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originally posted by: Antipathy17
Hello all. I know its time in our nation to continue (some might say start) the conversation for transgender people.
How should society classify a transgender persons sex? Options seem to be, their original sex, their newly designated sex, a single "new" sex or a two new sexes? I ask because some people are going to be very uncomfortable. So do we unisex ALL bathrooms? or add new types?
I also wanted to discuss something that is probably very sensitive and I really hope not to offend. When and why did transgender become identified as anything other than a gender identity order? I guess the same can be asked about homosexuality. It seems we need to discuss and come to the conclusion that this are either inherent in man or a mental disorder. I make no claims but it just seems logical to figure out. I'm kind of stuck on the chromosomes. You can't change your xy's.
I am but curious and kind of disgusted by tansgender people. I do not wish ill upon transgender. The thing is, I'm very attracted to women and when a woman or a man changes anatomy, its like... ( I'm trying to define it without using perversion) to the idea of women I hold dear . I hate saying it because I respect those people as individuals but I can't but help look away if I know someone is transgender.
Anyway, I just wanted to be open about how I feel because a discussion should be had. I wish all of you the best.
You want answers from people you call disgusting? Good luck.
originally posted by: Antipathy17
a reply to: Abysha
I never said they are disgusting. I am just personally duagusted... Something I am trying to overcome.
Wasting their breath answering my questions why, soley because I am repulsed? seems ignorant since I'm stepping out of my comfortability to better help them in theirs
originally posted by: Abysha
originally posted by: Antipathy17
a reply to: Abysha
I never said they are disgusting. I am just personally duagusted... Something I am trying to overcome.
Wasting their breath answering my questions why, soley because I am repulsed? seems ignorant since I'm stepping out of my comfortability to better help them in theirs
Wasting breath because no matter what is said and no matter what information is presented, people will drag out their out-dated terminology and archaic definitions that fit their comfortable views of gender and sexuality, disregarding any advancements or followups in the subject.
Ignorance is embedded into nostalgia and nostalgia has a powerful hold on people. People are scared to acknowledge their world is not exactly the way they thought it was. That Pluto is not a planet, that particle physics is different than when they grew up, that Obama was born in America, and that their binary understanding of gender is incomplete and flawed.
I have yet to see a member on here actually respond to new information (about anything really) with a shift in their flawed thinking.
There are several threads on it and several instances exactly like the ones I described. Each met with disrespect and ill-intentions with the subject matter experts being insulted and demeaned. Like I said, it's not really worth it on ATS to discuss it.
I respect your reply. I'd like to talk to someone who is trans. I was kind of hoping here might be my opportunity. Not too many of them floating around, than you have to factor in how many of them are just failures as people as all of us can be. so I don't get ill be having a genuinely progressive discuss with one any time soon.
originally posted by: fossilera
a reply to: Antipathy17
For me, my observations from my side of the fence is neutral: I have gone out with transgender people before - in terms of what sex I'd classify them: I'd classify them as the gender they appear to be. When I went out with them or talked with them, I felt without a doubt that they were female inside and out - They felt they were female on the inside, and I'd have to agree with them.
Trans has always been around; it's just now coming to light more and more because certain famous people have come out, making it easier for those that fall into the category to speak up. And it can be classified as a mental disorder, just as practically anything nowadays (DSM-V has computer-related disorders now).
Personally, I don't care either way - Because their decision doesn't have an impact on how I live my life. I don't see it as gross, any more than people that get piercings or tattoos are gross. If a girl is checking me out, I'm chatting with them because I see them as a girl (as they'd like to be seen).
Try talking to someone that is a trans - it might be better than speculation in a thread.
-foss
originally posted by: Poppcocked
Does Bruce Jenner buy tampons?
originally posted by: Antipathy17
originally posted by: Poppcocked
Does Bruce Jenner buy tampons?
completely irrelevant. Thanks for not contributing.
originally posted by: Antipathy17
I hate saying it because I respect those people as individuals
but I can't but help look away if I know someone is transgender.
For a few transgender Americans, this has been a year of glamour and fame. For many others, 2015 has been fraught with danger, violence and mourning.
While Caitlyn Jenner made the cover of Vanity Fair and Laverne Cox prospered as a popular actress, other transgender women have become homicide victims at an alarming rate. By the count of the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, there have been 22 killings so far this year of transgender or gender-nonconforming people — including 19 black or Latina transgender women.
The toll compares with 12 last year and 13 in 2013, and is the highest since advocacy groups began such tallies a decade ago. "Most Americans think it's been an amazing year for transgender rights," said Mara Keisling, executive director of the National Center for Transgender Equality. "But for the transgender community, it's been one of the most traumatic years on record."
apnews.myway.com...
originally posted by: Antipathy17
How should society classify a transgender persons sex?
Options seem to be, their original sex, their newly designated sex, a single "new" sex or a two new sexes?
So do we unisex ALL bathrooms?
When and why did transgender become identified as anything other than a gender identity order?
I'm kind of stuck on the chromosomes. You can't change your xy's.
I hate saying it because I respect those people as individuals but I can't but help look away if I know someone is transgender.
Sex reassignment surgery is incredibly disturbing/disgusting unless you know more about it. Not everyone gets it, so to them it's someone that has mental problems, self mutilating a VERY sacred part of their body because the mental problems are still not understood.