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1. Stop being offended.
2. Let go of your need to win.
3. Let go of your need to be right.
4. Let go of your need to be superior.
5. Let go of your need to have more.
6. Let go of identifying yourself on the basis of your achievements.
7. Let go of your reputation.
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Let go of the need to be Right
You can change someones mind, however if his beliefs are still the same, of the same opinion will he be
Originally posted by nine-eyed-eel
Certainly we can still wish to be right, internally, on an intellectual conscience basis, without worrying about whether we are recognized as right by others...I know that's what you're actually saying, for sure...
Originally posted by MischeviousElf
The problem I found Masquae and I am sure you to, is that I am usually right nearly 99% of the time lol so it is hard not to try and convince others of the error of their ways.
1. Stop being offended.
2. Let go of your need to win.
3. Let go of your need to be right.
4. Let go of your need to be superior.
5. Let go of your need to have more.
6. Let go of identifying yourself on the basis of your achievements.
7. Let go of your reputation.
Originally posted by zaiger
1. Stop being offended.
How about stop trying to offend people. As long as people have the right to offend others people have the right to voice and counter the opinions of others.
Im not sure what you are trying to say here, i do not know how one would try to be superior.
Im not sure how this applies to the digital ego.
Well a reputation is given not projected onto others. For example if you are a jerk and go to a party and walk in and say "hey guys im a big jerk im going to deficate on your table make fun of all of you and then throw up all over the place because im a big jerk and that is what i do" you would not have a reputation for doing that people would probably look up and say who is this jack###?. Now if you did those things you would get a reputation for doing that and people would say "oh great that guy is here last time he was here he..." I do not think people need to let go of their reputation but need to focus on getting a better one.
Originally posted by bsbray11
And to what do we return when we drop our egos, digital or otherwise?
Originally posted by masqua
Originally posted by bsbray11
And to what do we return when we drop our egos, digital or otherwise?
A happier, less fractious way of life?
Points, stars, flags and all the adornments of competition... as in "look, my bar is fuller and I have WA_A_AY more flags than you. Therefore my word is more important.
A reputation built over many years on ATS can fall with a huge crash within minutes if we're not careful. Perhaps it's more important to treat every member and each post they make with extreme care and without any consideration to personal reputation.
Originally posted by zaiger
So we should let go of our reputation but take great care of it?