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originally posted by: Wetpaint72
Thank you for sharing. Our stories are very similar.
I would go back and change it if I could. But I can't. I now enjoy a life with my partner of 10 years.
Struggled, and still do with depression. Because of the self hate I punished myself with for so long, so young.
Have known since I was about 4, probably sooner but I can't remember much before the age of 4.
I wish it were a choice.
originally posted by: refined
a reply to: OpenEars123
i love some peoples idiotic gayness (but they are still just that beautiful idiots)
myself bisex
the transition to bisexual female took some true mind expanding work
it actually took me 3 years to be with a woman sexually
males and females are equally beautiful creatures
so why the fvck wouldn't I love them or be attracted to them equally
love you story
originally posted by: refined
real life is different reality I have homophobic folks and actually best friends
is sooooo sad I can't be me
but you guys make me happy
originally posted by: markosity1973
I would NEVER have chosen to be gay knowing that it goes against everything I was told to believe having been brought up under a strict Catholic roof.
I did not choose the depression it caused
I did not choose the multiple suicide attempts as my depression spiralled me into the depths of utter madness
I did not choose to be rejected by family because gay 'is of the devil'
Nope, would have avoided all the above if I could have.
Now that time has passed and I am a whole person again the only thing I'd change if I could do it all again is the people surrounding mes attitudes because they were the ones with the choice on how they acted. In reacting so poorly they caused me to lose my mind and very nearly my life.
But you know what? Blood is thicker than water and I chose to forgive them because 2 wrongs never make a right.
originally posted by: OpenEars123
Wow, superbly written! You summed up everything I was trying to say, but with a 1000 less words lol
Seriously they were some wonderful and powerful words there. And with regards to your family and others around you who were negative.. I think it's glaringly obvious who the bigger man and better person is.
Many thanks for sharing this
originally posted by: Revolution9
a reply to: OpenEars123
I can prove your premise wrong in an instant. I am speaking the whole truth here.
From the age of 16 - 19 I was on the gay scene. I thought I was gay. At the age of 19 I decided I was not gay. I made a choice and changed. Since, I have been a very heterosexual person.
Even with a liberal agenda there is no excuse for blanket statements. There will always be those that defy any preconceived norm, in considerable numbers, too.
The spirit of LGBT is to let everybody have the freedom to be who they are in terms of sexuality. Making sweeping statements is just one little step towards becoming what you initially defied.