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So I look to natural law, the foundation of life and all creation, and our Constitution. As written in the Declaration of Independence, our rights are "self-evident"; it is our absolute inalienable natural right to do what what we can of ourselves and by ourselves and/or with other consenting adults. And the simple truth is that nature and Nature's God does not compel/impel any woman to be a mother, and that nature and Nature's God provides the means for a woman to terminate a pregnancy of herself and by herself. Therefore, it is her absolute inalienable natural right to do so. Risky? Yup. But do-able. So any crime or sin committed is against nature and Nature's God. Not man and not men.
Likewise, in regards to conception, pregnancy, and fatherhood, men have no natural rights. There is absolutely nothing men can do of themselves and by themselves to have a child.
Fatherhood is a sacred gift -- both from Nature's God AND from the woman who agrees to bear his children. But too many men presume it is their right, rather than a privilege, subjugating women to their will, and otherwise abusing women's free will and our persons.
originally posted by: TheRedneck
a reply to: Boadicea
Yes, it is sad. But that is the way of these things. Please allow me to congratulate you on your son... hearing that news must have been very hard.
I do have a couple of issues with your thought process...
Natural law, if you mean, as I assume you do, the laws of nature, certainly do indicate that women become mothers. Sexual pleasure creates an impetus to engage in actions that lead to procreation, and the biological configuration of a woman's body decree that she be the one to carry a child to term in the event of a pregnancy. It is by man and man's laws (used here in the context of 'human' and not 'male') that we can control that to some degree. Contraceptive medications are not a product of nature; they are a product of man.
Abortion is not a product of nature; it is a product of man, and in large part is driven by the desire to accomplish things in man's world beyond motherhood.
And while yes, a woman can physically abort a pregnancy, to do so actually flies in the face of the natural instinct to self-preservation.
Thank you -- it was hard, as you well know I realize. My heart goes out to you. One of those times when I can only think, "If love could have saved her, she would have lived forever."
today, we rely on medical intervention and technology. But nature's bounty also provides the means to terminate a pregnancy, knowledge which was well known and practiced by the "wise women" of long ago ages.
Let's not forget profit!!! Many people profit from making sure -- one way or another -- that women do not want to have their babies.
Not just self-preservation, but the natural instinct to protect one's young. The proverbial "Mama Bear" or "Lioness" fiercely fighting off any and all danger with no thought for self... But that's not always the reality.
If you became pregnant would you want to put your whole life and health on hold for someone else because they said so?
Imagine being 16 years old and being told you are basically a walking baby machine.
originally posted by: Boadicea
Likewise, in regards to conception, pregnancy, and fatherhood, men have no natural rights. There is absolutely nothing men can do of themselves and by themselves to have a child. Fatherhood is a sacred gift -- both from Nature's God AND from the woman who agrees to bear his children. But too many men presume it is their right, rather than a privilege, subjugating women to their will, and otherwise abusing women's free will and our persons. And quite likely why nature created us thus, giving women some means of self-protection from men who would use and abuse her otherwise. Such as the points the OP has made regarding prosecuting women for accidents resulting in miscarriage. Or those who would grant "rights" to a rapist whose violence and brutality results in pregnancy.
If a man wants to preserve his real or perceived rights to the fruits of his loins, then he needs to take appropriate steps BEFORE engaging in the deed. Marry the woman, and bring your children into a stable and loving home and family. Or at least make sure the woman has the same values you have and would respect and honor you as a father in the event of pregnancy BEFORE you start dipping your pen in the well.
And let's stop making pregnancy and motherhood so damn hard!!! An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. If we don't want women aborting their babies, then let's make sure there is no reason for them to want to abort their babies. Let's not make it so damn difficult to be a mother!
I can already hear the wailing and gnashing of teeth. So be it. It is what it is.
I do not disparage a woman's right to decide what she wishes to do with her life. I simply point out that were we truly to be living by natural law, the purpose of every man would be to fight for the women under his care and likely die early doing so, and the purpose of every woman would be to create and raise offspring. That is not a world I wish to live in any more than you apparently do.
There is also absolutely nothing a woman can do to conceive a child without the aid of a man. It requires both sperm and ova to do so.
This contradicts what you wrote earlier, that men have no natural rights to fatherhood... if that were true, then fatherhood could not be a gift of nature (which I agree it is).
I, on the other hand, wish to subjugate no one. I completely support birth control availability... my daughter, despite our preaching abstinence from an early age, was on birth control pills as soon as the doctors said it was safe to do so. My son was taught his responsibility in birth control, in addition to the same abstinence preaching that my daughter received. That's simply acknowledgement of reality: children will be children, often with adult consequences. As parents, it fell on my wife and I to protect them from even themselves.
As far as I am concerned, abortion is a horrible thing to do, but it simply cannot be ignored... There will be mistakes in judgement, failures in precautions, rapes, miscarriages, incest, and horrible developmental defects that render a child unviable.... and it behooves us as a society to try and take those matters into consideration.
I believe a fair compromise would be ...[snip] The way to make motherhood easier is the same thing that humans have done for hundreds of years until modern society decided to 'fix' it - make the man an equal partner in the raising of the child.
TheRedneck
If a mother does not want to raise the child, but the father does, allow the father to do so. He is a parent as well.
That brings up an interesting point I have pondered many times. It seems to me that in a time when women in general often seem unhappy with their lot in life (many with good reason), I cannot help but see their innate ability nature has granted them... they are the ones who shape the future, by shaping the hearts and minds of the children. No man, regardless of how rich or powerful, has that kind of ability. Men may make the laws, but women control the hearts and minds of the future.
I see your point, and I fear we could easily (as a society) devolve to such a point. Especially if we keep giving so much power to "the feelz" in general, as opposed to our ability to think and reason and adapt. I do not want anyone reduced to their reproductive functions. That would benefit no one Especially every woman post menopause! I have often wondered why nature gave women an expiration date (so to speak) but men can seemingly reproduce forever.
In spirit I totally agree, and this was a sticking point for me for quite a while, but in practice it's more challenging. Because here's the thing -- as we both (sorrowfully) know: We really only have the right to want and to try. We have no right to a guaranteed outcome. I don't like it. But it is what it is.
In other words, you taught them simple critical thinking, that actions have consequences, and to be responsible in their actions... but we live in a world where people don't want to accept reality, nor consequences. And it's destroying people... at least making them miserable. If we cannot and do not accept responsibility for our actions and the consequences, then we cannot and do not take responsibility to make better choices and get better results either. It's not a curse to be able to make wise decisions, it is a blessing.
And it would serve us all well to remember that not all pregnancies are destined to be a "life." Spontaneous abortions are very real as well. Perhaps the mother's body rejects it for some reason, perhaps the embryo somehow rejects itself for some reason. Some pregnancies end in a stillbirth, and infants die from SIDS for no apparent reason. More often than not for unknown reasons. But there is a slippery slope here in that efforts to protect an unborn child with criminal sanctions risk persecuting mothers for any/all failed pregnancies.
I also think it's important to point out that many of those who oppose abortion are also quite happy to advocate for (or at least excuse) someone's death for some reason or another... capital punishment, euthanasia, "enemy" soldiers as well as civilian war casualties, vaccination deaths (albeit rare), and so on. I am not trying to justify or excuse abortion with "whataboutism," I am simply pointing out that if we are going to talk about the rights and wrongs of abortion, then we need to consider it in the larger context as well.
All common sense suggestions and I agree. While I will never agree to any one having control over another person's body or free will, we can find a happy medium to establish fair and balanced civil rights and responsibilities for all involved.
Thank you for the very thoughtful reply, Redneck. It's always appreciated -- and I expect nothing less from you!
originally posted by: TheRedneck
a reply to: riiver
The only requirement is that if you must take that life, please do it as soon as possible, so as to not make the child suffer any more than is necessary.
originally posted by: dawnstar
a reply to: Rob808
by the way, contrary to what some seem to want us to believe, the maternal death rates in this country are going up, not down. I previously figured out how many maternal deaths occurred for one year.. it came out to around 1,000 women.
Her name would have been "Dixie Sierra."
I'm afraid I am not familiar with that. Can you elaborate some specifics?
The most dangerous animal we have around here is also one of the cutest... a black bear cub. Mess with it, and no firepower, no retreat, no actions can be assured to save one from the wrath of Mama Bear. One need not even be messing with the cub; sometimes just being too close when it yells out is enough.
That brings up an interesting point I have pondered many times. It seems to me that in a time when women in general often seem unhappy with their lot in life (many with good reason), I cannot help but see their innate ability nature has granted them... they are the ones who shape the future, by shaping the hearts and minds of the children. No man, regardless of how rich or powerful, has that kind of ability. Men may make the laws, but women control the hearts and minds of the future.
Not to mention, women effectively control men as well. On a typical date, only one of the parties knows what will likely transpire after the date ends, and it certainly is not the man! Some days I think that is our secret to survival of the species.
TheRedneck
...this case certainly could open the door to that, and that's a damn scary thought.
Sadly, I don't think that will ever happen. Since the 80's at least (I was still a little kid in the 70s, so I can't speak to them from my own experience), the mantra has been that women who choose motherhood over career are sellouts. That mothers who really mother are women who willingly choose slavery over freedom, blah blah. Look at all the derogatory terms we have for stay-at-home moms AND for women who are really involved in their kids lives. Society has a schizophrenic attitude toward mothers — pushing this idealized version of "mother" and putting her on a pedestal when it's convenient, but on the whole denigrating real mothers trying to really parent in the real world. It's terribly sad. And short of a complete reorganization of society's priorities, I don't see that doing anything but getting worse. Maybe I'm just a cynic.