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NAVO66
Honestly, PM me do you have a facebook? I don't mind answering questions, but it would be easier to invite you to the reefing groups that I'm in,
which can be very supportive (including Waterbox Aquarium's official group. They have really good customer service). With mandarins, I haven't needed
to do much besides pray a lot and have faith in God and make sure my tank is clean and the fish, healthy. When the first mandarin died from the
anenome sting, as she struggled, I seriously asked her aloud what happened did she get hurt somewhere? Where?
And she throws herself emphatically over the RTBA. I'm not saying it means the fish understands English, but I think animals understand language.
That said, my parrot cichlids, Honey and Nectar, respond to verbal command. Honey follows my finger wherever I point to.
I interacted a lot with each animal. It's next to impossible to pair with an axolotl, though. Since they're likely to be mostly blind and since they
only hear low frequency sound, Haku, my axolotl (had to get one since I'm half-Mexican), probably doesn't know me from Adam!
I admittedly have a lot of time on my hands currently, as I work to find a position in the place I'm moving to. I also should say that I wasted so
many bottles of live pods on my other mandarin (who unfortunately got killed by a rainbow bubble tip anemone that I introduced. The anenome perished,
and the Chinese fellow who has been in the hobby for 25 years kept sending me new ones because I love rainbows (as you can probably tell--I know
mandarins are beloved in the hobby, but I have had a love for rainbows since Lisa Frank back in the 90's when I grew up
)
The truth is: I took a calculated risk and I know it. I'm prepared to handle it, if it suddenly takes a turn south. I don't think it is, though. The
male betta follows the female around and it's really quite sweet to watch, when compared with the goofy and sometimes overly violent clownfish
bullying.
In fact, for everyone in this thread, there are several good groups on Facebook, full of helpful people. One is a group for women, but they might
allow men since they like to help people. The owners have around 35 years of experience and got into the hobby early, kind of like one of my more
trusted coral sellers in California
edit on 14-11-2022 by rukia because: (no reason given)