posted on Mar, 27 2014 @ 10:02 AM
Hate to hear your grandmother is ill but be thankful for the doc telling the truth!
Hospitals frankly scare the crap out of me - hospital negligence/lies have MURDERED four members of my family. No other way to put it. They were
murdered.
Two were allergic to the most commonly used dye for angiograms. Both charts were clearly marked. Family members had made a point of making sure
medical personnel were aware of the allergy and were assured that an alternative dye would be used. The dye was used anyway and my first cousin and my
uncle both died. (Both in the same "award winning" hospital by the way!)
My aunt was hospitalized after a heart attack & stroke and was extremely weak. She couldn't control her bladder & the nurses kept insisting that she
have a catheter put in. She refused. I discussed it with her doctor and he agreed that no catheter would be used. Shortly thereafter, I had to step
out to take a phone call and when I returned I heard her screaming. Wen I rushed in, two nurses had her held down & a third was forcibly inserting a
catheter into her bladder. When I protested, I was grabbed by hospital security & threatened with arrest. I had to stand there, with guards holding
me, and watch her go into cardiac arrest and die.... My aunt was a very private woman who had never married. Very prim. Very proper. To her, the
forcible insertion of a catheter was the equivalent of rape. And it killed her. (This was the same hospital that killed my cousin & uncle.)
Then my mother was in Intensive Care at another hospital after a severe heart attack. We were only allowed visitation for something like 15 minutes
every 3 hours or so. She was getting better, fully lucid & off of the ventilator, to the point where during one of my visits, her physical therapist
moved her to a chair with instructions to both me & the nurse that she only be left upright for 15-20 minutes. This was to help prevent her from
developing pneumonia. Seconds after he left, I noticed all the usual ICU nurses gathering up their purses and leaving. I wasn't too alarmed because
it was about lunchtime & there were still personnel at the desk who appeared to be nurses as well. 20 minutes later, I walked to the desk to remind
them that my mother needed to be helped back into her bed only to discover that there wasn't a single registered nurse on the unit and that none of
the aides who were left were allowed to even TOUCH a patient, much less help them into bed. THEY HAD ALL GONE TO A BABY SHOWER FOR ONE OF THE OTHER
NURSES!!!! When I protested that my mother was extremely ILL and that her physical therapist had stressed that she was NOT to stay up any longer than
15-20 minutes, I was told that I had to leave, that I'd already been allowed to stay longer than I should have. When I refused to leave until she was
safely back in bed, security was called & after approx. 45 minutes (with my mother still propped upright and becoming increasingly nonresponsive), I
was manhandled out of the intensive care unit by hospital security, still begging them to get my mother some help. As soon as they turned me loose, I
tried contacting someone in charge at the hospital only to be told that everything I said was a lie... that the nurses had never left, my mother had
been put back in bed when she was supposed to, and that I wasn't allowed on the unit anymore because I had "threatened the nurses and endangered the
other patients." I finally managed to contact her doctor directly but it was too late. Being left upright as long as she was had caused her to have a
devastating stroke. My mother never had another lucid moment and passed away shortly thereafter. To the end, the hospital denied everything that had
taken place....