posted on Nov, 16 2011 @ 05:01 AM
I understand your point and i thought about it many times. Eventually people will realize that its better to help others.
Someone does something to you that is wrong. The best you can do is to help her change, to stop doing bad.
The problem is that many people donĀ“t know how to serve/help other people.
How do you help someone that does wrong?
Should you just give him love? Should you tell him what he is doing wrong? Maybe he will not take it easily.
Should you leave him alone?
Should you punish? Some people need discipline and penalty to wake up.
Some people take advice badly.
Maybe some people need to do wrong because they need to learn from their mistakes, so we should let him be.
Maybe some people need to feel what they made others feel, to learn from that, maybe we should let them live a bad experience, because they need it. f
you save them from that experience you are only dealing that experience because sooner or later they will go through it. They need it.
How do you help people?
In my view the problem is not to serve/help or not. The problem is how to do it in an effective way IMHO
Your thoughts?
edit on 16-11-2011 by Manula because: (no reason given)