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Sure. I had some complications with this pregnancy, mainly one called "Weakened cervix", which called for a "cerclage" to be put in place, basically to stitch and hold the cervix together to help carry longer.
Originally posted by kosmicjack
Sorry honey...As a mom, I am dubious that any hospital, anywhere would release any woman 24 hours after child birth, natural or not.
Originally posted by kosmicjack
I smell a rat...
Originally posted by LostNemesis
I wanted to come home and work, and TOLD the hospital then and there that the baby's father and I would be in tonight to see the kid, and finish whatever other paperwork they wanted.
I really had no idea that I would need to be there every second of everyday that my premature little one was stuck in NICU,
Originally posted by Kruel
Originally posted by ModernDystopia
Originally posted by Kruel
What are you supposed to do... live in the hospital for a couple weeks until your child is released?
I hope this is a joke. Thousands of RESPONSIBLE moms get out of work on paternity leave and yes, do live in the hospital while their child rehabilitates.
Christ, the Idiocracy is taking over.
Not everyone gets paid leave. Most people where I work (including myself) are contractors. If I don't work, I don't get paid, simple as that.
And lay off the personal flames.
Originally posted by ModernDystopia
I'll lay off the personal flames when I start seeing an influx of people on this site with more than 3 brain cells. Simple as that.
Originally posted by MajorMalfunction
If my kids were in NICU they'd have had to sedate me to drag me away from them.
Originally posted by LostNemesis
Sure. I had some complications with this pregnancy, mainly one called "Weakened cervix", which called for a "cerclage" to be put in place, basically to stitch and hold the cervix together to help carry longer.
Basically that did help to carry a few months longer. At 4 months, the water was exposed and coming out, this was the only hope to carry the baby longer.
I have a fear of hospitals as it is, who doesn't?
Also with knowing that labor could (and DID) happen at anytime, there was no way to plan for time off work on the due date. Plain and simple, I wanted to come home and work, and TOLD the hospital then and there that the baby's father and I would be in tonight to see the kid, and finish whatever other paperwork they wanted. They agreed, and let me go, expecting to see the father and I after I got off work TONIGHT. There was no word from them that they would be turning this over to child services.
I really had no idea that I would need to be there every second of everyday that my premature little one was stuck in NICU, or face losing her. And still have no idea what my depression as a teen has to do with anything.
Originally posted by Valhall
So...
you gave birth to a premature baby that you call "the kid"...remember? you said you and your husband told the hospital you would be by tonight to see "the kid"...and you left to go back to work. And you're hanging out on an internet discussion board instead of being
1. with "the kid",
2. at work - unless your work is discussing your sad behavior on an internet discussion board.
YOU MAKE ME SICK!
GET YOUR FRIGGIN' TUBES TIED!