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originally posted by: TonyS
a reply to: redhorse
You have no choice except to withdraw her from that school and as soon as humanly possible. School Administrators are uncaring and always willing to close a blind eye to problems like this. Pithy but true, "you can't fight city hall". I live in a rural area and nearly a quarter of the students have pulled out of the public school system because of problems like this. A nurse at our Doctor's office had to pull both her children out and enroll them in the local private academy because of this very "bullying" issue.
The local public school system is so poorly rated, I'd guess that this year or next it will be taken over by the State and that won't fix the poor performance problem either.
Yank her out!
originally posted by: Natas0114
I also live rural with my youngest in a small school.
Thankfully, no major problems, just a few normal 9yr old boy issues.
That being said- befriend the secretary! That's the real power in small schools. The kids themselves know if the secretary has eyes on you, your day is not going well.
Principles tend to be very defensive and protective of "their" school. Which is the problem. To much politics involved with locals getting their way before what's needed to take care of the children's need first.
This is where the secretary comes in.
She or he is basically the one that does all the work.in a small school. Talk to her and see if she has any ideas. Taking one out for dinner with your kids and her/his kids is a small price to pay for peace. It also gets everyone in a different environment to talk about what's going on. Let that person see and hear.for themselves that your kids are worth defending. No principal wants his secretary pissed at him, it makes life very hard.
Good luck, and god bless.
originally posted by: Natas0114
a reply to: redhorse
Ah, I see. Well maybe you could get together with people who have pulled their kids out and have a meeting about why they did. Perhaps invite the principal or administrator, so they can hear first hand why they are losing students. Visibility is a big deal, especially to people who want to be important.
They really wouldn't want a bunch of locals speaking about their failures in a place they frequent. I wish I had a sure fire way to help, but, looks like your in a uphill battle.
Keep your chin up.
originally posted by: bender151
a reply to: redhorse
Case in point.. you say you'll consider any respectful suggestions... then basically blow everyone off. "Yeah, good point! EXCEPT now I'm going to tell you why I won't actually consider anything else has to say." So, you're a relentless b*tch, who feels her problems are so unique that she simply cannot be helped, but wants to invite the efforts of others so that... I don't know. Why exactly are you posting? Not to take advice. From your description, it doesn't sound like things will be any easier for your daughter anywhere else. That's the point I'm getting at.
Does that bug anyone else? When someone asks for advice, and they're all "yeah... but... no." You asked for it. Say thanks and move on if you're not going to do anything but shut down the conversation beyond that. Geesh.
originally posted by: redhorse
a reply to: network dude
That is a good idea. Hopefully other parents will be receptive.