Wow, I didn't expect this many replies so soon!! Thanks everyone who has posted, I'll address everyone's post.
Enthralled Fan- There is a difference between a guy I would want my sister dating and one of my friends. Not to say that my friends are by any means
creepy- But I know for a fact he has already had sex with 2 girls (possibly 3 now that he's dated my sister for so long) One of the girls he had
sex with was a complete tramp
and they left one of the high school football games and went and did it in his jeep. Maybe I am a little bit
pissed that he chose my 14 year old sister over his best friend, but who wouldn't be?
Pikypiky- it is very hard to go along with it like its no big deal. Because, to me, it IS a big deal.
Chikeymonkey- Very good ideas. I don't know what you mean by everyone will think I'm grass could you clear that up?
Tac109- I could very easily handle this kid. Really, it wouldn't even be a fight. I wrestled in high school and well, he is about as big as my
sister. I would fight him but one time I slapped him in the face and he called his mom, who called the cops, and when I got home the cops were at my
house. Luckily he didn't press charges.
solar513- Have any ideas about any blackmail I could use against him? Its going to be hard to blackmail him seeing as my family is sweating his nuts
at this point in time. I already have an exit strategy from this house. I'm waiting for my last 400 dollars I'm getting for graduation, and my
taxes back and I'm moving out. I probably won't talk to my family ever again. (And no, I don't think I'm being over dramatic)
Thelibra- Its not that I don't like any guy my sisters are involved with. I've liked her last 2 boyfriends, and I've liked my other sister's
boyfriends. But I can see what you mean about an instinct to protect. Technically she CAN'T consent until she's 16 in ohio. She just starts
crying whenever this debate comes up, and that's how she has won their support because now I'm the big mean heartless jerk. Having the talk with
him has already proved fruitless. My cousin (he's 22) went out to have a talk with him to see why he was doing this, and the jackass just drove away
while my cousin was standing there!! I couldn't believe it!!
Whaa- As I said earlier, that is very difficult.
Tkainzero- As I said earlier, I am all for beating his ass, but I KNOW the police would get involved. I'd go down, but I'd take him with me. I'm
not really sure if I want assault charges on me at this stage in the game. He already filed a police report on me for slapping him that one time, do
you know how long someone can act on a police report before it becomes void?
Jensouth- I've noticed this too.. it makes them forget their problems and makes them join against the greater evil.
Well, I got to everyone. One of my principal arguments is this "Do you want your daughter dating someone who is willing to trade their best friend
in for my 14 year old sister? What kind of character does that show?" Nobody ever tries to answer that question in my house.
edit to add this little gem- One time when this girl told him that she just wanted to be friends he took 6 shots of bicardi 151 on a school night!
(this is the first time he'd ever drank so he took them all back to back like an idiot) Then he came to school the next day hungover...
[edit on 11-2-2008 by Ketzer22]