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Originally posted by ravenshadow13
reply to post by mblahnikluver
That's probably what I would do. But I think that my grandparents' generation was more strict about ensuring that their children followed the religion that they themselves followed. But even today, many parents decide for their children.
What about baptisms? Circumscisions? Bar mitzvahs? When you're a kid, especially a baby but even until 18 really, your parents decide things for you. You can get confirmed, whatever. It could me meaningless to you. You may not even WANT to. What happens when you go through everything and decide later on you didn't want any of it to begin with?
You can't reverse some things like that.
Originally posted by ravenshadow13
Originally posted by DrumsRfun
... she doesn't even know why she believes it.
- Could it be because her parents did?
I think they would side with the more dominant parent that they might like a bit better or think more of.
- I think so, too. Or, even though it sounds completely wrong, if the kid grew up liking the gifts and traditions that came with one religion over another, it could condition them to associate positive things with the religion in general and they would be more likely to stick with it in the future.
I don't even talk to my mom and have no respect for her.
-But it sounds like you didn't have a lot of options with your religion growing up. Maybe if she gave you more choices and didn't force it upon you, you could have gotten along better?
I don't think it is a conspiracy so much as it is just plain ignorance.
I love questions like this.
- Me too. I'm starting to think though that somehow religions needed a way to gaurantee their survival. And this is it.
Originally posted by ravenshadow13
Originally posted by DrumsRfun
Even if they said it the former way, kids do have really extreme imaginations. Not that religion is made up necessarily, but they may really believe it is more probably and likely than they would if they were introduced to it later in life. Pair that with the fact that kids listen to their parents (most of the time) and look up to them and how they act and what they believe... it just works. It shouldn't, it's not right, it limits the spiritual experience of the individial... but it works.
Originally posted by ravenshadow13
reply to post by mblahnikluver
I know lots of people who were baptized and confirmed and regard it as a waste of time later on. But since they don't follow that religion, the ceremonies were meaningless.
I guess that's okay for them. But what if... you're raised one religion and you have to convert to the religion that you want? It's common, but I think converts are regarded with less respect in some religious communities. Like, if you have to be baptized as an adult.
It's strange to think about.
I think it's also easy to get kids to do the right thing to be "Like Jesus" or "Because God wants them to" or things like that. Not that it's true, but if they can relate to a story, it becomes realistic and they may be more likely to do it.