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All right, fine. Empathy is nice, it's recommended by Sesame Street and Public schools everywhere. Empathy involves sharing or identifying with other peoples' feelings. Since your morals and values come from this, it must be your highest value.
Why?
Why is it a higher value than honesty, faithfulness, non-violence, self-sacrifice, or any of dozens of popular values running around loose, all vying for "Highest Value" honors?
Did you pick it because you like it the best? Perhaps it's easiest for your personality to practice? Is it easier for you to be empathetic than honest? Do you think empathy is "better" than honesty, or some other virtue? It's certainly more empathetic, but what scale did you use to measure truth against empathy and decide empathy was more important?
But, maybe you think it's the value that will allow humans to survive a hundred years longer than if they picked some other value? If so, then empathy isn't your highest value, it's survival. There are ugly names for people who prefer survival above every other consideration.
I think the term "civilized" is one of those abstract concepts that could teach us a lot about the difference between ourselves and the world. It seems to me that the human species is attempting to become something other than an organic lifeform. First comes the behavior. Then comes the mentality. Then we'll be able to modify our biology before finally transforming ourselves entirely, becoming a class completely separate from anything on Earth.
And the word "civilized" reflects that in that every time we encounter an instance of "civilization", it's a step away from being an animal and a step toward being something else entirely. Something mechanical, a synergetic system as opposed to primal survivalism. Do you get what I'm trying to say? The more I think about the word "civilized", the more it strikes me as being a rejection of animalism. An evolution of the mind before the evolution of the body. And I think that's what's coming next.
What? How does that follow? Or, what logical analysis did you utilize to reach that conclusion?
That was a lot of fluff and non sequiturs to say religious people are crazy and hurt people. I know that's your belief, but those statements were roughly equivalent to ...., but never mind, there's nothing that that statement is equivalent to. It is entirely illogical and unsupported by anything.
Grimpachi
Those who are religious are only one step away from believing a burning bush may start talking to them. How can people not realize the guy was delirious and not much different from the people that you see walking around talking to themselves or arguing with inanimate objects? The entire premise in religion is you give credibility to the mentally insane.
Empathy involves sharing or identifying with other peoples' feelings. Since your morals and values come from this, it must be your highest value.
In regard to social protocol? Of course.
So maybe we are talking about morals in general. Which of the two approaches did you intend?
Anyway...yeah, empathy. Without empathy, there are no morals. Morals are about as pointless as avoiding the cracks in a sidewalk if you have no empathy.
Social protocol? I didn't realize we were talking Emily Post here. That was my mistake, I thought we were talking about morals. So empathy is the source of good manners or politeness, for now I can accept that. Of course, good manners have very little, if anything, to do with serious moral issues.
To further help clarify, when you say "empathy," are you talking about recognizing and understanding the feelings of others, or changing our behavior to improve the feelings of others?
There is much more to say about your thorough post, but I think I have to get these things cleared up in my mind first.
I do appreciate you sticking with me in this discussion, I'd really like to understand your position better.
I sort of agree, kind of, in a way, but ....
So murder, thievery, adultery, and deceit have nothing to do with good manners? The tent poles on which good manners are built don't extend to cover those more severe matters as well?
I know you're not saying that impolite people are immoral. And I know some exceedingly polite people who are the scummiest sons of guns you could imagine. I think you're looking at this from the wrong end of the telescope. Burping at the table, doesn't mean you're an immoral person. Starting from "manners" and working up to morality seems wrong, but working from morality down to rudeness is a little more plausible.
Consider, a wealthy person is asked for a $5 donation. He says "no," in a very polite manner. Is he well-mannered? Yes. Is he moral? No. I think we're going to have to disassociate manners from morals, except in some circumstances. The connection isn't so clear that we can build a moral philosophy from it.
You explain that empathy is a means to sustain, (somehow it was created, or came into existence) a society that postpones actual current social productivity (Whatever that means. Let's just call it "good,") for a possibly greater future good.
Here's my first "Why?" I'm not asking why it is good to support delayed gratification, I'm asking what principle of morality you're applying to say that it is more moral than enjoying yourself now? There may or may not, be a practical benefit to that plan, but what is the moral benefit?
Oh, and by the way, you're claiming that empathy is a means to sustain the society you describe, so sustaining the society is a greater value than having empathy. There might be other ways to do it, but in any event, it's the society you value most highly, not the empathy.
To carry it a step further, that society is a means to some other end. What is that end? And why strive for it?
I haven't seen your moral principle yet, just that you support ways to get to the society you want. But no particular reason to want to get to that society, and really no reason why it is immoral for people to disagree with you.
The only thing that makes any sense to me is that you might be saying that, just as taking from the rich to give to the poor is your goal, so is taking from the present and giving to the future. But you realize we don't have an infinite future, so eventually it will be useless to give to the future, because there won't be any.
AfterInfinity
Anyway...yeah, empathy. Without empathy, there are no morals. Morals are about as pointless as avoiding the cracks in a sidewalk if you have no empathy.