Why i want gay marriage!!!!

I am a close to 40 year old transsexual.

But bedside's that i have 3 children and a wife of close to 15 year's.
I can not legally stay married to my wife of close to 15 year's due to christian value's that are not suppose to be in our law's.
Separation of church and state..remember it folk's.

By 99% of the hater's i am good enough to be married support and raise my kid's for 15 year's as a man.
But the second my twig and berries come off i am unfit to marry her.

If you can not see a family is a family we need some kind of law's set in place where we can put each other on tax's insurance and stuff too.
Regardless of law's we still exist and will always be here wondering why we have to suffer in life because people do not want to accept us for what we are.
Loving adults with families & children..we are not monster's or pervert's in any way
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We just want the same right as you to piss on.
Look at the divorce rate in America it's staggering.

There are so many gay, lesbian, trans-gender, transsexual, and other words I don't even understand types of people out there it is simply should not be an issue anymore. I have a lesbian friend and we often talk about how people think about gender rolls.

But thanks for sharing your story

reply to post by Kentucky75


A lot of this turmoil over this issue deals with semantics and an unhealthy relationship between the church and the state...which as you said should be separate.

Gay couples should qualify for legal benefits from the state...otherwise its discrimination. Any relationship that isn't "Illegal" in the eyes of the state should qualify...even if its a relationship with your cat.

The CHURCH is its own entity and should be able to follow its own beliefs and doctrines by NOT marrying those they don't believe qualify...(gay, etc)

The PROBLEM is that the state recognizes the church MARRIAGE system as its own system (which it is not) and the terminology is very misleading. One is religion...the other is government and they were meant to be separate for this and many other reasons. Otherwise you have a church that runs the government....not necessarily a free country then is it...

The government should recognize its OWN relationship standard by which it grants benefits to couples etc...It should label this relationship standard something OTHER than Marriage...and in many states they do and its called "common law".

The church should recognize its OWN relationship standard by which it chooses who benefits based on the belief systems that are the foundation of said church/religion. The government shouldn't have lever-edge over how the church functions off of its beliefs and the church shouldn't have lever-edge on how the government works.

This is the only sensible solution...as Gay couples will be happy the government/state will recognize their relationship and afford them the benefits of such....and the church will be happy because it won't HAVE to disregard its belief system to appease political correctness.

The ONLY people that won't be happy are the ones that want to FORCE their opinions beliefs on the church or FORCE their CHURCH on the state...neither of which have ground to stand on.

at least that's my opinion on the issue.

It's crazy, isn't it? Do you have the means to sue the state? It would be great if your situation could get media coverage, as it is a clear case of discrimination against you.

Originally posted by Kentucky75
By 99% of the hater's i am good enough to be married support and raise my kid's for 15 year's as a man.
But the second my twig and berries come off i am unfit to marry her.

Your kidding aren't you?

reply to post by kaylaluv


i wouldn't sue cause the majority rule's.

That old song i fought the law and the law won...i have tried in my younger day's it's true