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originally posted by: believerofgod
Respect, Manners, and Courtesy... a modern day translation of "do unto others, as you would have them do unto you."
my son was diagnosed with that BS ADD/ADHD (I am making another thread on this crap as my son has never been placed on drugs and is now MATURING to a very respectful, manner filled, and courteous young boy, so for us... this theory is bunk)
You are correct on that part sir. I have done my fair share of reading what the wisest of men had say and it has resonated deep within my soul. The wise words in which they teach have been my guide with my son in his is upbringing and so far the words I hear and understand have contributed to my over coming of these labels they have placed on our children. Thank you for your kind words. I will have a thread up soon on how those powerful teachings have aided me in busting up this so called theory of ADD/ADHD (the wisest of men called it foolishness).
originally posted by: occrest
It seems that you, sir, do epitomize Proverbs 22:6 which states 'Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.' (kjv) May the seeds of truth that you sow take root firmly and in fertile soil.
/tips hat
The modern day translation comes from those three words attributed to ones self slayer. It is not written like that in the big book. Do you have those words in your vocabulary? More importantly do you follow them in your interactions with everyone you cross paths with?
originally posted by: SLAYER69
originally posted by: believerofgod
Respect, Manners, and Courtesy... a modern day translation of "do unto others, as you would have them do unto you."
It's not so 'Modern' it's what that originally meant. Simply because it's source is ancient doesn't mean it doesn't apply in the modern world. We human s have a short memory me thinks. *Myself included.
my son was diagnosed with that BS ADD/ADHD (I am making another thread on this crap as my son has never been placed on drugs and is now MATURING to a very respectful, manner filled, and courteous young boy, so for us... this theory is bunk)
From personal experience...
On average, the majority of Children with 'ADD/ADHD' eventually start to grow out of it when they hit puberty, many others will over come it's affects in their early to mid twenties, some never do. *We all know those types* often, it's because they become aware of the negativity in responses to their 'behavior'
You're pretty spot on as far this community not accepting any kind of constructive criticism if the Bible has any part of it. This should show how the box shuts when someone brings to light a way of making this crazy world we live in a better place. Deny ignorance huh... hahaha. Just because a big wig like slayer comes along and thinks he knows what is written, people that feel his words have more merit than some common sense on how to treat people become null in their minds. Sad, but this is the reality of the world we live in. Continue on with learning from those around yourself, that is how I have grown up and learned. Not necessarily from those that I felt were wiser than me, but being around said individuals for such a long time and learning from their mistakes. That along with learning and understanding what has been written has brought me to the point where I am now. The way people talk about the "sheeple" on here concerning the despotism occurring right before our eyes in our own county, or those that follow silly stories, so to say, from stories written centuries ago, we have the same people in this community that ignore common sense on how to treat our fellow brothers and sisters. Thank you for your kind words and keep an eye out for some of my ,constructive criticism, threads in the future. The way I see it is that any idiot can find the problems within our superbly diverse cultures in this great country, U.S.A, but it takes the more intelligent minds to find and create solutions to all the problems.
originally posted by: brazenalderpadrescorpio
a reply to: believerofgod
That's absolutely excellent that you're training your child to think that way! That's wonderful advice for someone like me who may have kids in the future. I think that people, especially here on ATS, can benefit from applying this in their life. And I think that a lot of people don't believe in applying lessons like this, just because they are from the Bible. It doesn't matter if they don't agree with the messenger, as long as they see some merit in the message.
I feel the same way sometimes. Ignorance is bliss in many a people. Kill em with kindness.
originally posted by: Jennyfrenzy
a reply to: believerofgod
If everyone thought like this the world would be a much happier and safer place. I
I try to live my life based in the golden rule, however there are times I find it impossible to abide by. Nice people have a tendency to get walked on or taken advantage of. That's usually where I draw the line.
That is awesome that you are starting so early, I did the same as soon as my son was able to talk. Having both parents around was where the difficulty came into play. The ideal situation for any child is to have both parents around... once again "ideal" situation. I'm sure you already know that when dealing with children, repetition as well as consistency is key. I'm sure you and your significant other are doing your best in maintaining what is shown to your child. After all, the apple doesn't fall from the tree, right?
originally posted by: ketsuko
We, too, are working hard to start to instill manners in our son. He's only 3, but he's catching on quick. He has "thank you" down almost automatically now, and he's getting please pretty good. It fades in and out, so we have to prompt him on and off. We're adding "excuse me" after he burps. We started with recognizing that he burped by getting him to say "I burped!" Then once he got that, we added "Excuse me, I burped." Later, we'll chop the "I burped!"
So right now we have a kid who enthusiastically announces his every burp, and only says "Excuse me" when prompted.
We're also working on respect and starting in on basic courtesy like waiting for mommy and daddy to finish they're discussion before butting in.
So, many little kids who are older don't even do the Thank You.