PLEASE HELP! My GF's X is tracking her car!

reply to post by richierich931


I think her phone is ok as he has no access to it. HE said last time he hid a phone in her car. Apparently a phone with a sim card in even when dead still gives of a signal that can be tracked.

Believe me I would love to do that, but this could hurt her court case if it got linked. Also the more angry he is in general the worse he gets. HE is paranoid anyway so even if he had no clue who it was it's likely she would suffer. You are spot on, he wants her back desperately, but knows she'll never take him back and he just feels like by controlling her using fear he's at least controlling a big part of her life. I'm just really scared for her coz he is mentally unstable and I'm worried when the penny finally drops that here is no hope he might do something really stupid. HE is a drug dealer as well so is probably used to people trying to rob him etc anyway, I don't wana involve anyone else like friends or anything either.

Also when he finally gets arrested and gets a court date he'll go mad

reply to post by AK907ICECOLD


My main concern though is her and her daughters safety. Anything I were to do to him would just come back on her when I'm not around and like I said I am too far to protect her in the week when we're apart. I have thought to myself if or when he comes for me I'll assume he's come to kill her like he's threatened and defend myself accordingly to save my own life.

Problem is he doesn't think logically at all. His head is a total minefield so just scaring him wont work and taking it in to my own hands will harm her case severely. I appreciate the advice though I realise there prob isn't any very good solutions. It's just knowing that theres so little I can do at this point when all I want to do its fix it

reply to post by clintdelicious


MMgggrrr! That's so horrible, and so true, it happens everywhere.

Get her into a self defense class, a good one! Do what it takes to pay for it!

I taught my last GF how to fight, and bought her a "Noisy Cricket",
A little pink 9mm to carry in her purse. Pink, so she's more motivated to
like it,see it, and use it, IDK, girls like pink for some reason?

Karma is a ________. He'll get owned soon enough friend, but wish
him to change for the better, for his kid, his friends, and his family.

reply to post by Gazrok


Thats what I thought, It's just the fact that he has told her smugly before how he tracked her car and the other week he jumped in her car while she was in a multi story car park that she never uses in the area n she had no idea how he could be there. This is when he was crying he still loved her. Previously he has attacked her from this position in the car, bit she stayed calm n tried to explain why they will never be together ever again and he just got hysterical and stormed of. He then drove past her parked car with what looked like his new gf in the car.

I definitely haven't ruled the stalking alone our but when the nastier stuff started happening thats when it all changed. I think he easily could have slipped a small mobile phone in her car during this crying fit so I'm guna search it when I see her. I'm sure she was too panicy to take not of what he was doing, especially if he was playing it all up to disguise his real intention of planting whatever if was.

People are acting like this is james bond style stuff but my friends Dad has done this to his car and found him when he had an argument with his Dad and he went of and it only took a lil bit of time. Also an old band mates had the exact same thing happen with his gf's car being tracked ny a bf she had't told him about that she was two timing him with. It's not anything too special or crazy it simple technology

He's not suppost to know where she lives but his idiot mum took him along to pick their daughter up. (His mum fails to accept he's a scummer despite the fact that he sells weed for a living at his parents house for free, which is also why he has so much cash. He even claims benefits for 'low income' so avoids paying anything to his daughter apart from xmas when he wanted to buy her love. Can't stand this, is the most frustrating thing.

reviously he has attacked her from this position in the car, bit she stayed calm n tried to explain why they will never be together ever again and he just got hysterical and stormed of. He then drove past her parked car with what looked like his new gf in the car.

If this guy is actually attacking her, what the hell are you still doing away? I'm hoping you meant verbally, but still man, sounds like you really need to be there for her and the daughter...just sayin'