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originally posted by: loam
a reply to: NarcolepticBuddha
Hm. Maybe you should reflect upon whether that's true about you.
Given my posting history on these boards, if you think I fit the example of someone who cries anytime someone disagrees with me, then I know the problem is more yours than mine.
Give yourself a cookie.
originally posted by: sine.nomine
a reply to: NarcolepticBuddha
Dude, just stop posting in this thread. I'm asking for advice. If I'm "over-reactionary" then with all due respect, piss off.
originally posted by: NarcolepticBuddha
originally posted by: sine.nomine
a reply to: NarcolepticBuddha
Dude, just stop posting in this thread. I'm asking for advice. If I'm "over-reactionary" then with all due respect, piss off.
Light-hearted indeed!
I gave you my advice. Be assertive, or get professionals to intervene.
What else do you want to hear?
originally posted by: Nickn3
The female supervisor would owe me a pair of pants. I would whisper in the drug testers ear, touch me again and your going to need an ambulance.
originally posted by: NarcolepticBuddha
originally posted by: sine.nomine
a reply to: NarcolepticBuddha
Not even joking, I only have my fiance cut my hair anymore because I don't like flirty barbers. I hate to say it, but sometimes I jump when my fiance touches me... I don't mean to, and I hate myself when it happens.
Well if it's that serious then stand your ground. Be assertive.
If that doesn't work then get the sharksuits to step in.
originally posted by: NarcolepticBuddha
originally posted by: SummerRain
originally posted by: NarcolepticBuddha
a reply to: sine.nomine
Eh it doesn't sound that bad. Just close your eyes and think of England.
Honestly, I go to get haircuts just because it feels good having someone run their fingers through my hair and I tip well.
I wonder if there's a bar where TSA agents hang out. I'd like to meet one
Do you also go to a mechanic for a prostate exam? Difference here is you want that interaction. He doesn't.
Seriously, all these flippant rubbish replies are disheartening.
OP is being overreactionary.
Did you see the comment that he flips out even when his partner touches him?
This is a different issue altogether and is not sexual harassment.
PC world needs to grow thicker skin jeezuz
originally posted by: NarcolepticBuddha
a reply to: KansasGirl
Yeah, read the OP again yourself. He's not being sexually assaulted. There is a deeper issue he needs to address, yes. And he needs to be more assertive with his comfort zone, yes. Learned helplessness is not going to go over well with me, sorry. But claiming sexual harassment from ordinary daily ribbing is not harassment. The lines have become blurred, and this is why professional help is essential to the OP.
I will star your post as I did all the others painting me as some villain.