posted on Jan, 25 2012 @ 08:39 AM
reply to post by Alyssa
I read your other post about love, and now I read this one and I am a bit concerned you feel the way you do. You do not seem very happy about this
world and your life in it, so you think it would be better to escape to a virtual world where everything is how you wish it to be and you are in
perfect control.
That sounds really appealing, but it is nothing more than an escape. In reality you are not in perfect control. No one is in perfect control of this
world. Things happen all the time that I cannot control, but I can control how I handle them.
you ARE in perfect control of your body, mind and feelings. You choose to feel angry or sad. You may not be aware that you are choosing to be
sad.....but you are. Separate yourself from your feelings and really ask yourself why are you feeling the way you do?
Your real life will not change and unless you plan on living your entire existence in your bedroom, you will be stuck. you will keep having the same
problems over and over until you face them and change them.
Life is unfair, it is scary and there are tons of screwed up stuff going on.....I love escape too, but i know too much escape is not healthy. I
encourage you to seek out the good stuff, it is there....maybe hard to find, it requires alot of effort, but it is there.
VR escape is the same as any other escape.....nothing will change in your life until you change it. Sorry if this comes off as a lecture, but I used
to be similar to you in this way, and I just wanted you to know that first I care and understand, and second, I wanted to give you something to
consider.
For what it is worth, I hope everything does go better for you, you seem like a bright person who is just having a difficult time.