posted on Oct, 10 2011 @ 03:07 PM
The love versus sex argument shouldn't even be a part of the discussion.
I personally don't separate sex from love. I've never been a fan of one night stands. But I have had plenty of relationships where it was obvious
that we weren't on the path to marriage. And both of us were Ok with that. We just enjoyed being with each other and we left it at that.
It's such a crazy hang up that being in a relationship means you are going to spend "forever" together and make babies.
It's the same as saying, Choose Carefully people. You only get to buy ONE car. And you'll be stuck with that vehicle for the rest of your life. So
you can only test drive a car after you've signed the loan agreement.
That's just nuts. I don't have a problem renting a car. Whenever I take a road trip of more than 100 miles, I rent a car. My woman is hitting that
point in life where she and I are going to have to seriously discuss the idea that I can "rent" another wife from time to time when she isn't
feeling up to it.
She has told me flat out she'd rather I see a prostitute than start an affair on the side. Affairs are emotional backstabbery in her opinion. Where
as a prostitute is just me getting a professional version of the amateur hobby she and I share. I'm pretty sure she also said it because she knows I
can't do one night stands. So it would be really difficult for me to see a prostitute without spending a week getting to know her first. LOL
Bottom line. As long as someone wants to be a prostitute by their own choice, they should be allowed. It's not shameful at all.