Teenager Sex With Cop's Daughter Leads To Arrest

reply to post by Becoming


What's sad is the acceptance, normalization and encouragement of violent behavior from adults toward children. At least one poster has mentioned the boy should have been beaten. These posts "promote illicit activities" (per the T&C of ATS).

reply to post by ExCloud


I guess what I was trying to say was lost to you. You have a problem with the girl being called a slut, but no objection to the boy being called a rapist.

reply to post by Hypntick


Good post my man/women. I enjoyed reading this. This is what I was saying. I was 15 and remember how i was and how the girls were my age or around my age. I know exactly what you mean about the cleaning of the gun etc. I would know the father is full of it. I am going to do it for fun some day. I would rather pull the "will smith" in bad boys 2 that would be a lot more entertaining.

reply to post by PresumedInnocent


I already stated I had a problem with both. Maybe it was the way you changed whore to "slut" I thought you were saying it in quotes as if to point out directly that I had mentioned you calling her a whore and thinking changing it to slut would be funny. Now I understand the quotes.

Originally posted by JohnnyTHSeed
reply to post by Becoming

 

What's sad is the acceptance, normalization and encouragement of violent behavior from adults toward children. At least one poster has mentioned the boy should have been beaten. These posts "promote illicit activities" (per the T&C of ATS).

I'm not accepting or promoting violence toward him or any other child and saying this kid should have been beaten is going to an extreme that should warrant banning.

What I am saying is a father putting the fear of god in a young man when it comes to his daughter is a sort of a rights of passage most young men has gone through in one way or another. All I see here is a father trying to protect his daughter by scaring the crap out of a young man.

I don't see any wrong doing.

reply to post by Becoming


Getting fear put into you by a girl's father is something that regularly happens to most guys. Happened to me a few times as well, it was all I could do not to laugh in their faces. The difference here is this, the handcuffs. As I said in my previous post, sure you can scare him, yell at him, show him the gun collection etc. But you can not and should not put your hands on him. That is the wrong doing here.

reply to post by Hypntick


Oh so threatening death is okay, but acting like you are arresting him is another story?

I don't see the reasoning behind your thinking. So what, he put handcuffs on the kid. Its not like he threw him to the ground and put a knee in his back. The kid wasn't hurt, only scared, I don't see where this is an issue.

reply to post by m0r1arty


but alas dont females mature earlier than males? that means she is atleast as mature if not more than he was. also why would you want to charge someone who had consensual sex with your daughter? your daughter would be breaking the law as well and should be punished as much as the male. i have to say you are one of the most ignorant people ive come across.

Originally posted by Becoming

Originally posted by JohnnyTHSeed
reply to post by Becoming

 

I'm not accepting or promoting violence toward him or any other child...

...scaring the crap out of a young man.

I don't see any wrong doing.

Those statements are contradictory. "Scaring the crap out of" the kid by handcuffing him and threatening him with things such as rape in prison, is an act of violence. So yes, by encouraging this behavior you are promoting violence against a youth.

reply to post by Becoming


Actually if you read my previous post I don't think either are okay. Showing the kid your gun collection isn't going to get you sent to jail however. Physically restraining someone will.

Yeah..

Blame the horny 15 year old, not the horny 14 year old.

You can't arrest the guy, but you can punish your daughter.

That's what he should have done.

Punish his dumb ho of a daughter.

reply to post by JohnnyTHSeed



Whatever you say, I guess I come from a differant background and a differant time.

You have your opinion and I have mine.

Another pointless thread... two kids have sex, big deal there are most likely millions in there age group that are doing that this very moment...If the cop wanted his daughter to not have sex, then he should take it up with her....I don't think scaring a kid is going to do much but make sure that at least one boy stays away from his daughter.

reply to post by m0r1arty

If you start having sex at 15 with a 14 year old girl then you've not got your priorities set clear.

I disagree. Sex is a very natural thing for teenagers to crave.
Instead of blaming human nature, perhaps the cop should arrange better supervision of his daughter.

Ok, I have an almost 15 yr. old son, who we have had to deal with before about "choices" when with a girl!

Having said that, the cop was in the wrong in my eyes because, although emotions run very high at times like these, his behavior was unproffessional, period. He showed up to this kid's house, in uniform, did not talk to the boy's parents first and then "pretended" to arresst him (false arresst anyone?) for a non-crime!!! Also, he called him names, stupid specifically comes to mind!!

I know that children should not be having sex this early in life, but you know what? They don't know that and I'd wager a guess that like 2/3's of us here didn't know that then either!! Pubescent hormones are a BI&%H to deal with and if you do not have the most loving, nurturing and supportive relationship with your parents or another trusted adult, you're gonna make a crap load of poor choices!

The society we live in today almost demands that both parents work and that kids, for the most part, are left to raise themselves on many levels. It's not right, but it is the unfortunate reality of America circa 2010! We created it, now we have to deal with it and sometimes taking responsibility for our actions sucks; as in this case!

If the officer in question had spoken with the boy's parents first and gotten their permission to run this scare tactic, we wouldn't be having this discussion!

reply to post by m0r1arty


In Cal 261.5.. sex between minors separated by 3 years or less is a misdemeanor. 830.1 (police officers) can only arrest misds that are committed in their presence (23152(a)vc being an exception)... unless it's a minor.

Without a lot more details it boils down to Dept policy, dealing with minors is a whole separate policy of "shall" not "may".. and then there's a whole can of worms relating to investigating incidents involving family/friends, what motor officers can, shall, may, and may not do while in uniform to/from their "RD" (reporting district).

Either way.. it's not a cops job to punish kids by intentionally scaring the poop out of them, he had an obligation to due his duty per dept policy and enforce the law.. or be a responsible law abiding model citizen and call the police... not summarily decide to teach a lesson he felt needed teaching.

If my son went over and bumped fuzzys on his daughter.. officer joe had better not lay a frik'n finger on my kid unless he's doing so "officially" and "on the record".. otherwise he's just some hostile dude in funky clothes punishing my 15 year old for having necessary game to hump his easily talked out of her clothes daughter.

Cuffing a kid is battery, maybe unlawful arrest or assault under the color of authority.. even kidnapping if joe transported my cuffed kid against against my kids will or robbery if joe emptied my kids pockets. Yell and scream at my son, piss & moan, heck.. call the cops. whatever man, do what you're gonna do.. but do not touch my kid unless it's official business and there are reports I can challenge and complaints I can file.. because if I have no legal or procedural options.. I'm just gonna have to stomp joe into pablum, then say "He committed battery on a child and I felt he needed to be thought a lesson"

www.leginfo.ca.gov...
261.5. (a) Unlawful sexual intercourse is an act of sexual
intercourse accomplished with a person who is not the spouse of the
perpetrator, if the person is a minor. For the purposes of this
section, a "minor" is a person under the age of 18 years and an
"adult" is a person who is at least 18 years of age.
(b) Any person who engages in an act of unlawful sexual intercourse with a minor who is not more than three years older or three years younger than the perpetrator, is guilty of a misdemeanor.

Consensual or not, screwing around with a cops daughter makes you an idiot.

Did he think the cop was going to shake his hand and say "Atta boy!"

Moron.

Originally posted by Darkrunner
Consensual or not, screwing around with a cops daughter makes you an idiot.

Did he think the cop was going to shake his hand and say "Atta boy!"

Moron.

Really, really?! I think it took hutzpha (spelling?) and in this day and age it was akin to Romeo and Juliette!! That is what these girls are looking for and if we're completely honest, it's what the boy's want to. They want to find that girl that all the songs on the radio are about. They want to steal her away from her horrible home life (which I can only imagine, as a female, that's what a cop's daughter feels)! Kids, especially early on in their sex lives are looking for "the one"!

Only as adults are OUR minds perverted by pornography and wanton desire. This is simply due to having multiple partners and wishing that the person we are currently with was more like so-and-so!! Children, which is what they are for all intents and purposes, simply want to find pure happiness, unconditional love and that person who makes them feel complete and can help through their current reality.

Just sayin'!! Think about it!

This is a very stupid thread
idk about you, but where im from, 15 is the normal age of losing your v card
no laws were broken, nothing unethical happened, you go through puberty at that age for a reason
arrest the cop for abusing his power, hes not the only bastard that does it
I have more disrespect for cops than respect, more often than not cops abuse their powers than use them for good
that is my opinion based off of experience and an overwhelming amount of evidence pointing towards corrupt cops
corrupt cops are worse than child molesters and killers to me, they can do way more damage than any 1 person alone, and get away with it

reply to post by m0r1arty


You're absurd, nobody agrees with you or takes you even remotely serious.

Your just one of those guys man, ill put you on the stupid side of the fence