long time and on welfare. I have quite big debt from having to be bailed out when I was in trouble. I have had problem with institutions. I was one day away from being evicted from my apartment. I'm 30 and I have only had menial jobs. As opposed to you trolls in this thread, I actually care about these people as opposed to only caring about my own "empathic intuition". To quote the book I posted a link to, which seems to be a great book:
originally posted by: ugmold
No, English is not my first language.
Consideration for the well being of Mankind is also lacking from your vocabulary.
As a character in Bernard Shaw’s Saint Joan replies when told of the theory of Pythagoras that the earth is round and revolves around the sun: “What an utter fool! Couldn’t he use his eyes?”
originally posted by: akushla99
originally posted by: badgerprints
Way back when I was a bit less jaded I was a nicer person.
I saw a guy on a corner with a sign that said, "Hungry, Need money for food."
I was going to lunch so I pulled into a BK and ordered two meals.
I got the food, crossed 4 lanes of traffic and pulled up next to the guy.
I held out the bag and cup.
He said, "I don't want that _ _ _ _ ! I want some _ _ _ _ _ _ _ money!"
I still help people out now and then but I really don't have as much sympathy as I used to have.
I'd rather donate money to an animal shelter.
There's your scammer, right there.
Begging doesn't come from a position of entitlement or choice...a 'beggar' who refuses, is not really 'begging'. I'd bet my bottom dollar that this guy would have refused that you take him out and buy him a meal - even tho his sign said he was hungry...
...anyone who is truly 'down & out' will refuse nothing...if they do, they are fishing for a different reason..Å99
originally posted by: openminded2011
a reply to: introspectionist
I once chided my mother for giving money to a "beggar". I told her this was probably a lazy person who didnt want to work. She said to me " then it will be their shame, but not mine for ignoring someone in need". I never forgot that.
originally posted by: Soloprotocol
Your mother is a wise woman.
originally posted by: ToneDeaf
originally posted by: Soloprotocol
Your mother is a wise woman.
By enabling harmful drug use ?
What if that 'beggar' died from an overdose because
he bought the drugs with the 'donation'.
My good conscious tells me not to enable harm, but rather provide
essentials (food, blankets, coat, counseling)
How can you live knowing that you possibly enabled ill, harm or
an illegal drug deal ? *shudder*