Just a reminder, based on the replies I've read....
The laws were made a LONG time ago, by men who lived in a predominantly Christian culture AS Christians. We can't attack it...it just IS. Our
entire judicial system was set up on the same principles....it just IS. Those of you who are not well-versed in law making procedures, or how long it
takes to change just ONE law, consider the time it will take to change MANY laws. It can take many months to many years just to pass ONE law -
consider the fact that congress is involved and must agree on EACH AND EVERY ONE that is changed. I will say again, this is not an easy solution by
any stretch of the imagination, because no matter how they reword things, new cans of worms will be opened.....period. It is an extremely ugly mess
that has nothing to do with gay rights. Understand this.
Regardless of how anyone feels about DADT, the bottom line is that is it PROTECTING everyone from the laws right now. It was and still is a genius
and simple solution to compromise with both gays and those in congress who didn't want the laws to be changed, without touching the laws. Don't
forget that homosexuality is still a very charged subject in politics....it just IS. No sense in debating it. Let's not turn this thread into a gay
debate....what this is about is the law.
Aside from the law....the fact is, this is a topic very much charged by religious beliefs. This has nothing to do with me or any of you...it just IS.
Allow me to state to facts, and don't shoot the messenger!
Gays are by and large not of Christian beliefs, and Christians, by and large, do not
agree with homosexuality...no sense debating it....it just IS. Neither side can force the other to believe something they don't want to believe.
That is the beauty of living in a free country that protects our freedom of beliefs. But herein lies the conundrum...for these two groups to exist
together in peace, both must compromise, because both, by their very definitions and religious freedoms, will be intruding on the other no matter
what. Unless congress can find a way for both to exist with each other in peace, with compromise, this situation will only get worse regardless of
how the laws are changed.
Read carefully what I've written, and don't take this personally if you are gay or if you are pro-gay. As I said before, I have gay friends. But
getting upset and debating homophobia and/or homosexuality doesn't change the reality in which we live. I hate watching folks go back and forth in
ugly debates that aren't rooted in awareness of what the problem really is about. No one needs to preach their truth....just live it! The rest will
fall into place in due time. In the meantime, always ask yourself, "who's argument am I fighting?" Did you start it, or did someone else start it
for you? I think the media quite enjoys igniting gay rights issues, and too many folks enjoy jumping blindly onto that ride without ever considering
how easily they were baited into doing so. It is that reason alone that I question what will be in the new rewrite. Eyes open!