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Originally posted by savageheart
reply to post by bigfatfurrytexan
It has been four years of this with my son. He has been to many a counselor, 4 psychologists, 3 psychiatrists, in home counseling 4-5 nights a week as well as trying different medications. The psychiatrist he now sees has explained that yes, he knows right from wrong, yet he is indeed very manipulative....
Originally posted by Equinox99
The only thing that is hurting the kids is the terrible education system. The education system needs to be revamped so that more hands on learning is applied and less boring old textbooks. Text books will be the hardest barrier to challenge the newest generations considering we can get a full chapter online in less than half a page. We want straight get to the point material and not the crappy boring stuff.
There is nothing wrong with my generation we are trying to adapt to a world of boring education and fun internet.
Originally posted by savageheart
reply to post by bigfatfurrytexan
No, I do call him dude, son, my friend, as the case may be. Perhaps you missed the part where he was not in my life for the first 7 years.and yea, I wanted him to feel comfortable with me.
Originally posted by space cadet
Parenting is no longer a longed for position, it is a chore, part of the every day grind. Personally I think it is time for folks to quit trying to keep up with technology, quit pouring it into their kids lives, go back to a one parent working home and live a little more humble, it would afford the time to actually parent a child, to nurture a child, to teach a child. Pull the phones and gaming devices out of their hands, go fishing, hiking, camping, riding around and singing, ect. I know most might think their child will be behind on technology, rendering them useless in the workplace, but what is really worth more, your time with your children, or being tech savvy?
Originally posted by bigfatfurrytexan
I am disgusted by what passes for parenting. Especially among men. Men in America tend to be very disappointing fathers. Especially among the younger men, who think it makes them "pimp" to not have to go to work, but have a woman pay the bills. Then they wonder why i treat them with contempt. I will treat a leper like my brother, but a thug "pimp" is where i draw the line. It is the one "type" of person that i will discriminate against.
Originally posted by bigfatfurrytexan
reply to post by korathin
Don't make the men sound like a victim. They aren't. As a man, you CHOOSE when to have a child, and who to have it with. The male has all the control he needs to prevent a pregnancy with someone. In short: find a decent mate first.
Originally posted by bigfatfurrytexan
Be involved in your kids life. It is unnatural for a kid to hate their father. Trust me, after my father beat me and mom, and screwed around on mom, i still (for some unknown reason) wanted him in my life. I was a kid, needing a dad. I don't buy that mom can make a kid hate dad. Especially if dad is a decent man worth looking up to, sacrificing for the kid...being a good parent.
Now, you may have pointed out a RARE occurance, but i do not believe for a minute that it happens often. At least not to men who try to be decent men/husbands/fathers.
Originally posted by bigfatfurrytexan
reply to post by Annee
Tomorrow is my 16th anniversary. I can swear to you that women are the better part of humanity. It is a shame the way women have been treated in history.
Originally posted by bigfatfurrytexan
How many parents can say that there has never once been a night that their kids went to bed wondering where they were. Or that strange people have been at the house after the child has gone to bed. Or that they don't participate in screaming matches with the kids playing audience to a tragedy?