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originally posted by: ashisnotanidiot
a reply to: Shoshanna
Sounds to me like you're not having sex with him.
Which is kind of a problem in a relationship.
And it doesn't matter when or where he "decided" he wants kids. He wants them. I didn't want kids. Now I do, and I'm older than you. And it came out of nowhere.
That's nice, the house is yours. Good for you. If it wasn't paid off before you got married, it's his too. Sorry.
originally posted by: ashisnotanidiot
a reply to: Shoshanna
Sounds to me like you're not having sex with him.
Which is kind of a problem in a relationship.
And it doesn't matter when or where he "decided" he wants kids. He wants them. I didn't want kids. Now I do, and I'm older than you. And it came out of nowhere.
That's nice, the house is yours. Good for you. If it wasn't paid off before you got married, it's his too. Sorry.
originally posted by: putnam6
originally posted by: ashisnotanidiot
a reply to: Shoshanna
Sounds to me like you're not having sex with him.
Which is kind of a problem in a relationship.
And it doesn't matter when or where he "decided" he wants kids. He wants them. I didn't want kids. Now I do, and I'm older than you. And it came out of nowhere.
That's nice, the house is yours. Good for you. If it wasn't paid off before you got married, it's his too. Sorry.
LOL, not necessarily depending on the state, if he is cheating on her and she has a decent attorney. It might not be split 50/50 at all.
www.thelaw.com...
originally posted by: Lumenari
originally posted by: ashisnotanidiot
a reply to: Shoshanna
Sounds to me like you're not having sex with him.
Which is kind of a problem in a relationship.
And it doesn't matter when or where he "decided" he wants kids. He wants them. I didn't want kids. Now I do, and I'm older than you. And it came out of nowhere.
That's nice, the house is yours. Good for you. If it wasn't paid off before you got married, it's his too. Sorry.
If sex defines your relationship, then you don't have a relationship.
originally posted by: ashisnotanidiot
originally posted by: Lumenari
originally posted by: ashisnotanidiot
a reply to: Shoshanna
Sounds to me like you're not having sex with him.
Which is kind of a problem in a relationship.
And it doesn't matter when or where he "decided" he wants kids. He wants them. I didn't want kids. Now I do, and I'm older than you. And it came out of nowhere.
That's nice, the house is yours. Good for you. If it wasn't paid off before you got married, it's his too. Sorry.
If sex defines your relationship, then you don't have a relationship.
Did I say sex defines a relationship?
Nope.
If you're going to pretend not having sex with your partner is healthy or fulfilling for your partner, you should probably go seek mental help.
originally posted by: ashisnotanidiot
originally posted by: putnam6
originally posted by: ashisnotanidiot
a reply to: Shoshanna
Sounds to me like you're not having sex with him.
Which is kind of a problem in a relationship.
And it doesn't matter when or where he "decided" he wants kids. He wants them. I didn't want kids. Now I do, and I'm older than you. And it came out of nowhere.
That's nice, the house is yours. Good for you. If it wasn't paid off before you got married, it's his too. Sorry.
LOL, not necessarily depending on the state, if he is cheating on her and she has a decent attorney. It might not be split 50/50 at all.
www.thelaw.com...
If they're not having sex, she can't use the cheating card.
Sex is a natural part of a relationship, and without it, it's not a healthy relationship.
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