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Originally posted by jiggerj
Look, this may come off as insulting, but I'm dead serious. More and more people aren't able to stop the flow of trivial and downright meaningless thoughts from vomiting out of their mouth. I believe I've mentioned this before, but it's so prevalent now that I can't ignore it any longer.
I can't go anywhere without total strangers talking to me as if we were lifelong buddies, and what they have to say has no conversation value whatsoever.
Yes, I'm calling them stupid and utterly boring, but is it possible that these people are suffering from some kind of brain malfunction? We talk here about genetically altered food and about chemicals being sprayed via the contrails of planes. Are we being poisoned? Are we devolving as a species?
Something is going on. All of my life I've witnessed stupid people being very quiet because they were at least smart enough to know that were stupid. Now it's a matter of fewer and fewer people are using their brain filters to weed out the interesting thoughts against the uninteresting - just open mouth and puke up a bunch of stinking nonsense, all day, everyday.
I'll say it again: Something is wrong!
Thankfully I have one of those expressive faces that doesn't hide any emotion, including incredulity or contempt very well. So the talkative strangers usually move past me and onto someone else within the first five or ten words.
Originally posted by jiggerj
reply to post by Hefficide
Thankfully I have one of those expressive faces that doesn't hide any emotion, including incredulity or contempt very well. So the talkative strangers usually move past me and onto someone else within the first five or ten words.
I am not a pretty face either, and I make sure that my body language can be read by a freakin' monkey. Just before this thread I went to the store to play a little bit of the lottery. This guy starts telling me how he shoveled his sidewalk today and how his landlord is an A-hole because he doesn't provide salt for the pavement. I don't know him. I don't know his landlord. Everybody shovels snow. I turned my back to him to scratch my lottery tickets and he still kept rambling on about this wholly uninteresting topic. This is just one example of many encounters every week, and, sadly, it isn't the worst of them.
Originally posted by Char-Lee
reply to post by jiggerj
If a stranger starts talking to me, about unimportant uninteresting things, I respond as warmly and politely as I can.
They are usually just lonely people who don't have anyone to talk to except for the occasional trip to the store.
The encounters will only be a few minuets of my life, but may help them immensely, I give them a smile and chat as long as they are not rude or crude.
Wow I think you need your own planet. Hope your not Christian, by all accounts he could test you out by being an annoying person and bugging you with small talk.
Originally posted by rickymouse
So why do some of you not like those who try to strike up a conversation?
Originally posted by jiggerj
reply to post by Char-Lee
Wow I think you need your own planet. Hope your not Christian, by all accounts he could test you out by being an annoying person and bugging you with small talk.
Hey, I would agree with you if this was an infrequent occurrence, but it's happening every time I go to the store!
Here's a snippet of the babbling I've put up with just this week from different people, and when I say 'snippet' it's because these people drone on and on and onnnnnn about this stuff.
Lady with a stack of lottery tickets she filled out: I am going to win the lottery today! Will you buy me a coffee and a newspaper? And, can I bum a couple of smokes off you? This was the first time I encountered this woman. I gave her five bucks and two smokes. The next time she asked me to buy her a newspaper and give her two cigarettes. I gave her one smoke. The next three encounters I told her I was hard of hearing. That stopped her.
This from a guy with a lump on his forehead: Hey, can I bum a smoke off you? Thanks. So, I drank two pints of vodka and I slipped on the ice this morning and wound up in the hospital. I... (I stopped even pretending to listen here).
Little old Japanese woman: Hey, you have a cigarette? You have a dollar? Gave her both. She asked again the next day. I said no because I watched her dump twenty bucks on lottery scratch tickets.
Even a Christian would lose his/her patience with all of this crap.
One gray-haired woman bummed a smoke off me as I went into the store. She actually tried to bum another as I walked out. I said no and she blasted me with, "What do you want me to do, go whoring for smokes?!" I walked away.
edit on 2/17/2013 by jiggerj because: (no reason given)
reply to post by MagesticEsoteric
it escalated to a point that creeped him out
Originally posted by jiggerj
reply to post by MagesticEsoteric
it escalated to a point that creeped him out
That is exactly what it's doing to me. I'm not angry, I'm creeped out. People used to bum cigarettes or money and said thank you and walked away.
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Other times people have gone into detail on how they just got out of prison, and one guy gave me a lengthy lesson on which types of wood are good for burning. I did manage to ask this one if he had a fireplace or burned wood in any way, and he said no.
These people don't know my name, and they don't know me. Why then would they give me such personal details on their lives or utterly irrelevant info on firewood if their minds were functioning properly? There is nothing about me that would trigger someone's need to talk about firewood.
I guess what creeps me out the most is that this usually happens at 5 or 6 in the morning when I'm tired and heading for work. I don't know many people that want to talk THAT much so early in the morning.