Do I have a curse or is the universe out to get me?

I must begin by saying I am a spiritual person, not one to go to church, but believe in the power of the universe. In the past week I have had a series of unfortunate and near death experiences. It seems like I am in the movie "Final Destination" and I'm the main character. Don't know if someone has unintentionally put a hex on me or if I am going through a test of my existence.
It started last Thursday night when I got out the shower to retrieve a wash cloth and entered the shower, where I slept and fell on my knee and banged my head, could've been a lot worse.
On Monday I was returning from Florida visiting my brother who just came back from Afghanistan. When are plane was 15 seconds from landing in NY my plane ascended back in the air, to which I looked out the window and saw a plane fly by. It was near collision with an airplane. After arriving home my cat was missing and has been missing for a week.
The following Friday I was in an accident with a vehicle with my 6 year old daughter and dog. The lady reversed from her driveway into my car, luckily hitting the front passenger side and not the middle or me and family would be in a lot worse condition.
On Sunday my dog was in a fight with a dog that was boarding at our house and it was a bloody mess. My dog was almost taken away, although she was protecting my daughter and 3 of her friends, since the other dog, not ours, got out of the cage.

Upon writing this my cat literally showed up at my door, maybe my luck and fate just flipped by writing this down to the universe.


Any advice on how to create a positive energy to remove this negative vibe from me, before I am dead from this crazy unfortunate events???

I've felt like this before!

You could try a smudge stick, if that type of thing is not offensive to you. I like smudge sticks, whether they work or not.

Be as positive as humanly possible... and spread that positivity around.

be generous, unselfish.... kind...

Positive attracts positive my friend...

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I don't know I have done magic, didn't know if it would work, to have better luck but I have only had bad luck since. Never doing anything like that again. Is all I know.

Originally posted by greenfox83


Any advice on how to create a positive energy to remove this negative vibe from me, before I am dead from this crazy unfortunate events???

Wow, that's a lot for one week! I bet you are exhausted. Perhaps the Universe is telling you to slow down and appreciate life by showing you different ways it could end abruptly.

Since you have been through so much in the last week, perhaps your luck will change, and you will be curse free for the rest of the next year!

I wouldn't dwell on it too much though, you know attracting what you think about and all that stuff!

That sounds like you were lucky, not unlucky.
You didn't die or get hurt, right?

You have to find a way to center yourself. Meditation, a walk in the park, something relaxing. When you start thinking negative is around you , in a sense you are actually inviting it in. Do not give the negative energy on this plane any reason to think that they can control you or your actions and they give up. Then of course there are just sometimes when you just can't win for losing. I hope everything gets better.

PLPL

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You are right about that, I just had a bruised head and knee from the shower and injured back from the car accident. I am grateful for not dyig, but I do feel that there is something or someone thats trying to give me a wake up call.

Hey,

Sorry to hear what has happened to you and your family and animals.

My family and a number of people I know have had terrible times and there doesn't seem to be much improvement on the way. However, for me coping is about being content within and although times are miserable, that inner part of me keeps me going, the majority of the time.. I would imagine you are extremely busy but if you can get that inner peace, it helps.

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It's your karma, go do something good and good things will happen for you.

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hmmm that's cool!

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These are wake-up calls. The Universe, the higher realm, call it what you will....you are out of balance in some area. And, I don't know what that is.

All I know is that if you were in balance, you would be experiencing the natural forces in a positive way....so something is askew. You know what that is....Like a Kalidescope....turn the knob....change your outcomes.

Perhaps try giving some money to a charity. Twenty bucks or something? And some meditation to clear yourself of negative energy. That would be my advice.

I have always been a giving person, I am member of the gallon club for my local blood donation center, I'm a step-mother who gives love and attention to children that were abandoned by their mother. I give clothes away to people I know who need them, I'll give the coat off my back to someone whose cold, I thank God or the powers that be for all my blessings and thank those who help me. I am a firm believer in "pay it forward" and I go above and beyond what I need to do.
I never have been a person with luck, never win anything or happen to stumble upon something good, I like most have to grin and bear life, but when a series of unfortunate events occur I take things seriously. I ask upon my ancestors to help those in need and now I need prays that these events are over and I can now understand my life is out of balance. I know I am not where or who I should be in life. I have all the time in the world and none to spare. I want to accomplish so much, but can't accomplish one thing. For the past year I have been stuck, trapped in my life with no movement towards a goal.
I just wish and pray my life will turn for the good and with a purpose that's bigger. I have conflict within me I am ready to except the new things (i.e. ghosts, aliens, obe's) but truly to scared to face it. Most of my life I hide, I never been in a fight a serious arguement with a stranger and never had a backbone. Maybe these near death experiences are for to realise I need to fight for what I believe or maybe I'm just rambling, but most of all I need to be a better me. Where to begin is the question?

I find it's cute how you seriously fear you might be "dead from those crazy events"..in fact what you told what happened to you was luck and you should be grateful.

You are complaining and creating negative energy.....please tell me how OTHER people should feel who REALLY had bad luck in their lifes?

What about the person who lost someone in a car accident?
What about the person who fell and is now paraplegic for their rest of their life?
What about the persons where something terrible happened to their kids, their house burned down or was destroyed in a tornado etc..etc..?
What about the persons where their son went to Afghanistan BUT DID NOT COME BACK?

Do you see how, yes, pathetic it is to create negative energies without any reason? If anything, you should learn to be thankful for whatever you have...instead of focusing on "what if" scenarios....

Originally posted by nidstav
Perhaps try giving some money to a charity. Twenty bucks or something? And some meditation to clear yourself of negative energy. That would be my advice.

That's not going to work. It would require to give up a part of yourself to do good deeds and expecting nothing in return.

Originally posted by greenfox83
I must begin by saying I am a spiritual person, not one to go to church, but believe in the power of the universe. In the past week I have had a series of unfortunate and near death experiences. It seems like I am in the movie "Final Destination" and I'm the main character. Don't know if someone has unintentionally put a hex on me or if I am going through a test of my existence.
It started last Thursday night when I got out the shower to retrieve a wash cloth and entered the shower, where I slept and fell on my knee and banged my head, could've been a lot worse.
On Monday I was returning from Florida visiting my brother who just came back from Afghanistan. When are plane was 15 seconds from landing in NY my plane ascended back in the air, to which I looked out the window and saw a plane fly by. It was near collision with an airplane. After arriving home my cat was missing and has been missing for a week.
The following Friday I was in an accident with a vehicle with my 6 year old daughter and dog. The lady reversed from her driveway into my car, luckily hitting the front passenger side and not the middle or me and family would be in a lot worse condition.
On Sunday my dog was in a fight with a dog that was boarding at our house and it was a bloody mess. My dog was almost taken away, although she was protecting my daughter and 3 of her friends, since the other dog, not ours, got out of the cage.

Upon writing this my cat literally showed up at my door, maybe my luck and fate just flipped by writing this down to the universe.


Any advice on how to create a positive energy to remove this negative vibe from me, before I am dead from this crazy unfortunate events???

From what I'm seeing here, you're escaping with no injuries or death, so where's the bad luck? You're skating right through a swarm of really treacherous moments, and if you were being targeted, the first one would've taken you out.

Bad things happen to good people in this world, and for no other reason that because those people intersect with those unfortunate moments, just as bad people do, and just as all things do from time to time. The universe isn't the slightest bit interested in you, regardless of how wonderful and important you believe yourself to be. In the end, you'll be taken out by something (disease, accident, misadventure, age, or a moment of serendipity) and the universe won't have had a hand in that bit of misfortune either. It'll just be your own version of what the rest of us will have to deal with, and if it's spectacular, then at least you'll make the 11:00 news.

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Wow, what a story. Sorry to hear about all that.

Keep in mind that everything that happens is for a reason and it can suck greatly. Try to place a spiritual value to the endurements placed on your life.

My heart goes out to you and your are in my thoughts. Prayers are subject to God. I will try.

Best wishes.