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InTheLight
Most women don't respond well to 'spread em' requests.
ArtemisE
reply to post by CynConcepts
So basically the consensus is that if your partner doesn't enjoy sex with you and you still wanna have sex you should leave her/him.edit on 28-3-2014 by ArtemisE because: (no reason given)edit on 28-3-2014 by ArtemisE because: (no reason given)
Montana
InTheLight
Most women don't respond well to 'spread em' requests.
And most men don't respond well with "Just go play with yourself" statements.....
Both cases are abusive.
Montana
reply to post by Bigburgh
A true meeting of the minds!!!!
How rare and wonderful that is! You are one lucky lucky person to have been allowed that!
CynConcepts
If the only reason you are with someone is to ensure you have regular sex...you obviously have no idea what marriage let alone, relationships, are all about. So, yes, such an individual should set their partner free so their partner can find someone who really wants to share life with them.
Montana
reply to post by benrl
I agree in general, but sometimes leaving isn't the answer either. In my case, before the problem came to be, there were children to provide and care for. It would take a lot more than sexual frustration to get me to abandon them, so I have just put up with it. However when the children are all raised and on their own, well we will just have to see.